Top 10 Tips for a Great Relationship

1 Commit to telling the total truth

2 Astound your partner with your
generosity

3 Take responsibility for feeling
deeply loved

4 Make loving each other a priority

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5 Walk away when you get nasty

6 Find out your partners dearest
goals and dreams

7 Come back together even if
you're hurting

8 Know that things are not how
they appear

9 Accept growing pains

10 Be realistic


A relationship involves three essential components. You, your
partner and the truth. Every time you hold something back from
your partner, a piece of your passion dies.
Relationships work best when you ask yourself what you can give
to your partner, rather than working out what you can get.
Accept that it’s your job to educate your partner about what makes you feel most loved. Love your partner how they want to be loved, not how you want to be loved.

At some point in the day, ideally last thing at night, take the time to tell your partner exactly what you loved most about having them in your life.

Most of us get a little nasty when we feel backed into a corner.
Come up with a plan that allows either one of you to walk away
from a row when you catch yourselves saying things you’ll regret.

If you support your partner in achieving their deepest desires, you build a relationship that leaves a legacy.

Develop a simple ritual for coming back together after a fight.
Acknowledge that you fight only because you feel hurt. If you can accept that, it’s easier to have a truthful conversation.

Every relationship is a tangle of projection, transference and a dose of denial. It’s as if your partner is holding a mirror to your face and shows you what you hate most about yourself. The earlier you can stop blaming and start talking the better you’ll feel.

All relationships go through stages. Very few parents throw out
their children when they hit the ‘Terrible Twos’ so why leave a
perfectly workable relationship?

No one person is ever going to fulfill your every need and desire.

Imaginary couples fall in love quickly and we never really hear how it goes after the credits have rolled. Real couples fall in love slowly and live fully ever after.