lilmax:
EOD

not all girls do that. a girl might not b a virgin but decide to have a sex free relationship till marriage, it doesn't mean she have some1 out there banging her. we still have sincere girls

ubunja:
this thread is turning into one of those boring Virgin Bashing excercises

no dear, I have no intention of bashing virgins, I hold them in high esteem.

gloria34:
this is my first topic on nl, pls 4give my typos and short comings.

I am yet to understand what men want. u hear guys say 'I can't be in a relationship without sex', yet they say they want a virgin bride. when they hear a a girl is not a virgin, she is branded as a prostitute, yet they demand sex 4rm their girlfriends. a girl once told her boyfriend she wants them to stop having sex till they are married and d guy immediately quit d relationship. most guys can't do, they come online to say d opposite and are quick to condemn anygirl who is not a virgin. i really want to know, guys, what do u really want?

boys want sex, men want money and they spend this money on some "enjoyment". A woman comes under the enjoyment. Sorry you been dealing with boys. Start dealing with men, you will see things differently.

A man wants a lady that is an all round blessing and not a burden. Some girls have been termed cheap by some guys for serving them sex cheaply. A lady of substance is a lady of character. Our character is our worth.

majekdom2:
boys want sex, men want money and they spend this money on some "enjoyment". A woman comes under the enjoyment. Sorry you been dealing with boys. Start dealing with men, you will see things differently.

if dealing with men means being seen as part of an 'enjoyment', I think I'll remain single

aigboeben:
A man wants a lady that is an all round blessing and not a burden. Some girls have been termed cheap by some guys for serving them sex cheaply. A lady of substance is a lady of character. Our character is our worth.

every1 comes with their baggage(male or female), an all round blessing seem to b an illusion.

gloria34:
every1 comes with their baggage(male or female), an all round blessing seem to b an illusion.

An all round blessing is not an illusion. At least, she develope herself to become a help meet and not 'hell meet '.

aigboeben:

An all round blessing is not an illusion. At least, she develope herself to become a help meet and not 'hell meet '.

that's true. but don't 4get guys need to work on themselves also

[quote author=gloria34 post=64003729]that's true. but don't 4get guys need to work on themselves also[/quote
The focus of the conversation is on ladies, not guys. What do you say about ladies who think they can trap guys with sex?

Y do you women always ask questions u already have answers to...y?

ur pussy nd that's all

sex....forget these hypocrites calling you guys olosho

[quote author=aigboeben post=64004842][/quote]I can't see d possibility in that. a guy can get sex anywhere, I believe in a sound brain, good manners, working hard and loving completely.

gloria34:
I can't see d possibility in that. a guy can get sex anywhere, I believe in a sound brain, good manners, working hard and loving completely.

But a lot of girls try that. It's a terrible shame. Do girls realise even bad guys want to marry good girls? Why become a bad girl to have a good marriage?

aigboeben:

But a lot of girls try that. It's a terrible shame. Do girls realise even bad guys want to marry good girls? Why become a bad girl to have a good marriage?

but a lot of things still confuse me, I'm yet to see a guy who will stay in a relationship without sex. maybe being a gud girl no longer have virginity among its virtues.

gloria34:
but a lot of things still confuse me, I'm yet to see a guy who will stay in a relationship without sex. maybe being a gud girl no longer have virginity among its virtues.

There are godly guys, and can actually stay in a relationship without sex. Virginity is a virtue

aigboeben:

There are godly guys, and can actually stay in a relationship without sex. Virginity is a virtue

never met 1

gloria34:
never met 1

Really? Look very well. There are a lot around, even on Nairaland

men wants what they cant get!

gloria34:
u need to work 4 dat. my probs is guys branding non-virgins as 'olosho' yet they bleep their g.fs

same way girls want nice guys but go with bad ones first

MIKOLOWISKA:
same way girls want nice guys but go with bad ones first

that's because girls are usually naive at d begining but get wiser with time. 4 guys insulting girls in that manner, I can't really find an excuse 4 them

themonk:

Anyway i dont really blame them because we live in a society where all information about love climaxes in sex. When you hear or see a caption such as "Man proposes to girlfriend after 10 years of dating". Reactions to that caption will be "so he has been banging the kpekus for 10 years" or when you are male and you have a valuable relationship with a female the reaction will be like "so you have been friendzoned".
Sex is now seen as a necessary ingredient in any male-female relationship. This society construct makes people feel they should get the gold medal (sex) whenever they have any interaction with the opposite sex. Its now a state of mind.

Spot On!

gloria34:
this is my first topic on nl, pls 4give my typos and short comings.

I am yet to understand what men want. u hear guys say 'I can't be in a relationship without sex', yet they say they want a virgin bride. when they hear a a girl is not a virgin, she is branded as a prostitute, yet they demand sex 4rm their girlfriends. a girl once told her boyfriend she wants them to stop having sex till they are married and d guy immediately quit d relationship. most guys can't do, they come online to say d opposite and are quick to condemn anygirl who is not a virgin. i really want to know, guys, what do u really want?

A loyal woman.

From women, all we want is _cunt and peace of mind.

Am not intrested in virgins, virgins are boring stuff
slutnotslut am ready to go
but virgin no,no,no,no,no,no,
if my girlfriend is a virgin then know for sure am breakingup with her, i hate to fúck virgin.

bullabong:
A loyal woman.

and what's ur definition of loyalty?

gloria34:
and what's ur definition of loyalty?

Loves and respects what we share.

gloria34:
that's because girls are usually naive at d begining but get wiser with time. 4 guys insulting girls in that manner, I can't really find an excuse 4 them

same way guys are naive trying to be nice before realizing the insults work wonders for getting laid. Same way girls insult guys calling them broke

MIKOLOWISKA:
same way guys are naive trying to be nice before realizing the insults work wonders for getting laid. Same way girls insult guys calling them broke

maybe insults work 4 d girls around them but I detest such guys.

Xinzu:
From women, all we want is _cunt and peace of mind.

u have to earn that peace of mind. u can't Ignor ur duties as a man and expect peace of mind

gloria34:
maybe insults work 4 d girls around them but I detest such guys.

so you say (u wen want rush go buy endowment cos of teenage beauty queen) but it's usually subconscious and they don't want you holy holy anyway. They want smashable chick's.no long tin. Konji na bastard o.

MIKOLOWISKA:
so you say (u wen want rush go buy endowment cos of teenage beauty queen) but it's usually subconscious and they don't want you holy holy anyway. They want smashable chick's.no long tin. Konji na bastard o.

lol, that was a joke. I have done my share of school pageants with my small breasts and I still win about two, I don't think seeing some endowed kids will make me shy of my size. I appreciate a guy who doesn't focus on sex, its boring