Six months Ago I realised that my best friend was dating my girlfriend. I didn't really think of it that much. Because I had a lot of self improvement steps that I had to take. So I simply pack up and split.

So there was this new girl that I like a lot. I asked her out and she agreed. So we went on a date and it went fine. When we were walking home she asked the following questions..

Her= Do you like me?

I replied withhout hesitation that Yes.


Her= Do you believe in holiness

Me= Yes.

Her= What are your intentions??

I told her that I just wanted us to date and develop ourselves mentally, socially and so on. I also said I hhad no sexual intentions towards her since I'm a virgin but I'm not really sure about her. So she said she had heard.


Please is this a kind of test and if so.... Did I say the right thing?

The type of things that you lot bring here everyday is very funny. OK, you said the right thing. Can you close the thread now?

Op u don shoot yourself...U mumu ooo, forming good boy

Which player ManU wan sign before window close?

We're thin in midfield and there's still lots of matches to play

Is best as u let her know your intentions

I guess u r kid, why will you tell ur new girlfriend that u r virgin and no sex..... so what did you wanna gain in the relationship?

Lwkmd... Congratulations.. She don open office for ya head..

the girl go do secret thanks service the next Sunday

she don jam maga... why tell a girl u are a virgin that u dont have sexual intentions toward her.. sobubasked her out to snap pictures wit her, cook indomies together abi

Guess I made a mistake. So what should I do??

LukeSkywalker78:
Six months Ago I realised that my best friend was dating my girlfriend. I didn't really think of it that much. Because I had a lot of self improvement steps that I had to take. So I simply pack up and split.

So there was this new girl that I like a lot. I asked her out and she agreed. So we went on a date and it went fine. When we were walking home she asked the following questions..

Her= Do you like me?

I replied withhout hesitation that Yes.


Her= Do you believe in holiness

Me= Yes.

Her= What are your intentions??

I told her that I just wanted us to date and develop ourselves mentally, socially and so on. I also said I hhad no sexual intentions towards her since I'm a virgin but I'm not really sure about her. So she said she had heard.


Please is this a kind of test and if so.... Did I say the right thing?

You talk too much.

Tallesty1:
You talk too much.

Lol, very true

adetoroamos:
I guess u r kid, why will you tell ur new girlfriend that u r virgin and no sex..... so what did you wanna gain in the relationship?

hahahha

op u mumu no be small...choi

LukeSkywalker78:
Guess I made a mistake. So what should I do??

You didn't make any mistake
You did the right thing by telling her the truth
If she's not okay with the truth let her bounce

People no longer want to hear the truth anymore
Pre martial sex is wrong
And love shouldn't be based on sex

if you want that relationship to go far put sex aside

The moment you tell a guy/girl that you don't want sex in a relationship they will just back off....Your type is rare

LukeSkywalker78:
Six months Ago I realised that my best friend was dating my girlfriend. I didn't really think of it that much. Because I had a lot of self improvement steps that I had to take. So I simply pack up and split.

So there was this new girl that I like a lot. I asked her out and she agreed. So we went on a date and it went fine. When we were walking home she asked the following questions..

Her= Do you like me?

I replied withhout hesitation that Yes.


Her= Do you believe in holiness

Me= Yes.

Her= What are your intentions??

I told her that I just wanted us to date and develop ourselves mentally, socially and so on. I also said I hhad no sexual intentions towards her since I'm a virgin but I'm not really sure about her. So she said she had heard.


Please is this a kind of test and if so.... Did I say the right thing?

There is nothing wrong in what you've said.You simply trying to be open-minded which isn't a fault.Even if she misbehaves, you'll be satisfied you've done nothing wrong and have a clear conscience.



Don't mind these dudes saying what would u gain in the r/ship coz there is more than enough to gain than sexual pleasure.

Thank you all for you time. I really appreciate it. She isn't picking my calls. I guess I bleeped up.

Hybridz:

There is nothing wrong in what you've said.You simply trying to be open-minded which isn't a fault.Even if she misbehaves, you'll be satisfied you've done nothing wrong and have a clear conscience.



Don't mind these dudes saying what would u gain in the r/ship Coz there is more than enough to gain than sexual pleasure.

Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Get A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin[b]

Hybridz:

There is nothing wrong in what you've said.You simply trying to be open-minded which isn't a fault.Even if she misbehaves, you'll be satisfied you've done nothing wrong and have a clear conscience.



Don't mind these dudes saying what would u gain in the r/ship Coz there is more than enough to gain than sexual pleasure.

Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Get A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin[/b]

Hybridz:

There is nothing wrong in what you've said.You simply trying to be open-minded which isn't a fault.Even if she misbehaves, you'll be satisfied you've done nothing wrong and have a clear conscience.



Don't mind these dudes saying what would u gain in the r/ship Coz there is more than enough to gain than sexual pleasure.

Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Find A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin

GhettoHustler007:









Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Get A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin[b]








Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Get A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin[/b]








Yeah, Nice Talk
Me Don't Support Premarital Shiii Though
For Me I Decided I'll Just Wait Till It's Time To Get Married Then You Find A Wife... But With This Comment Permit Me To Ask What One Can Gain From A Relationship Besides Sexual Pleasure Like You've Said..

#Fornication
#BigSin

If I'm to answer this your question with what I really have in mind,i will definitely be writing an epistle.

But to save ourselves some valuable time,the best and concise lead I can give is to check out yiur relationship with the female folks already in your life.How do u relate with your mum,female siblings, female cousins,nieces,grandmas and even some lecturers. I'm sure you do this with no carnal intention and if at all there was ever any,it has and will never lead u to take a wrong step (unless one is being controlled by some spirits)

It should be noted that the excesses and fun being shown to you by these folks are managed and so,i see no reason why u can't channel that same discipline to your prospective gf/wife.

I believe the thought of getting laid is born out of one or two of peer pressure,complex,too much idleness,sexual indiscipline etc or even all.All these can take the better part of one's thought if one cannot see the positiveness iinn the flip side of getting laid prematurely, which is, 'I ain't gonna loose anything tangible if I refuse,lemme instead channel the energy used in wooing the said babe into something positive or use the babe's xtreme fondness of me to the betterment of my life albeit without being self-centred to your course alone'.


PS:I do not intend to write this much but the words keep coming.Permit me to give the words a premature halt at this juncture....

#premarital sex is BAD,stay off it.

Hybridz:

If I'm to answer this your question with what I really have in mind,i will definitely be writing an epistle.

But to save ourselves some valuable time,the best and concise lead I can give is to check out yiur relationship with the female folks already in your life.How do u relate with your mum,female siblings, female cousins,nieces,grandmas and even some lecturers. I'm sure you do this with no carnal intention and if at all there was ever any,it has and will never lead u to take a wrong step (unless one is being controlled by some spirits)

It should be noted that the excesses and fun being shown to you by these folks are managed and so,i see no reason why u can't channel that same discipline to your prospective gf/wife.

I believe the thought of getting laid is born out of one or two of peer pressure,complex,too much idleness,sexual indiscipline etc or even all.All these can take the better part of one's thought if one cannot see the positiveness iinn the flip side of getting laid prematurely, which is, 'I ain't gonna loose anything tangible if I refuse,lemme instead channel the energy used in wooing the said babe into something positive or use the babe's xtreme fondness of me to the betterment of my life albeit without being self-centred to your course alone'.


PS:I do not intend to write this much but the words keep coming.Permit me to give the words a premature halt at this juncture....

#premarital sex is BAD,stay off it.

Sure I'll Thanks a lot..

GhettoHustler007:







Sure I'll Thanks a lot..

You welcome bro!