mhisbliss:
10/11 lol

delishpot:


No, they just take it like biology. Although they once were wanting new siblings and said in our presence mom, dad...when will you guys get sex and give us brothers and sisters? sometimes they look at new babies and ask if those were also as a result of mom and dad getting sex? yes, they processed the info openly but nothing extra. They just were curious. If you mention sex they will just laugh because the process is funny to them. They still wonder how dad gets his peepee inside the moms vagina tho. I told them it is lesson for another day. if they ask again tho, I will tell.
Although I never discouraged them from talking about their bodies, the major eye opener for me was when my son came home saying he now knows how babies are made. I said oh yeah.... who taught you? he said a friend showed him from a book at school. Fortunately it was a book about conception and pregnancy. showing the sperm and egg meeting and what happens till full term. I thought it was a matter of time before he might see a video. make we teach them before world people teach them anyhow for us.

sirBLUNT:
wow am still laughing....i can imagine the laughter afterward but did your parent talk to you about sex education after you said that?

mhisbliss:
oh my God I'm just laughing out loud here, when I was younger I see the word sex as a call for cruxification and the kids who mention it are super spoiled, wao you're really trying, I can't deal with that, I'd have to do it in a subtle way though

delishpot:


Do it as it is comfortable for all of you. My kids are just used to asking and we tell them the truth but in a way that their brain can get at that stage. Take your time and make them feel comfortable in their skin. problem starts when the child thinks what he is saying or asking is a taboo.

mhisbliss:
I can deduce from your write up that your kids are intelligent and matured as well, that's all I hope for, some stupid kids would make a career out of it just to make you regret

mhisbliss:
no they threatened to buy an ugly tiny baby we saw, it cries a lot, I was terrified and begged them to keep my quiet, big, fair and hairy sister, lol I wallowed in ignorance but mum later gave me a light version of the sex talk when I started seeing aunt flo

sirBLUNT:
perhaps if you were not a girl and the flo you will not have been thought that much..delishpot is so onpoint i want to be a dad like him i think you should take a que from him too before your daughter ask you when are they going to buy the pretty baby too lol

lol if flo hadn't showed up I wouldn't have gotten it, and that thought me a lot, that we can't be like westeners for one, but delishspot has taught me we can have it without doing any damage

delishpot:


hahaha, well they are smart and like to discuss about everything. Depends on when the talk starts and if you make it a hush hush affair plus the environment. They may be prone to abuse when they mention what they know to other kids or neighbors who may take it like they are spoilt. So parents need to watch who they leave their kids with and also correct other over sabi adults that may judge the child negatively. If kids are made to believe that nature handles things from design to function, they will not take it like a big deal. The earlier the better according to the child's wisdom.

the school they attend also plays a major role, they might innocently mention it to the hearing of a highly religious teacher and get the beating of their lives not knowing its ya fault

mhisbliss:
the school they attend also plays a major role, they might innocently mention it to the hearing of a highly religious teacher and get the beating of their lives not knowing its ya fault

delishpot:



No ooo, we tell them some people feel those parts are not to be mentioned outside the home but we believe they are smart and need to know. They know that people are judgmental towards those things. They don't attend school where a teacher can just beat them. Me I go flog that teacher too no be lie funny enough they never said anything to non family members. in short I think they discuss such only with us and their grand ma they have NEVER gone to anyone else to discuss issues about the body.

In my opinion start as soon as they ask and also make them know that not everyone appreciates talking about such things so anytime they need to talk, they wait till dad and mom are available. Also tailor the lesson according to the child's mental capacity and environment.

mhisbliss:
lol if flo hadn't showed up I wouldn't have gotten it, and that thought me a lot, that we can't be like westeners for one, but delishspot has taught me we can have it without doing any damage

sirBLUNT:
someone is now on the right track congratulations...and thanks delishpot for sharing your wisdom...to marry now don dey hungry me oo

mhisbliss:
lmao calm down marriage itself is a problem on its own

mhisbliss:
looking them in the eye and telling them how to have safe sex and avoid pregnancy and do funny stuff is so unafrican and uncomfortable, jeez

mhisbliss:
very innocent, I can't forget the day I had to go and see my newborn kid sis in the hospital, dad took me and when I came and saw many newborns crying I was more than convinced they were on sale, coming to meet mum she showed me a very fair and hairy baby and I was like wao, you choosed the prettiest, see laughter everywhere

mhisbliss:
oh my God you guys are rare kind of parents, like you aint nigerian, I'd faint before I say it to an innocent kid lol, until I was 12 I used to believe babies were bought from the hospital

Yoshy:
. Lols hospital? Hahahaha

lol I'm telling you

marwanafrica:

In your own westernice mind abi?
mind you I love islamic respond to this topic at hand. Islam said flee away from pre marital sex, and Am so cool with this respond.
nothing like safe sex, or how to avoid pregnancy

sirBLUNT:
dont mind me oo i fear marriage morethan dead itself..

BiafraBushBoy:
Nooo...

Jeez... Like how will I start? No sex talks till any of them gets to13.

Then I can start introducing some lil tips and ***** to them.

BiafraBushBoy:
Nooo...

Jeez... Like how will I start? No sex talks till any of them gets to13.

Then I can start introducing some lil tips and ***** to them.