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Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Alehandre: 8:06pm On Apr 12, 2010
I have been married for a couple of years now and during the time, i was courting my wife, i met her mum on a different platform, even before she introduced me to her as her mother. I had been called upon by a colleague of mine to execute a quantity survey job for a lady, upon meeting the lady, we both hit it off right from the get-go………. (I have always been seen as very smooth with women of all ages).

One thing led to another, and it became I love you, you love me tale in the course of doing the job and before we knew it we were doing it for months. At a point, it dawned on us that we should call it quit, especially for my sake at that time, because I needed to settle down. I told her about and she refused and put up very stiff resistant, I had to assure her that my being married will not stop us from continuing our love beats, she relax after making me promise her to keep to my words.

Soon after, I stopped by tantalizer at ahmadu bello way in V/I to get a quick bite, that was where I met this very beautiful lady, whose dress got stuck in the way as we entered. I helped her pull the dress free and she was very appreciative of it. We got on the queue and struck up a conversation, to my greatest surprise, she was my old/ex girlfriend who had traveled to the U.S. on the auspice of her mum to live and school with her mum sister being that she was turning into a radical in nija. I was shocked. What a transformation?? She had grown up and blown up into a full lady with the entire curve in the proper places. Come and see drama in Tantalizer on that day. People who were standing in front and behind us almost ran out of their skins when they heard her scream so loud, upon realizing that I was the one. She screamed, cried, laughed and jump all over me. WE LEFT TANTALIZER, LEAVING THE FOOD WE HAD COME THERE TO BUY.

In the course of time I discover that she had come back home fully to assume her full management position in her mother’s business having graduated fro the university of Oregon. I was impressed. But everything fell apart when she told me who her mother was Chief Dr. Mrs. Dash, dash dash. My jaw dropped to the floor, she noticed my shock and I quickly gave a very good reason for that. After many attempts to get me to meet her mum which I had turned down, she eventually persuaded me. On the day I met the mum, the mum almost died. She played along and even went ahead to tell her daughter that I was one of her consultants and welcomed me very well. We had dinner, I left, just as I drive out of her home a call came in, and she instructed me to meet her in an hour at our usual place. I knew yawa don gas. I did and tried to explain to her that her daughter had been my g/f way back when she was still a little teenager, b4 she left for the U.S. She will not hear of it and asked me to stop the relationship immediately or be ready to lose her daughter, herself and most importantly my consulting contract with her firm.

I told her I am ready to do that, under the condition she tell her daughter the reason why I am breaking up with her, daughter that I cannot be held responsible for the action her daughter will take if I tell her. She refused and I told her she leaves me with no choice than to forge on with her. She later backed down and extracted a promise from me to continue our live triangle, as bad boy that I am I promised and she accepted me both as her son-in-law and as her lover. On the day of the wedding when everything had been put in place, Imelda (NOT REAL NAME), my wife’s friend from the U.S. who had come home to be her maid of honour had stopped by my house to drop of something for me from my wife to be and before I knew what was happening one thing led to another and we had a long rump.

This took place 3 more times before the wedding the following weekend, we walked down the isle and made our vows, We have been married for 1 ½ , and my wife started becoming uncomfortable with my closeness with her mum. When we visit her mum on some weekends, her mum will take me up to her room for minutes on end and come to have private talks with me that was her explanations to her daughter, until one day she (my wife) read a text in my phone sent by her mum for me to meet her somewhere. My wife started asking questions but I put her off and told her she was imagining things. She accepted my explanation because she could not picture her smooth, classy upright minded husband go to the extent of having anything to do with her mum, much more sleep with her. Until, one day Imelda called my wife from the U.S. and told her she was pregnant, my wife was very happy for her friend, but from my calculations. The age of the pregnancy she told my wife and back to the time we had our rump, it was clear to me I could be the owner of the pregnancy. When my wife told me about it, she was all smiling and full of prayers for her friend. I look at her and almost cried and wished I had not betrayed my wife who has dedicated her life and entire self to me since we reconnected and got married. I felt she did not deserve my wickedness… However, I did not know how to confess my sins to her. They were too much. I was afraid my confession could kill her and affect her condition, as she was pregnant at that time too. So I laid it off…!!!

