Why do some men love women who treat them so badly?

It's as if they are addicted to hard and bad treatment:
[list][li]If they meet a woman who is flexible, understanding, yet firm and feminine, classy and sexy they don't want her and they mis-use her.[/li]
[li]But if they meet a wild woman who flirts with other men in front of them, yells and screams at him, takes his money, use him for sex and cheats on him, he's head over heels in love with her. [/li][/list]
Fellas, what's up with this?

I think you got it all mixed up. Your question should be why do women stay with men who treat them like trash??

Yes, you're right it does work on both ends. As A woman i was curious about the male side of it

Hey i can't stand a woman who won't give me attention...i'll bail out fast ...no kidding

Maybe the only reason for a man to stick withthe woman is if he's got no hope of better girls elsewhere, or too much in love that he is blinded to the realties on ground...or too lily livered

or if he's mad ugly

Is he hooked in a way we can't explain for now? or she is good in bed enough to allow him tolerate all the nonsense?

If they meet a woman who is flexible, understanding, yet firm and feminine, classy and sexy they don't want her and they mis-use her.
I disagree with you, I will keep her if I find someone like that. Still noone around like that.

Sometimes we say we want a thing but when we get it, we either don't realize what we have or we are afraid of it.

Not me

Really? That's interesting

Am very intelligent and balanced too, have a chip on both shoulders.

Oh No brother you have to brush the chips off of your shoulder.

No but really there are many men who stay with men who treat them badly, so do women. It's as if the bad treatment is a challenge or something. I just need peace

no 1 wants a dull person around every1 wants some1 who'll shake dem up a bit

I think you got it all mixed up. Your question should be why do women stay with men who treat them like trash??

ooh i hate them women who stay with men who treats them bad, i mean they be beatin the hell outta them
and still stay with him, some women think oooh hes gonna change , i love him , they keep feeedin themselves with all
this bullshiit, all am sayin is if he treats u bad get the hell outta there, word,

coz the sex is good and plentiful perhaps?

coz the sex is good and plentiful perhaps?

errhemm i doubt that is good sex, that makes em' stay
i think they might be more afraid of leavin,

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errhemm i doubt that is good sex, that makes em' stay
i think they might be more afraid of leavin,

i was referring to the original question but if we are talkin about man being bad to or hitting his woman then i agree with you its coz she be afraid . any man who hit a woman is no real man.

was referring to the original question but if we are talkin about man being bad to or hitting his woman then i agree with you its coz she be afraid . any man who hit a woman is no real man.

What happens when a woman treat a man badly is a psychological thing when a woman treats me wrong it turns me of cause instead of beating or mistreating her I get really aroused that i cannot wait to get her in bed, however if it's someone at work where you know you are not going out with that women then it turns to hatred and when as a man you cannot say or do anything for fear of being called bully I tell the misses or make friends with other girls who would put the bitch in her place where as if it was a man then most men the fist would do the talking