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Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by kallmemrB: 6:45pm On Jan 03
shaybebaby:

That happens in some cases which is a shame, a child needs both parents.
However, this instance is different because should the questioned ever be asked about the dad's whereabouts, one won't have to look far. As long as he doesn't allow himself to be pushed out, she isn't going it alone.

But we talking about this focus on women raising kids alone with the father nowhere in sight. That's because he walked away. Ofcourse society shames her but no one actually stops to think that there is nothing stopping a mother from walking away from her child too.e.g not every child left in an orphanage is without living parents.

So a person choses to stay and take up the responsibility regardless of the manner of conception of the child deserves enormous respect. Especially because they are playing the role two people should play.
That's true...

my question is how do u expect an Average Single guy to cope with this kinda Baggage... Some guys greatest responsibility ever is their expensive phone now Imagine a Family
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by shaybebaby(f): 7:20pm On Jan 03
kallmemrB:
That's true...

my question is how do u expect an Average Single guy to cope with this kinda Baggage... Some guys greatest responsibility ever is their expensive phone now Imagine a Family
What is the baggage exactly? She is taking care of herself and her child's needs prior to meeting the fella. What extras would he have to give as opposed to dating a childless lady? The only constraint is her time, she would not be as flexible as she has to make time for her parenting duties.
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by lefulefu(m): 7:20pm On Jan 03
tosyne2much:
I wan tidy one single mother give you oooo make you take do new year cheesy
my main guy happy new grin grin grin
u got one with ukwu? grin grin

Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by kallmemrB: 7:42pm On Jan 03
shaybebaby:

What is the baggage exactly? She is taking care of herself and her child's needs prior to meeting the fella. What extras would he have to give as opposed to dating a childless lady? The only constraint is her time, she would not be as flexible as she has to make time for her parenting duties.
Darling that's the theorical aspect of it...in reality most of the responsibilities shift to the guy, that's the way of life in Nigeria
That's why I always laugh when some ladies in Nigeria claims feminist cos most ain't independent...
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Divay22(f): 7:48pm On Jan 03
Single mum deserve respect, they deserve love, they shouldn't be look down on because of the circumstance they found themselves...
They are always the victim.while the man go ahead with life like nothing happened...

I respect them..
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by shaybebaby(f): 7:55pm On Jan 03
kallmemrB:
Darling that's the theorical aspect of it...in reality most of the responsibilities shift to the guy, that's the way of life in Nigeria
That's why I always laugh when some ladies in Nigeria claims feminist cos most ain't independent...
Then that is symptomatic of country itself. People can hardly get by themselves, unequal wealth distribution, lack of jobs etc. Everyone is trying to survive, single man, single mum inclusive.

But, if there isn't a runaway dad but one who is providing his share for the child they made together, there's nothing extra for the single man to do apart from being her man as he would if she didn't have a child.

So, if you find yourself being responsible for a child that isn't yours, it's because a fellow man like you abandoned his responsibility.

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Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by tosyne2much(m): 7:56pm On Jan 03
lefulefu:
my main guy happy new grin grin grin u got one with ukwu? grin grin
So na ukwu sure pass ba? cheesy
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Espada10: 8:12pm On Jan 03
ubunja:
good topic.
its bad enough that a woman didnt give you her virginity and its adding salt to the wound that she didnt give you her first born.
i have spoiled many relationships of my friends who were hypnotised by single mothers.i once even paid a local Player to seduce one single mom a close friend was dating. and poof went the affair.and i didnt even feel any guilt.i cant betray a friend and let him be enslaved by a single mom's pvssy.
Guys need to know that the Single Mother kept you in the Friendzone while she went to hoe herself out.now she wanna grant you access coz her own value has gone down becoz of the kid.a single mother would be beyond your league if she didnt have that kid.that kid is what got her disqualified from dating her baby daddy.it made her lose value.
and even if a Single Mother made a mistake ITS NOT YOUR DUTY TO FIX IT. you were not there when she and the baby daddy were cumming in each other.you can not now offer your services to clean -up the mess.NO way.
guys i know you hunger for love.and i know Single Mothers use this weakness in all men to gain advantage.coz no woman can love you as deeply as a single mother can.still, rise above that and seek for what you trully deserve : a woman whose womb has not turned another man's sperm into a baby.a virgin womb to lay as a foundation to build your perfect family on.

grow some self-respect niggar.

Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Espada10: 8:15pm On Jan 03
Espada10:
dating singke mothers may be fun though but marriage ..no no no count me out... believe me, single mothers are good for having fun ..they will do anything for you at that initial stage.. sex is the bomb with them..any style you want they will give it to you. they will cook and make you feel like a king....they are desperate like that but once you became stupid enough to marry her then OYO is your case...you will be watching your life going down like in a thermometer tube. You won't even know what hit you and how it hit you. All the thing she use to do for you will stop and her true colour will begin to show.Single mothers and oloshos are the worst set of women you can wife.
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Martin0(m): 8:16pm On Jan 03
shaybebaby:
Single mum will date whoever it is she finds good enough and who values her in return be it divorced, single dad, single bloke or whatever.
Is this another attempt to place limitations of women and their choices in the dating pool? undecided

They should actually be celebrated because you know that saying, "for every woman raising a child alone, there is a deadbeat dad somewhere".







Uhmmm lemm be observing you!


Hahahahah Gawd I nor jus fit laugh oogringrin

I go agree to this comment base on who be!
Even if say I know the story and even if I can disagree!
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Martin0(m): 8:18pm On Jan 03
pocohantas:
Menism is a tough call cheesy

Poco poco! Poco poco! How many times I call u?gringrin
Anyway my jus dey around sha!
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Martin0(m): 8:27pm On Jan 03
lefulefu:
my main guy happy new grin grin grin u got one with ukwu? grin grin

Na wa oo!grin
So u wan con dey fuvck single mum abi?grin
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by shaybebaby(f): 8:35pm On Jan 03
angry angry
Martin0:





Uhmmm lemm be observing you!


Hahahahah Gawd I nor jus fit laugh oogringrin

I go agree to this comment base on who be!
Even if say I know the story and even if I can disagree!
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by lefulefu(m): 8:39pm On Jan 03
tosyne2much:
So na ukwu sure pass ba? cheesy
guy find me a single mom with dis type of Venza and i will give u 10 billion from my tarty billion savings akant grin

Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Martin0(m): 8:47pm On Jan 03
shaybebaby:
angry angry

Shuuuu u dey tight face follow me now?
Nor jus tight face for where I dey ooo!
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by lefulefu(m): 8:49pm On Jan 03
Martin0:



Na wa oo!grin

So u wan con dey fuvck single mum abi?grin
na wa for u ooo cheesy cheesy cheesy
anything wrong in playing with a single mom in za oza room? cheesy cheesy
na only marriage i no fit do cos i no want make d babydaddy hire boys to arrange my matter oo cheesy cheesy cheesy.
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Martin0(m): 8:53pm On Jan 03
lefulefu:

na wa for u ooo cheesy cheesy cheesy
anything wrong in playing with a single mom in za oza room? cheesy cheesy
na only marriage i no fit do cos i no want make d babydaddy hire boys to arrange my matter oo cheesy cheesy cheesy.


Hahahahahah nothing wrong ooogringrin

But can u satisfy this robot so? A single mum na big assignment oo!

One of my secondry school guy currently is doing the job of a single mum in za oza room and according to him it like mathscheesy

Can u solve the maths problemgringrin

Abeg oo I still like u ,I nor wan con dey see u reduce in size oogrin
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by lefulefu(m): 8:54pm On Jan 03
Martin0:



Hahahahahah nothing wrong ooogringrin

But can u satisfy this robot so? A single mum na big assignment oo!

One of my secondry school guy currently is doing the job of a single mum in za oza room and according to him it like mathscheesy

Can u solve the maths problemgringrin

Abeg oo I still like u ,I nor wan con dey see u reduce in size oogrin

Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Martin0(m): 8:58pm On Jan 03
[quote author=lefulefu post=63868050][/quote]
I don tell u ma own oogrin

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Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by Cuteamigo1(m): 9:16pm On Jan 03
single mother is a no no for me except if she is divorced or a widow.
Re: Single Guys Vs Single Mother's by mcdokwe(m): 11:15am On Jan 05
To those speaking against single moms from the perspective of them as hookers. Permit me to speak from perspective of a single mother I know and love. They are single moms because they made a conscientious choice not to add murder to the burdern of their conscience. They are guilty to the point they had sex all by themselves. From experience, if you are not a virgin, you are no better than a single mom, you can only be worse as a result of the possible number abortions you might have commited

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