Chikita66:
I don't think its okay for a man to cheat on me, that's why I dump his sorry ass if he does that.


Their are some things I won't tolerate in a relationship.

Akinbahm:

Madam but it okay for u to cheat on ur partner, how I wish your man is here on nairaland to see your comment!

Peachess:

Here is where I give up because most African women are truly dependent on men. Well you won't blame them that much cos society made them that way, making them believe it's not okay to be more successful than their men.

Peachess:

Good thing I've seen someone who share the same thoughts with me.
The reason why I even created this thread its cos of a discussion I had with my course mate. A girl we know fiance is an unrepentant cheat, but my people keep advising her to stay because his family know her very well and have approved of the relationship. They see nothing wrong in the relationship cos a man will always be a man. This kind of mentality is just annoying.

RuthDaniels:
[b] Lol! Let the blame shift begin!.

Men would say: She seduced me, ' I have never seen an attractive woman like she is'. 'my wife is an old cargo'. "Bimpe cooks better" , "If only my wife was more creative in bed" etc.

Women would say: ,"all men cheat" "All men are polygamous in nature" " he is never satisfied ". "he is a greedy fellow "

Then we keep going in circles, glorifying promiscuity like it is the normal way of life. The point is you cheat because you want to cheat! No one takes the fault but you.

Yes! circumstances may occur that could have led to cheating but then, whatever happens to walking out. We need to be more decisive in life, You can never have all you desire in one person, that's where compromise should come in. You have to let go desires /wants if you want that perfect relationship.

If you can't compromise, kindly walk out. Don't live life at the expense of others! [/b]

IamLEGEND1:
Reading stupid_shit like this makes me want to punch people in the throat.
Woman are solely responsible for their choices in life (unless you're living in Saudi Arabia). Our minister of finance is a woman & not a single_fuck was given. I haven't heard her husband complaining either.

Simply put, you are dependent on men because you are parasites with no dreams of your own....... stop blaming society & the 'patriarchy' for your total lack of ambition. Work your way up to the top & see if anyone gives a_fuck.

donstan18:


I don't get, why won't I blame them?

How did the society make them that way?

What and how did the society note that it isn't okay for women to be successful than men?, throw more light, please.

I'm lost!

Peachess:

You're using sex dolls to support your opinion but do you know women have always had different intimacy gadgets at their disposal? Why is it so common among females these days, if your number is truly correct?
Women have more STDs than men because the anatomy of the female sexual organ makes women more susceptible to STDs. Do some research

Peachess:

Create a thread and ask how many men will love marry a woman more successful than them. Listen to street interviews where they've asked such questions. How many men would love to work under a female boss. The truth is the percentage is small because most men are scared of successful women

Peachess:

Well shut the Bleep up if you don't know what it's happening. Make a thread and ask how many men will marry women more successful than them. Go about the streets and ask these questions you'll be shocked by the answer you'll get. How many many men would love to work under a female boss. Men are scared of successful women. There's no equality in this world, society is biased.

donstan18:

I ask again, how did the society make African women lazy that they'll always depend on men?, prove and explain that without the reference of "Street interview" and "Creating of thread",

IamLEGEND1:

African society has problems with women in places of power.

IamLEGEND1:
no man will have any problem with dating or marrying a woman more successful than he is IF! she gives him no reason to assume she'll lord it over him all his life which believe it or not, is what a lot of women do when they feel like they are dating below their station.
But of cause, like everything else with Nigerian women, you shift the blame on to society.

So, like I said earlier; quit whining and actually do something with your life..... and if all pènis-owning entities in the country rise up in a collective uproar to protest your success, call me then and make your case.
For now, you're just another run-of-the-mill pseudo feminist with a deeply embedded victim complex.