Now she put to bed just about 5 weeks ago and had me a very beautiful boy, 3 days after my wife delivered, her friend Imelda also delivered a baby boy. She said will be coming home with the baby when the doctor gives her the go-ahead that she can travel with the child. My wife is happy about it and said she wants to see the baby and see if he look more like her or the father, the father my wife has not seen. Imelda sent me a picture of the child and wrote and I quote …, ’’The result of my secret deal with the daddy, he looks much like d daddy’’

Now she is coming back in a matter of 2 weeks with the child to show her people and my wife. What should I do to stop her. Should I confess to my wife or allow thing play out themselves and mamagae the crisis when it brokes.

My wife mother also called me yesterday and told me she is feeling funny, like having early morning sickness…….you know what that mean too!! MY LIFE CRASHING AROUND ME WITH FULL SPEED,,, I NEED YOUR HELP!! ANYBODY WITH A GOOD ADVISE AS TO WHAT I SHOULD DO NOW…. PLEASE TELL ME NOW!!!!!!!!![i][/i] cry cry cry
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Idowuogbo(f): 9:27pm On Apr 12, 2010
omg shocked shocked shocked :odis 1 pass hurricane katrina bruda liv d county b4 dem crucify u men long throat no go kill una angry angry angry angry
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Lcoolbabe(f): 10:03pm On Apr 12, 2010
bro u have to deal with whatever thing dat comes up, when u dey enjoy urself u forget all the consequences abi? , bt ur d, k no get break?
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by akin101: 11:08pm On Apr 12, 2010
omo na tusunami be dis o
run for ur life
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Tatase(f): 11:26pm On Apr 12, 2010
Guys like you give guys in general a bad name. Like it's so much worse that you shat in your own backyard, honestly. Like you should have told her about her mom, immediately! And should never have agreed to do both mother and daughter and then top it off with daughter's best friend, and then still marry the daughter! That's really BAD!!! And sorry things like that don't "just happen." You knew it was bad, and you went for it anyway.

Honestly, you've made your bed and now you must lie in it. You have 3 options:
1.) Come clean and just confess everything (not necessarily recommended because at this point it would be selfish, even though i think your wife deserves to know just what sort of person she's married).

2.) Carry on and pretend nothing has changed and see how things play out (which should really stress you out, which you absolutely deserve, but i think this is your best option).

3.) Get away from this triad of women and get out of the tangle you've made of your life and move on (which would involve leaving your children although of course you should still pay support for them and be in their lives. it would also involve leaving  your wife who may be traumatized initially, but who really should be with a good person who's more respectful of her. This is the toughest and most difficult decision but is something to consider because if the truth comes out it's never going to be ok between you and your wife, and between the mothers of your children).
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by KalEl3: 11:58pm On Apr 12, 2010
OK, You expect us to believe all that drivel?

It was so smooth like an excerpt from a local book,

Where you first shot yourself in the foot was the point where your Ex girl dress got caught @ Tantalizer, Yeah Right

And you came here first to ask for advise before asking Your mother in-law to abort because it's unheard off?
And you didn't bother to ask your Wife's friend to do the same?

