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Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Lukgaf(m): 2:37pm On Feb 08, 2018
Praise be to Allaah.

Firstly:

Valentine’s Day is a jaahili Roman festival, which continued to be celebrated until after the Romans became Christian. This festival became connected with the saint known as Valentine who was sentenced to death on 14 February 270 CE. The kuffaar still celebrate this festival, during which immorality and evil are practised widely.

Secondly:

It is not permissible for a Muslim to celebrate any of the festivals of the kuffaar, because festivals come under the heading of shar’i issues which are to be based on the sound texts.

Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: Festivals are part of sharee’ah, clear way and rituals of which Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“To each among you, We have prescribed a law and a clear way”

[al-Maa’idah 5:48]

“For every nation We have ordained religious ceremonies which they must follow”

[al-Hajj 22:67]

-- such as the qiblah (direction faced in prayer), prayer and fasting. There is no difference between their participating in the festival and their participating in all other rituals. Joining in fully with the festival is joining in with kufr, and joining in with some of its minor issues is joining in with some of the branches of kufr. Indeed, festivals are one of the most unique features that distinguish various religions and among their most prominent symbols, so joining in with them is joining in with the most characteristic and prominent symbols of kufr. No doubt joining in with this may lead to complete kufr.

Partially joining in, at the very least, is disobedience and sin. This was indicated by the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) when he said: “Every people has its festival and this is our festival.” This is worse than joining them in wearing the zinaar (a garment that was worn only by ahl al-dhimmah) and other characteristics of theirs, for those characteristics are man-made and are not part of their religion, rather the purpose behind them is simply to distinguish between a Muslim and a kaafir. As for the festival and its rituals, this is part of the religion which is cursed along with its followers, so joining in with it is joining in with something that is a cause of incurring the wrath and punishment of Allaah. End quote from Iqtida’ al-Siraat al-Mustaqeem (1/207).

He also said (may Allaah have mercy on him): It is not permissible for the Muslims to imitate them in anything that is uniquely a part of their festivals, whether it be food, clothing, bathing, lighting fires, refraining from a regular habit, doing acts of worship or anything else. It is not permissible to give a feast or to give gifts, or to sell anything that will help them to do that for that purpose, or to allow children and others to play games that are part of the festivals, or to wear one’s adornments.

To conclude: the Mulsims should not do any of their rituals at the time of their festivals; rather the day of their festival should be like any other day for the Muslims. The Muslims should not do anything specific in imitation of them. End quote from Majmoo al-Fataawa (25/329).

Al-Haafiz al-Dhahabi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said: If the Christians have a festival, and the Jews have a festival, it is only for them, so no Muslim should join them in that, just as no Muslim should join them in their religion or their direction of prayer. End quote from Tashabbuh al-Khasees bi Ahl al-Khamees, published in Majallat al-Hikmah (4/193)

The hadeeth to which Shaykh al-Islam Ibn Taymiyah referred was narrated by al-Bukhaari (952) and Muslim (892) from ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her) who said: Abu Bakr came in and there were two young girls of the Ansaar with me who were singing about what had happened to the Ansaar on the day of Bu’aath. She said: And they were not (professional) singing girls. Abu Bakr said: “Musical instruments of the shaytaan in the house of the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)?!” and that was on the day of Eid. The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “O Abu Bakr, every people has a festival and this is our festival.”

Abu Dawood (1134) narrated that Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: When the Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) came to Madeenah, they had two days when they would play. He said: “What are these two days?” They said: “We used to play on these days during the Jaahiliyyah.” The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Allaah has given you instead of them two days that are better than them: the day of al-Adha and the day of al-Fitr.” This hadeeth was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood.

This indicates that festivals are among the characteristics by which nations are distinguished, and it is not permissible to celebrate the festivals of the ignorant and the mushrikeen (polytheists).

The scholars have issued fatwas stating that it is haraam to celebrate Valentine’s Day.

1 –Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allaah have mercy on him) was asked:

In recent times the celebration of Valentine’s Day has become widespread, especially among female students. It is a Christian festival where people dress completely in red, including clothes and shoes, and they exchange red flowers. We hope that you can explain the ruling on celebrating this festival, and what your advice is to Muslims with regard to such matters; may Allaah bless you and take care of you.

He replied:

Celebrating Valentine’s Day is not permissible for a number of reasons.

1- It is an innovated festival for which there is no basis in Islam.

2- It promotes love and infatuation.

3- It calls for hearts to be preoccupied with foolish matters that are contrary to the way of the righteous salaf (may Allaah be pleased with them).

It is not permissible on this day to do any of the things that are characteristic of this festival, whether that has to do with food, drinks, clothing, exchanging gifts or anything else.

The Muslim should be proud of his religion and should not be a weak character who follows every Tom, Dick and Harry. I ask Allaah to protect the Muslims from all temptations, visible and invisible, and to protect us and guide us.

