pweetiedee:


Say everything that's on ur mind.

what do u mean u pity some women? so she should have stayed? Would u allow ur daughter stay with a violent husband or your son stay with a violent wife?

Yeye

freshboy31:
SPOTTED.... SMH

ybalogs:
You'd still pity her if her obituary were to be placed here. Better leave than being sorry.

olabrad:


May Satan appoint your portion with a chronic nagging woman. Even if God has a better plan for you, may Satan prevail and bring a nagging abusive woman to your life.

Then maybe you will have some sense and know that emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse

Bunch of idiots will just wake up from the wrong side of their bed and begin to make baseless unprovable nonsense comments

Tohzara:
If emotional abuse is worse than physical abuse (it depends on the kind of "emotional abuse" ), why should you get back at her through the "better" form of abuse (physical violence)? Why not go just as extreme as she did----abusing her emotionally too? Or could it be that you don't really believe that?

Moreover, what kind of a sick fück remains with a useless nagging bitch that gives him emotional and psychological stress and torture? Did you come to this world to get married, that you would consider keeping a marriage with an animal at the expense of your happiness?

Why not divorce the fool, instead of going violent like a beast? Which option is more sane and rational?

Any woman that treats me like shiit and has no regard for me no longer has a place in my life. Like I'd always say, life is supposed to be fun! Yes, you'll have to do some chores, but life itself shouldn't be a chore.

No time for bitter, worthless women. Didn't come to this world to deal with any headache. Once it's no longer working, there's no need to "try and make it work". I'll just end it forever, and there will be no room for reconciliation or a second chance.

olabrad:


People respond to issues differently.

Xisnin:

What other side of the story?
That the husband did not beat her?
What if he said her never touched her?
You will jump up in joy that you have been vindicated.

I have worked with NGOs in the past and I can tell you that the last
thing a wife will do is confirm that she is been abused. Even those
who were hospitalised due to beatings will still deny being abused.
Whenever a wife come out to tell her story of marital, there is no "other side"
except in cases where the husband was the one who initiated the divorce.

Note that excuses such as she doesn't obey me or she is disrespectful are nonsense.
If you read the comments above, you will see a post excusing abuse with many likes,
that is to show you the level of reasoning of an average Nigerian men.

kelvinklein219:

Haba aunty calm down now, ok if she is in an abusive relationship she should just leave, what's with all the social media stunt. That's the drama.
Women are the first complain about relationships on social media but if you get the other side of the story you will pity the guy although no guy should touch a lady, learnt from experience.
Some women actually hope to be beaten by their husband so they can use it and trend small.. Issa hobby
+ women can add salt and pepper.

pweetiedee:


yes, if she is an abusive relationship, she should leave. Or you've not heard stories of man killing wife and wife killing husband.

okay o

Tohzara:
I know. But not all manner of responses are RIGHT and JUSTIFIED.

There are people who would shoot you dead for pissing them off----that's their own way of responding to provocation and disgust. They're that wild and short-tempered.

Does that change the fact that they're animals controlled by their reptilian brainstem? Does the fact that you "abused them emotionally" with insults or did something that infuriated their soul justify SHOOTING you?

Not all responses and reactions are acceptable and justifiable.

Some are simply crazy and inhumane.

Ladyhippolyta88:
In my reality.

uyiekpenn:
hey you. I've noticed you've been directly and indirectly insulting people here. A woman who insults the pride and dignity of any man deserves a very thorough beating. You ladies are very quick to come out online to say trash when 95% of the marriage crash are caused by your insatiable greed for material things and your uncultured mouths.

olabrad:


People respond differently. Women shsw their powers via verbal abuse, while men show their power via fisticuffs. To every action, there must be an equal and opposite reaction.

Stop talking about divorce as if you are referring to an ordinary termination of an unacceptable business agreement. It is not. Any woman that can't control her lips should be ready to face the risk of a battered face. To every action, there must be an equal and opposite reaction.

uyiekpenn:
are you marriageable as well? Stop saying nonsense. This guy just said the absolute truth that you guys don't wanna hear. What about women who hit their husbands and call him names in front of others? Isn't that domestic violence? You guys are as guilty as the others. Learn to bridle your tongues and acknowledge the fact that your husband is the head of the house and as such should command respect.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Tell that to the religious folks.I have an egalitarian relationship and we are partners.Everyone has what they can define as marriageable and take note I won't give you respect because of gender or the head or tail of something but I would respect you because you earn it.To complete what I started I never supported such stop being chauvinistic and misogynistic because I don't buy that you actually need to learn to bridle your tongue and earn the respect of a woman and not think because you are a man and have a joystick you ultimately deserve respect to the 21st century woman you should earn it before you spew trash about the head and tail of the family.Daeylar where are you.

monex:


in many religions, respect is obligatory and not earned. The man is head of the house because he is male.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Not in the 21st century world you work for what you want and not by gender.And it applies to marriage.

monex:

i was talking about religious doctrines and not 21st century societies.

of course in modern day society respect is earned.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Dear I don't go with that philosophy even if I were over religious I won't buy that I want a partner an egalitarian relationship and not a master slave marriage.I go with modernity.

MarilynNash:
asshole. misogynist asshole. I hope you, your pride and dignity rot in hell.

Mynd44:
She did the right thing.

Domestic violence should never be condoled whether it js coming from the wife or the man.

I am glad she left with her sanity and alive to even make her choice.

Hopefully, we as humans can grow up to the extent of seeing that violence is never the answer