enoqueen:
Waoh

I hope to be a surrogate to someone someday. But that day is still very far from my mind.

eTECTIVe:
hmmm
... There'll probably b nothing left for most of us future husbands by d tym we ready to settle down... D future for d nxt generation of kids is very very bleak

Odingo1:

The egg contain someone DNA, if it is done rampantly where everyone will be selling egg, the children that will be in this world in the future will be marrying their sisters and brothers and this will result to new strange diseases. That is why the core northerners have various strange diseases in their midst because they marry their cousins their father brother children.

Correct me if am wrong, though the egg and sperm carry the chromosome, but perhaps the blood plays more role in gene and DNA, if the donated and fertilized egg is incubated by the woman for 9 months feeding from her blood, I think the product (child) will inherit greater percentage of the incubating mothers DNA and gene.

JeffreyJames:


Is there adverse effect?

joeaz58:
idiot why did you quote me at first animal

MissJoy29:

Everything you wrote up there that was almost making sense was spoilt by your last paragraph. You are trying so hard to be aloof & arrogant. Must you be condescending? Is there anywhere in my writing that indicated I was judging you? You were obviously too quick to quote me that you didn't digest what I wrote. Besides, the way you have been answering some other ones too buttresses the point I'm trying to make here.

Btw, more research on what exactly? Do I have to be any of those people to know something about this?

Then, I used "hidden" adverse effect not necessarily because there's none at all. But because they might not show immediately. So I didn't mention anything about you saying there's no adverse effect.

I'm not concerned about WHY you did it. I'm more concerned about the HOW & the after effect(if any). I didn't think I was wrong to have commented. Besides, I didn't even quote you directly.

Please, learn how to address issues(if there's any) without attacking the person. The moniker "saintmary" who is clearly defending you(cos she's enlightened enough as I am in respecting your choices even when some others aren't) is even more "gracious and polite" in her response to others than you. I suggest you learn from her.

ELKHALIFAISIS:
what you're trying to tell us... both gender are important in child making now u come, I concur with u, what angers me most, she said our supermolecules are less important in child making, and for that the price goes between 10k or 11k ... nah akara we dey sell here all diz feminist like to downgrade our importance for just no reason... sugar mama go pay more than just to collect fresh sperm for refreshments

ELKHALIFAISIS:
what you're trying to tell us... both gender are important in child making now u come, I concur with u, what angers me most, she said our supermolecules are less important in child making, and for that the price goes between 10k or 11k ... nah akara we dey sell here all diz feminist like to downgrade our importance for just no reason... sugar mama go pay more than just to collect fresh sperm for refreshments

MissJoy29:
Wonderful....but scary experience. I have reservations though:
1) The money is too small considering the stress Involved & the amount of money the recipient pays. These things go for as high as 8000-15,000 in the US. So I think, just like everything in Nigeria, they are ripping the donors off.
2)There might be hidden risks involved cos the quantity of drugs you took & injected is just too much. I fear they might have adverse effects.

marvin906:



not they might have effects.
they have effects..
and the risk of a total destruction of the ovaries is still there

MissJoy29:

Seriously?

Destined2win:


bECAUSE OF100k, you risked your life, poverty na really bad thing

marvin906:



do a little research on it...
am not against the OP selling her egg's
and she shouldnt make it look as if she didnt get paid..
and I do hope she doesn't plan to do this frequently cause the amount of drugs given the patients for this procedures amazes me
well all for the money sha

nezer83:


But I was not for free and neither will the fertility clinic give it out for free. It's her trade. She just traded her fertile eggs for money.
Am not sure that act deserves God's blessings.

Vickify:


I'm not going to argue with you on this. I told you to make research because your reservations especially concerning me, are unfounded. The doctors like I said chose the best protocol for me and it worked, shikena. There's really nothing I stand to gain by being cunning or duplicitous because at the end of the day, nobody is paying me to write s*it here. I am the op of this thread (so directly or indirectly whatever you say is in reference to me) and yes, I am aloof and arrogant, I'm in my house

I apologize if I sounded harsh to you but my response was especially to the God's representatives and St Arch Angels all over this thread, no matter how courteous the moniker stmary is, she isn't the one being directly antagonized so she can answer with as much sugar coating as possible. I am not so patient or kind.

boyjo:


The experience is not her personal experience I feel. It is to create awareness.

