VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

PLAN B BOYFRIEND, ORIGINAL MUGU

so he proposed without even knowing where you live? I think all of ya deserve yourselves .

This one is strong ....As a guy am feeling cold right now, in a time like this, in this generation oluwa heal our land. so, ladies self have backup boyfriend... unchiiiiii!! (I sneezed)

Back up boy friend, hahahaha wat I used to ear is back up goalkeeper, men don suffer

nikkypearl:
Backup boyfriend?
Sum pussy yaff suffer

All these nonsense must stop!!!

u not lookin badht

Help me tell d girl that she doesn't know what she wants....

So she dey shook main bf dey shook backup bf.... Just register her in dem olosho register

Lol.
Most guys have side Chic's now.
Why you all insulting the girl.
OP, na u sabi o. Fix it yourself. Nobody can advise u here.

is it because she said back up bf?....many girls/guys here have more than 3 to 5 back up bf/gf .....what ll u call cheating ?....is it not back up?. live the poor girl jare

iamJ:
u're not a virgin. Stop acting jor

u never can tell,cum to my house for affirmation

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

only professional roskos can help you now. Funny how you've been managing two dicks all the while and suddenly need advice to choose one.

biacan:
:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

ah swear... The thing weak me self... Imagine you courting someone and not knowing she is dating another who she already said yes to.. Ahh this ladies self I am not understanding them

nikkypearl:
u never can tell,cum to my house for affirmation

you are looking for trouble this girl....come to ur house to confirm it?.....confirm it with cock? or what?

I think she's in hot pepper soup was exactly was she backing up? Love?

desreek9:
Backup boyfriend- ladies
Side chicks- men

I dont blame her, she doesnt want to put her hope on one boyfriend incase he fvck up same way guys have side chick incase the main chick fvck up


She should marry him, he is more serious than the main guy.

birds of a feather....go through ur post again...does dah sound reasonable to u?...

Huee:

She didn't place her hope on one guy, probably she didn't expect the backup boyfriend to turn out serious.

That's not an excuse, the relationship might have reach the stage of mutual and serious feelings b4 the guy could proposed to her.

segebase:



u not lookin badht

you behave ur self... u dey hear me so?

�� na ona dey make all this girls they insult guys so....this is new year....na only u see her picture?

VastFinder:
“My Back-Up Boyfriend Proposed To Me And I Said Yes, What Should I Do” — Confused Young Lady Asks

A young Nigerian lady has written to relationship blogger, Joro Olumofin, that she is confused because her ‘back-up’ boyfriend proposed to her and she said yes.

The young lady has been hiding her engagement ring from her main boyfriend who is yet to pop the question to her.

Here’s what she wrote below ;



SOURCE: https://primesng.com/back-boyfriend-proposed-said-yes-confused-young-lady-asks/

THIS TYPE WILL STILL HAVE A BACKUP HUSBAND AFTER MARRIAGE....
NAWA FOR SOME GALS........

I thought it is computer or some electronic gadgets you back up files...So human beings get back up also....Wait ooooo, she said she stays with d main guy, how come d so called back up guy didn't know where she stays? D story b like story for the Gods....

with the way my so-called gf is behaving, I think she is using me as back up bf. May thunder fire u Amaka! I don wise up

Move out of his house now, don't allow anybody delay you o.

It's funny how men suddenly become the victims on this thread. Don't forget y'all started the game of keeping sidechicks and in most cases it's four, five or more. Ladies have now mastered your own games and y'all are complaining.

The babe is just smart 'cause to the best of my knowledge, her main nigga may end up dumping her for another pussy when he's made. Men are humble when they're broke.

Quit playing the victim's card here. We know better who the real victims are.

If na the guy dump am now...some girls now go dey shout on top of their voices...he's a bad nigga,after all these years...some girls commenting on this issue, dey form 'if there is anything like back up boyfriend'...check some of them, they have like 4/6 backup boyfriends...Bleep hoes,they ain't loyal..

kimbraa:
Silly question. Break up with the time killer and announce your engagement to your family.

Once she does, she would be sent parking

desreek9:
Backup boyfriend- ladies
Side chicks- men

I dont blame her, she doesnt want to put her hope on one boyfriend incase he fvck up same way guys have side chick incase the main chick fvck up


She should marry him, he is more serious than the main guy.

[s]Naah...side chicks are definitely not for insurance.[/s]

Alonso91:
Yeeeepa mogbe,back up ke man don suffer,,,,,,





mak I go ask my bae o mk I knw which category I dey ooooooooo

God bless you ..I have to do that right now to avoid story that touch.

sulmeza:
birds of a feather....go through ur post again...does dah sound reasonable to u?...

saint....don't u cheat?...or is it because she used the word "back up"?

Kennedy767:
is it because she said back up bf?....many girls/guys here have more than 3 to 5 back up bf/gf .....what ll u call cheating ?....is it not back up?. live the poor girl jare

i wonder why people pretend o.

taylor88:
Lol

Back up boyfriend


I think she's referring to Efe

A. K. A extra tyre

biacan:
:DBackup boyfriend...... but guys dey suffer for relationships ooo

See dis wan
How guys side chick u don do

majamajic:
really ?

raise the substitute board. ....... tell him its time for a reserve player to come in..

back to the topic... this night before sleep ask him abt his plans that someone wants to seek your hands according to your parents/siblings. ..so if u don't get a cool reply ...tomorrow morning tell him u will going home to answer your parents during the weekend. .if no moves....then appear with the ring next week from home ...let him fin solutions.

To say this is coming from a guy. You no even send

Lets save a brother from marrying olosho... Lets find all does who got engaged within the past 3 weeks..

You appointed assistant/deputy boyfriend for your guy.

Wehdone ma!