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Daniel2289:
U are very OK because u are still very young to be thinking about girls at this your age. Why not focus on your hustle and make money for yourself. Very soon, u will see girls craving for your attention.
Just try it.

did he tell u he was broke?y b say all of una get dsame talk "hustle and mkr moni n girls will folo".bro everyone isnt broke

You are okay

thank God their is sex dolls now


u are ok my dear

Espada10:
I know your remedy( since you get money)

Fvck one dose of white blonde sex doll in the morning 2 times daily

fvck one latino sex doll in the night 2 times daily

Lol, see doctor's prescription

Bro, the porn and masturbation has dealt ur brain a big blow! U need professional help!

OK, just write ur issue to Joroolumofin and u will read more matured comments.

My nigga you is gay bruh

Anyway op wich naked woman dey lock u up wit, tot u sed u couldn't get any woman

I tink ur mind myt b givin up on women in general, cos u subconsciously feel u cant get dem no mata wat, hence d detachment 4rm any sort of romantic or sexual feelin 4 dem..
Just work on ursef nd 4get dem 4 nw, ur mind will correct itself wit tym

One word...

U are still a virgin and its normal..

Breakthrough and see ur self pursuing small girls... It's how God created us..
Also know that Nigeria girl's will never have sex with u until u force dem...

the only remedy to ur problem now is to give u a girl from nairaland who knows wot u re facing now to bleep hell out of immune system

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mhisbliss:
there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves at him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why they rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, looks and money isn't all you need to woo a girl I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself

you are very right

Since 98.5% of naija girls chase after money, going by your theory, majority of naija women are prostitute!

donstan18:
I have an advice, but it's a really bad and immoral idea that might help.

I'm trying to help, don't get it wrong.


Meet a prostitute, narrate this story to her and tell her to help.

She can savage your situation.

I think you mean salvage

gay alert

At 22, I was more bothered about what job I would do when I graduate and how I can be rich NOT girls or erections. You won't get anymore aroused and you might end up being a broke gay if you don't focus your energy on something else.

Troubledmind:
Hi nairalanders, I'm pete(pseudonym), I'm 22, and a virgin, I come from an average family, I won't say I'm too handsome but I'm averagely good looking, they was a phase in my life where I was hyperactive and always drawn to the opposite sex that mere looking at a pic I get erection, this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money, I resort to porn but find it disgusting, I switched to masturbat,ion it didn't work infact nothing is enjoyable about it and sex workers are a no no for me,

after trying desperately for years to get a real girlfriend for the first time in my life I gave up on searching, I kept loosing intrest in girls, now I never get sexually aroused anymore, even when I see naked women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing, the only erection I get now is the early morning erection, I'm not gay but I am really starting to get worried

Lalasticlal.a please help a brother

U need to work on urself and know wat u really want in life and in a gal. Then take ur time and enjoy urself snd don't ne too hard on urself eith time u will see the Intresting sides of asking interesting gals out at ur time, space and pace. Cheers

Ur village at ur back. At 22 u can't fork again? Abi u dey mad ni? It annoying me

mhisbliss:
there you go with the wrong stereotype again, (girls are drawn to money) you're right about focusing on his hustle but wrong about the money thing, any girl that is after your money is not different from a prostitue so don't generalize, his problem is not the fact that girls aint throwing themselves at him, his fear is the fact that he's loosing his sex drive, not getting attracted to girls is a big problem, he might be transcending into homosexuality, my advice to you is try to know why those girls rejected you, you can befriend them and get acquainted to the point that they're comfortable talking to you, they'll tell you one way or the other why they rejected your advances, if you're lucky, they'll have similar reasons, looks and money isn't all you need to woo a girl I feel it has something to do with your personality so work on yourself

He's not wrong though. Girls are in fact attracted to money, though not all.
That said @Poster as she asked, hope your sudden loss of appetite for the curves is not because you're now sexually attracted to men?
If not (and I strongly hope) you're safe. Two things are involved.
-You've over-indulged yourself sexually and now losing your sex drive.
-You're frustrated about certain developmen(s) in your life. Perhaps school or unemployment or family issues, maybe even craving the intimacy you can't get from masturbation and porn.

So you need to evaluate this and take proactive measures to solve it. Life's too short to shut down.

better go and look for d Hausa guy DAT stole ur dick, it not advisable to b in public places most times especially ring road in Benin, for more info on how to get it back pls call me.I will advice u

Troubledmind:
Hi nairalanders, I'm pete(pseudonym), I'm 22, and a virgin, I come from an average family, I won't say I'm too handsome but I'm averagely good looking, they was a phase in my life where I was hyperactive and always drawn to the opposite sex that mere looking at a pic I get erection, this made me chased a lot of girls with different tactics( sweet mouth, dressing, money) they all rejected me despite my looks and money, I resort to porn but find it disgusting, I switched to masturbat,ion it didn't work infact nothing is enjoyable about it and sex workers are a no no for me,

after trying desperately for years to get a real girlfriend for the first time in my life I gave up on searching, I kept loosing intrest in girls, now I never get sexually aroused anymore, even when I see naked women physically or we get locked in a room I will feel nothing, the only erection I get now is the early morning erection, I'm not gay but I am really starting to get worried

Lalasticlal.a please help a brother

why not try the new romance in town.perhaps you were fated..Dolly Solly..teamdoll.

You may be undergoing an
internal, psychological, sexual reorientation..

Better get disvirgined or you permanently
transmute in a transsexual....

You have been warned.

But what are you sexually attracted to now? Let's start from their to solve your problem.

Your issue is more of the mind.its a psychological case.I had a similar problem whereby from distance I will lust after a girl but after subsequent interaction with this same girl, I will just lose interest in her all of a sudden. This thing kept on happening and I thought I had an erectile dysfunction.it was until an expert disclosed my problem to me that I realize my mind was playing with me.Mine was so annoying because sometimes I will sacrifice so many things to get the girl laid but after she concerted to mine swag I find it hard to have sexual intercourse with her.if I could recall the feeling I had was "disgust" towards this same girl I lust after at the point of bedding her.

you need to see a psychologist immediately or meet one of those practicing psychologist lecturers in your school.

You may be undergoing an
internal, psychological, sexual reorientation..

Better get disvirgined or you permanently
transmute into a closet transsexual....

That was how bobrisky started.

You have been warned.

Sir, have you tried sexdolls?

U turning gay bro... Bobrisky loading...

Xionez:
OP, you have nothing to worry about.
At 22, its best to concentrate on your future.

From what i read, i can interpret that you are actually frustrated at not being able to make sexual contact with a woman. The worry sets in because you feel that you should have made some since, I assume, your mates must be making such moves easily.

Masturbating, watching porn and not feeling anything shows you really want the actually contact of a woman's skin.

Also , not having an erection when you get locked up with a woman of if an unclad one walks by you only shows that they are not your specs.

Trust me, its just a phase in your life that you seem to be passing. Where you should be worried is if you finally meet your specs, she makes sexual advances to you, goes down on you...and you don't feel a thing afterwards.

At this point, its psychological. If you are desperate, then you need to see a therapist. While you are on that, try attending parties, weddings, festivals etc to increase your chances of meeting your second. Someone that will rekindle your arousal.

....Well said but best a Therapist !!! E no easy mehn for this sweet life make man no dey get Erection !!! This is the real case of Konji na bastard when some want it like that, someone want it raised

Op,you are very much normal.Dont worry,you will be attracted to sex dolls.Just save cash and buy yourself as many as possible