Vickify:


I'm not going to argue with you on this. I told you to make research because your reservations especially concerning me, are unfounded. The doctors like I said chose the best protocol for me and it worked, shikena. There's really nothing I stand to gain by being cunning or duplicitous because at the end of the day, nobody is paying me to write s*it here. I am the op of this thread (so directly or indirectly whatever you say is in reference to me) and yes, I am aloof and arrogant, I'm in my house

I apologize if I sounded harsh to you but my response was especially to the God's representatives and St Arch Angels all over this thread, no matter how courteous the moniker stmary is, she isn't the one being directly antagonized so she can answer with as much sugar coating as possible. I am not so patient or kind.

Destined2win:


bECAUSE OF100k, you risked your life, poverty na really bad thing

Saintmary:
Wow. To find someone who actually did it in Nigeria! Awesome.

nezer83:


They pay more for the eggs cos of these
1. They produce eggs once in a month while a male can produce sperm many times in a month.
2. The process of harvesting is tedious and could result to complications.

Saintmary:

Eggs get produced every month. If she doesn't donate it they die every month and get wasted. Why not give out what you are not using to someone who doesn't have? They didn't take her ovaries, she still has about 30*12 eggs to produce given her age before menopause and she's only going to use max 4-8 for herself. The rest die unless she gives them out. Stop being judgemental. No one's regretting anything here.

adadike281:
Jehovah!!!

praiseneofingz:
who read am finish sincerely?

Vickify:


I have my own question, are you a trained nurse, doctor or fertility expert? If not, please make more research.

Secondly, if you really read my write up, I didn't dismiss the risk of getting adverse effects like OHSS but chances are really slim if you use the methods suitable for you. I didn't get any adverse effect but that's just me. You could be one of the few cases of the adverse effects coming to play, don't say I told you there are no risks because there obviously are. Its a hormonal therapy combined with a surgical procedure if that's not risky, I don't know what else is.

Thirdly, I had a really strong motivation. If you have a 4.0 CGPA sitting in your cabinet and a struggling business, plus being the first child then maybe you'll understand my motivation.

Finally, I really don't care for your opinion of me tbh, I did this and there were no complications and I'll do it again

Ciao

Odingo1:

The egg contain someone DNA, if it is done rampantly where everyone will be selling egg, the children that will be in this world in the future will be marrying their sisters and brothers and this will result to new strange diseases. That is why the core northerners have various strange diseases in their midst because they marry their cousins their father brother children.

kessler53:
If I were your boyfriend this will be the end of the relationship. If you are donating for free that I will understand,but for you to go this extent because of 120 K I will suspect you can kill for money.

Vickify:
13/02/18

Went for a scan at the clinic yesterday, my left ovary is not responding but the right is, this isn't rare so I'm safe, I guess I keep going online to research more on the injections I'm given and what the signify in the cycle. For starters, I skipped the first set of injections/pills which were supposed to downregulate my cycle and cause uniformity with the donor's cycle. I was given the next set instead which is for super ovulation; allowing more eggs mature in the ovaries instead of dying out. The next injection is for controlling the egg follicles by controlling the LH (Leutenizing hormone) surge that will allow the eggs to be released. This injection is given because if the eggs are released in a non controlled atmosphere then the cycle has come to naught. So in all, I've taken the first set on injection for eight days, today will be the ninth and tomorrow I have another appointment with the doctor. I started the injection that will control the eggs release yesterday. So tonight I'm taking two sets of injections, Follitrope and Cetrotide. I can't wait for the estradiol test and final trigger injection that will signal the end of this cycle.

Pictures attached:

The cetrotide injection

OGHENAOGIE:
but Abraham Marry Sarah his cousin.... Stop saying thrash Pple wey no relate De marry self yet complications de... The world is moving... If someone steal ina go castigate am.... It's her legal rite to sell d eggs...pple dis tins abroad and d world has ended