I bet you would have more credit,To state this happened to someone or you read it somewhere
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by daduke2k(m): 12:25am On Apr 13, 2010
Seriously guyz i forgot the title of this movie. Who can help?
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Idowuogbo(f): 12:27am On Apr 13, 2010
i can its called am in love wiv three women i dont no which 1 2 use
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by chamotex(m): 12:52am On Apr 13, 2010
Raaassssclart!!!
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by chamotex(m): 12:54am On Apr 13, 2010
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Oaktree(m): 1:14am On Apr 13, 2010
sad
It is really a bad situation to be in,but there is always a complete/partial solution to every problem,only if we can come down,emotionally you are tensed up as a result of this,1.do that right thing you do when you want to relax,2.in this mode confess ask God for forgiveness,cleansing,3.worship him(GOD)while doing this ask him for direction on what to do as to this issue,
I am optimistic,if you do this with a sincere heart,he will direct and help you resolve all,
I will be praying with you,
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Ushersx(m): 2:15am On Apr 13, 2010
If yu ask mi. I dont think yu need anybody's help,When yur doing it,did yu ask for anybody's help?When yur eating do yu pass it thru yur nose?I dont think so,So yu definately know yur rite from yur wrong.You knew the conscequences but yet yu took the bull by the horn,So its now to act up like a manh and face the drama, tongue
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by CHIMCO(m): 2:16am On Apr 13, 2010
For you to meet Mother & daughter was a Sin. And to continue after getting to married to the daughter was a sin against GOD. You comitted act of sexual immorality & you must bear the consequncies, except you surrender your life to Christ immediately. There is no where to run to- your SIN must surely find you out.
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by rickie4us(m): 4:00am On Apr 13, 2010
this story is very fake ,
the story teller is even incoherent and I wonder why some people believe this super story ,  where the fish drowned and died of thirst
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by unitee(f): 4:23am On Apr 13, 2010
Nollywood
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by souljahman: 4:44am On Apr 13, 2010
this is super story grin
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Basics007: 7:17am On Apr 13, 2010
Tales by Moonlight (or is it by Nairaland?)
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by daduke2k(m): 8:03am On Apr 13, 2010
Yeah, dats correct. Lik my therapist says, i qoute: MADE.UP.SHIT.COM
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by SkySpirit(m): 10:18am On Apr 13, 2010
just arrange a triple 4 all of dem ;d ;d ;d ;d
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Spyker: 10:37am On Apr 13, 2010
This is either a make-believe story or you are in shit.
You want advise abi.
TELL YOUR WIFE THE TRUTH because the TRUTH shall set you free. Secondly, you can't hide the truth forever, it will surely come out and when it comes, the damage may be worse than now. A word is enough for the wise. Goodluck.

Thirdly, you need Jesus now than ever.
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by nellaluv(f): 3:21pm On Apr 13, 2010
nonsense, @ poster go Bleep urself angry angry angry angry angry
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by MPEROR: 3:31pm On Apr 13, 2010
boy u are in trouble, tell your wife and hope for the best
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Diva20(f): 3:43pm On Apr 13, 2010
So many amazing writers on NL. You should definitely make this a movie. Nigerians would eat it up just like many on this thread already are.
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by platinumnk(f): 3:45pm On Apr 13, 2010
They actually have a movie like this, and it did not end well ooo^^ lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Tipsy85(f): 3:47pm On Apr 13, 2010
I have never heard of such crap in my life, shocked. Most def, a fairy tale or worse still; a nollywood movie.wink.
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by Diva20(f): 3:51pm On Apr 13, 2010
@plat,I bet it was called 'For the Love of Alehandre'
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by scantee(m): 3:52pm On Apr 13, 2010
lotflmfao
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by TMoni1(m): 4:32pm On Apr 13, 2010
Ti e ti ba e, lol
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by platinumnk(f): 4:37pm On Apr 13, 2010
Diva 2.0:

@plat,I bet it was called 'For the Love of Alehandre'

hehehee it actually ended up very very badly!
The family of the cheater broke into pieces, and the wife of the man lost her baby, the mothers child died during birth, and after the birth the mother went crazy and died.
the wife divotrced the man and disgraced him amoung his peoples, the father of the man had a heart attack from the stress and died. And the man in his apartment tore his clothes and became a mad man for the rest of his life.

it was a truely horrible ending, I just hope alhandre is making it up, or wahalla is on his head o lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by labolabo: 5:29pm On Apr 13, 2010
Labolabo to da rescue after the 2 women drop the babies. Lickem all up!! tongue
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by horny4u(f): 6:00pm On Apr 13, 2010
Kpekele kpekele kpekele arogbo je gbe se ta no o son
I laugh in past tense,
Advise: Run keep running and never stop running always run, continue to run
RUN
Re: Help! My Wife’s Mother And Her Friend Are Having My Babies by breathless(m): 6:22pm On Apr 13, 2010
To all of u dat says d "dis is super story", "tales by moonlight", crap, etc etc etc, U are all CORRECT. Bros Poster, and to all of u dat live in Lagos n are familiar with V.I, there`s no TANTALIZER on Ahmadu Bello Way. (Except he just opened one) Dis poster just dey finger una brain. The only eateries on dat stretch is ON THE RUN by Mobil petrol station and Munchies almost adjacent to NTA. There`s a canteen in the premises of the TEXACO filling station and Calabar Kitchen by IMB (Now finbank).
Abeg, poster describe where dis ur "TANTALIZER" dey on dat stretch.

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