End quote from Majmoo’ Fataawa al-Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (16/199)

2 – The Standing Committee was asked: Some people celebrate Valentine’s Day on the fourteenth of February every year. They exchange gifts of red roses and wear red clothes and congratulate one another. Some bakeries make red coloured sweets and draw hearts on them, and some stores advertise products that are especially for this day. What is your opinion on the following:

1- Celebrating this day

2- Buying things from the stores on this day

3- Storekeepers who are not celebrating it selling things that may be given as gifts to people who are celebrating it?

They replied:

The clear evidence of the Qur’aan and Sunnah – and the consensus of the early generations of this ummah – indicates that there are only two festivals in Islam: Eid al-Fitr and Eid al-Adha. Any other festivals that have to do with a person, a group, an event or anything else are innovated festivals, which it is not permissible for Muslims to observe, approve of or express joy on those occasions, or to help others to celebrate them in any way, because that is transgressing the sacred limits of Allaah, and whoever transgresses the sacred limits of Allaah has wronged himself. If the fabricated festival is also a festival of the kuffaar, then the sin is even greater, because this is imitating them and it is a kind of taking them as close friends, and Allaah has forbidden the believers to imitate them and take them as close friends in His Holy Book. And it is proven that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.” Valentine’s Day comes under this heading because it is an idolatrous Christian festival, so it is not permissible for a Muslim who believes in Allaah and the Last Day to observe it or approve of it or congratulate people on it. Rather he has to ignore it and avoid it, in obedience to Allaah and His Messenger, and so as to keep away from the causes that incur the wrath and punishment of Allaah. It is also haraam for the Muslim to help people to celebrate this or any other haraam festival by supplying any kind of food or drink, or buying or selling or manufacturing or giving or advertising etc., because all of that is cooperating in sin and transgression and is disobedience towards Allaah and His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him). Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“Help you one another in Al‑Birr and At‑Taqwa (virtue, righteousness and piety); but do not help one another in sin and transgression. And fear Allaah. Verily, Allaah is Severe in punishment”

[al-Maa’idah 5:2]

The Muslim must adhere to the Book of Allaah and the Sunnah in all his affairs, especially at times of fitnah when evil is widespread. He should be smart and avoid falling into the misguidance of those who have earned Allaah’s anger and who have gone astray, and the evildoers who have no fear of Allaah and who do not have any pride in being Muslims. The Muslim must turn to Allaah and seek His guidance and remain steadfast in following it, for there is no Guide except Allaah and no one can make a person steadfast but Him. And Allaah is the source of strength. May Allaah send blessings and peace upon our Prophet Muhammad and his family and companions. End quote.

3 – Shaykh Ibn Jibreen (may Allaah preserve him) was asked:

Among our young men and women it has become common to celebrate Valentine’s Day, which is named after a saint who is venerated by the Christians, who celebrate it every year on February 14, when they exchange gifts and red roses, and they wear red clothes. What is the ruling on celebrating this day and exchanging gifts?

He replied:

Firstly: it is not permissible to celebrate these innovated festivals, because it is an innovation for which there is no basis in Islam. It comes under the heading of the hadeeth of ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), according to which the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Whoever introduces anything into this matter of ours that is not part of it will have it rejected.”

Secondly: it involves imitating the kuffaar and copying them by venerating that which they venerate and respecting their festivals and rituals, and imitating them in something that is part of their religion. In the hadeeth it says: “Whoever imitates a people is one of them.”

Thirdly: it results in evils and haraam things such as wasting time, singing, music, extravagance, unveiling, wanton display, men mixing with women, women appearing before men other than their mahrams, and other haraam things, or things that are a means that leads to immorality. That cannot be excused by the claim that this is a kind of entertainment and fun. The one who is sincere towards himself should keep away from sin and the means that lead to it.

And he said:

Based on this, it is not permissible to sell these gifts and roses, if it is known that the purchaser celebrates these festivals or will give these things as gifts on those days, so that the seller will not be a partner of the one who does those innovations. And Allaah knows best. End quote.

And Allaah knows best.

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by BigBrother9ja: 9:44am On Feb 09, 2018
Wetin consign Islam and valentine

Some things are not just supposed to be a topic.

A good Muslim knows that valentine's day is not supposed to be a day to give relevance to.
It should be "optional"

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by personal59: 9:49am On Feb 09, 2018
BigBrother9ja:
Wetin consign Islam and valentine

Some things are not just supposed to be a topic.

A good Muslim knows that valentine's day is not supposed to be a day to give relevance to.
It should be "optional"

its not optional cos it is outrightly wrong

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by MDsambo: 9:50am On Feb 09, 2018
BigBrother9ja:
Wetin consign Islam and valentine

Some things are not just supposed to be a topic.

A good Muslim knows that valentine's day is not supposed to be a day to give relevance to.
It should be "optional"


That's why Islam is different from other religions, Islam is a way of life. It is the true and complete religions, it leave's nothing untouch

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by mikebrown92: 9:51am On Feb 09, 2018
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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by MrAcube(m): 9:53am On Feb 09, 2018
Jazakumlahu khaeran

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by otunbabadok(m): 9:54am On Feb 09, 2018
Islam has say in every facet of our lives. We only need to ask

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by BigBrother9ja: 9:57am On Feb 09, 2018
personal59:


its not optional cos it is outrightly wrong
To show love is not wrong.
It must not just be a special thing to do on that 14th of February.

