I need serious advice on this, i just discovered that the Lady I wanted having serious affair with has a child for a man in her previous failed relationship. I just don't know what to do. Matured minds pls

Akerry:
her previous failed relationship.

It's no big deal, so far she's done with the kids father for real.

So what if she has a baby?

I have seen guys marrying single mothers. It's all about understanding. Just try to get things straight. Tell her to open and tell you everything you need to know

Unless the boy's father is dead. Otherwise something would always bring her back with the man.

no I have my reasons

At least you know she's fertile.

Seriously though, from experience, they are the most loyal. They stick with you cuz you thought them 'worthy' when everyone else saw ' second-hand'

The most important thing here is love but just beware of recurring feelings as long as she still has the kid with her.

If she isn't with the kid anymore, then you're alright.

Zinny25:
... Tell her to open and tell you everything you need to know

As if 80% of ladies will ever agree to open and tell you everything you need to know.

Bros nawao so she having a child for another guy don disqualify her abi

There is nothing bad in marrying her, it is all about love and understanding. As for me, i can marry a single mum/woman, because all have a past either good/bad. the best thing is just to sit her down and ask her to tell you about her past

ennyj01:
There is nothing bad in marrying her, it is all about love and understanding. As for me, i can marry a single mum/woman, because all have a past either good/bad. the best thing is just to sit her down and ask her to tell you about her past

hmmm tofikwa 4were i will never marry her over my dead body so far she hav known a man and she is nt a vigin

i don't know Y people see it as an achievement marrying a virgin? some non virgins are more holy than some virgins. As for me sha, anyone that comes my way am okay with it. although people are free to have their own opinions sha.

Mzihterchibest:

hmmm tofikwa 4were i will never marry her over my dead body so far she hav known a man and she is nt a vigin

Lalasticlala help ooo. FP material

Blakjewelry:
Bros nawao so she having a child for another guy don disqualify her abi

to some extent, Yes.

Akerry:
to some extent, Yes.

Why?

Blakjewelry:

Why?

I just feel I won't be okay with it

Akerry:
I just feel I won't be okay with it

well this is new year and I suggest you change that mindset. it is because of such reasons that make a lot of women stays in abusive relationships. so what of guys that have kid or kids out of wedlock, what of women who taught all was good until bros changes when she gets pregnant, to me what is important is the person I am dealing with, if she is sweet and loving mehn I will even love the child like my own

Blakjewelry:

well this is new and I suggest you change that mindset. it is because of such reasons that make a lot of women stays in abusive relationships. so what of guys that have kid or kids out of wedlock, what of women who taught all was good until bros changes when she gets pregnant, to me what is important is the person I am dealing with, if she is sweet and loving mehn I will even love the child like my own

well! That is why we are humans. One man's food is likely to be another man's poison..... I think I have made up my mind on the issue already. Thanks for your intuitive contributions