Muafrika2:
These are the pillars of the Western Civilization. Its got something to do with its cultists founders

1. Promiscuity - (freedom of choice, divorce, homosexuality, bestiary, pedophilia, prostitution (the most "civilized" societies like Germans have legalized it)

2. Rebellion - (democracy and competition in government, marriage, children against parents etc))

3. Animosity - (Individualism and selfish competition for money, And the readiness of people to do anything for it (prostitution, murder, deception, injustice, etc)

The more of this you have, the more "civilized" you are as a society.

Peachess:

Promiscuity has been among the males in Africa right from time. Stop blaming the western society for everything.

donstan18:

You have a point.

But, blame not African society, rather blame African women, majority of them thinks no far on how to develop and leave a remarkable achievement in the society.

IamLEGEND1:
Sarcasm. That was all that last line was.

donstan18:


Wtf!!

Did you just use "Creating of thread" to back up your claim?
Like, did you just use "Street interview" to back up your claims?, if I must say dear,that was very poor of yours that's not a concrete and intelligent point to justify the laziness of African women
apologies for condemning your point



Now, if I must go with your kind of petty point.

What do you think will be the reaction of men concerning sex doll in street interview?

-Create a thread on sex doll and watch how men will endorse the development.

Now, judging from the possible reactions you'll get, are we to agree that sex doll is a nice development to humanity?

Does the major positive reactions justify that sex doll is a good thing?

I ask again, how did the society make African women lazy that they'll always depend on men?, prove and explain that without the reference of "Street interview" and "Creating of thread",

I'll appreciate, if you do

Peachess:

Like I said earlier, you need to shut the Bleep up. You don't know shit about me, I'm not a feminist and why are you guys so scared of them? You do something with your life, rather than commenting on every thread on nairaland. Please stay the Bleep away from my mention.
Bye [/b] [/i]

Peachess:

we all have our own opinions and I'm not forcing mine on you. So Bleep off.

Peachess:

Oh sensible man, please tell me the best way to get the opinion of the people. Well you're even one them so I'm surprised by your response. So you using the reaction of sex dull to compare this issue is just dumb cos this are two different issues. I'm not talking about morality here, I'm talking about the truth,

What truth are you typing about?

You earlier said That the society made women to depend on men, that the society makes women lazy to work, that the society aren't okay to see a woman being successful than man [/b], hereby trying to justify the laziness of African women , hereby, trying to support the motion of women depending on men , isn't it?

What a funny mindset

Peachess:

what majority of men think if they're asked that question.
I don't want any argument [s] so stay the Bleep away from my mention. [/s] At the end of the day we all have our own opinions and I'm not forcing mine on you. So Bleep off. [/b]

IamLEGEND1:
Bish(IamLEGEND1's mum) ,then why did you create a thread?

Opentokwowledge:
This ho knows she doesn't have a thick skin for opinions and she still went ahead to type the "she'll welcome it" cliché.

If this bish's line of argument is anything to go by with, she's putting up a very feministic point of argument that's mirroring the woman being as some sorta "chronically endangered" species. A stance far from the truth, making this thread null and void! ... One advice, Find another thread's train to join, it stinks here!

Peachess:

Worse female ever, she did a very bad job.

Peachess:

Worse female ever, she did a very bad job.

AryEmber:
Did you just insult his mom? This is shameful, a shame on womanhood.

AryEmber:
Did you just insult his mom? This is shameful, a shame on womanhood.

Peachess:

Cos your mum is a Bish doesn't make every other female one.
I can't still find the place where I said females are endangered species. Unlike feminist, I don't support preferential treatment for females cos I believe in equality. Since you're too dumb to get the message, I'll explain it to your dry coconut head. This thread is about enlightening women, to make them know there should be no justification for cheating males. And not to train their sons to become cheats and morons like you that can't have a civil conversation with a lady without using derogatory words. Bye nigga, go and vent your frustration on your mum.

donstan18:


My dear, tell her!

She opened a thread and typed "All opinion will be welcomed" when she knows that she isn't brave and intelligent enough to tolerate, argue and discuss whatever that might follow up.


So pathetic how frustrated some ladies can be.