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by OneTeslim(m): 9:59am On Feb 09, 2018
We don't need to drag this matter this year. We all watching MadridvsPSG

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Bullhari007(m): 10:00am On Feb 09, 2018
personal59:


its not optional cos it is outrightly wrong
what is outrightly wrong must you connect everything to religion can't you do good or wrong without involving religion, I hate fanatics

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by koolaid87: 10:06am On Feb 09, 2018
This is why it's hard for an infidel to be converted into Islam

Muslims prefer living in the past(when there was tension between Islam and other religion)

Y'll need to spread love and embrace one another.

Don't eat their food, don't drink their juice, don't marry their women, don't, don't...don't

Forget all those sh1t and live happily

Always remember that there was humanity before religion.

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by personal59: 10:16am On Feb 09, 2018
Bullhari007:
what is outrightly wrong must you connect everything to religion can't you do good or wrong without involving religion, I hate fanatics

fanatics when u obviously don't know me

abeg u can only argue with ur deleel or swerve
Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by wittyt98(m): 10:49am On Feb 09, 2018
QuietHammer:
Up next, Islamic ruling on how to kiss my sweet ass.
cheesy cheesy

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Nobody: 11:25am On Feb 09, 2018
Saint Valentine was a
Catholic priest who had also worked as a doctor. He lived in Italy during the third century AD and served as a priest in Rome. Historians don’t know much about
Valentine’s early life.
They pick up Valentine’s story after he began working as a priest. Valentine became famous for marrying couples who were in love but couldn’t get legally married in Rome during the reign of Emperor Claudius II, who outlawed weddings. Claudius wanted to recruit lots of men to be soldiers in his army and thought that marriage would be an obstacle to recruiting new soldiers. He also wanted to prevent his existing soldiers from getting married because he thought that marriage would distract them from their work. When Emperor Claudius discovered that Valentine was performing weddings, he sent Valentine to jail.
Valentine used his time in jail to continue to reach out to people with the love that he said Jesus Christ gave him for others. He befriended his jailer Asterious, who became so impressed with Valentine’s wisdom that he asked Valentine to help his daughter Julia with her lessons. Julia was blind and needed someone to read material for her to learn it.
Valentine then became
friends with Julia through his work with her when she came to visit him in jail. Emperor Claudius also
came to like Valentine. He
offered to pardon Valentine and set him free if Valentine would renounce his Christian faith and agree to worship the Roman gods. Not only did Valentine refuse to leave his faith, he also encouraged
Emperor Claudius to place his trust in Christ. Valentine’s faithful choices cost him his life. Emperor Claudius was so
enraged at Valentine’s
response that he sentenced Valentine to die.

A LOVING LETTER INSPIRES
VALENTINE’S DAY MESSAGES
Before he was killed,
Valentine
wrote a last note to
encourage Julia to stay close to Jesus
and
to thank her for being his
friend. He signed the note:
“From your Valentine.” That
note inspired people to begin writing their own loving
messages to people on
Valentine’s Feast Day,
February 14th, which is
celebrated on the same day
on which Valentine was martyred.

But its so pathetic and very unfortunate that we the youth of this generation has decided to abuse this day for our own selfish purpose.

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by belloadebowale: 12:05pm On Feb 09, 2018
Allahu Akbar.valentine is bad Islamic ally.
Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Msemakweli(m): 12:59pm On Feb 09, 2018
Jazakallah khayr for clarification
Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Dindondin(m): 2:59pm On Feb 09, 2018
MDsambo:



That's why Islam is different from other religions, Islam is a way of life. It is the true and complete religions, it leave's nothing untouch
shut up
Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Rashduct4luv(m): 8:19am On Feb 14, 2018
Dindondin:
shut up
.
Why be so abusive? This is definitely not how you are trained from home! undecided
Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Dindondin(m): 4:54pm On Feb 14, 2018
Rashduct4luv:

.
Why be so abusive? This is definitely not how you are trained from home! undecided
You too shut up!
Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Rashduct4luv(m): 7:31pm On Feb 14, 2018
Dindondin:
You too shut up!
.
Just go home and tell one of your brothers/relatives that's as old as me "shut up". Alaileko ọmọ! Akoogba!

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Re: Ruling On Celebrating Valentine Day by Fundamentalist: 8:59pm On Feb 15, 2018
BigBrother9ja:
Wetin consign Islam and valentine

Some things are not just supposed to be a topic.
javascript:void(0);
A good Muslim knows that valentine's day is not supposed to be a day to give relevance to.
It should be "optional"

In islam , if a matter is regarded and is been proven wrong , then its wrong and its our duty as muslims to proclaim it as such undecided

Islam is a way of life cheesy

Thanks Op jazakallahu khairan

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