Dimples129:
So his neice can't make mistakes, and learn from them, and build her character. She belongs to a man so she must be trained for him.


I don't blame him... you can't have it all

#Brains&Beauty #B&B

Eureka123:


Lol. Else they mess up and disgrace the family, you say. I thought that messing up took two to tango. How many pregnancies have young boys been responsible for and denied it? Everybody needs home training. He can do what he wants with his family. But me, my sons will understand that in this life there's more to it than being a man's man. Marriage is not for everyone. Many people might pass away before they reach marrying age, for instance. I have a father who raised me to be a strong young lady, I have not messed up, and never intend to. Feminists are not your enemy. Just as there are classes of liberalism, there are classes of feminists. I am a graduate of a university today because women in the past fought and died for the privilege I enjoy, God forbid that we let out future daughters suffer scourge for the reason of being female.

Silumi:
You see our problem now.she will now grow up to marry the man that nobody trained when he starts messing up the marriage they will say it's her fault for not keeping her home.my son eh am just waiting for you.u cannot come and be entitled and irresponsible like most men of this generation.

donstan18:


Shut d'fvck up... Social media claimers.

What character is she building?, what's wrong with what he said, he wants to be strict to his niece, so?

Is she your "Niece"? , is Anthony Joshua life and decision suppose to be your concern?, huh?

Yes, he knows what African culture entails, he knows that her niece will grow to be someone's wife, he has every right to father her strictly the way he wants.

All the ladies that weren't brought up strictly and great discipline, what did they turn out to be? whoré, hoe, bitches and wannabe feminists that does nothing than to sleep around and ask for money from men due to their inability to become a responsible woman, wife and mother to the society.

You typed of beauty and brain, which one do you have?, he doesn't have beauty and brain, yet he's at the level he his..... Your type can even reach orgasm at the sight of him, yet will come here to form pooooo!

Once again... Shut d'fvck up and mind your business.


You dare not tell a Nigerian man how to train his kids or siblings.. You dare not....Train your own the way you want, don't decide for others.

KhadyM:


I disagree. Will the females sexually molest and get laid on their own? If they become wayward, chances are a man was involved. My opinion, the boy child needs to be disciplined and taught good morals, just as much as the girl child. If I have a son, God willing, I'm not raising him any different from my daughter. Strict discipline for both.

BiafranBushBoy:
Useless assholes who call themselves feminist. Like the useless ones on Nairaland who are only feminists behind their keyboards.

AntiBrutus:
"Feminist" the most abused word on cyberspace. If you want lots of Nairaland guys to come barking like dogs, just sensationalise your heading with that one word...feminist. They won't address the topic logically, just insult and attack

I don't think the issue should be him wanting his niece to be a respectful woman [who wouldn't want that?], but him not ensuring same values are instilled in his son.

He reinforced the opinion that female kids are more trained than their male counterparts. The males just have to be men, that's okay. The women can also lazy around, just have good family morals. These male kids grow up to be a "man's man"...deficient of basic family morals, and we expect them to be good husbands to the respectable lady.

How long will that work? Both genders are already getting tired of shouldering deficient spouses.

Anyway, it's his belief.
I can only pray it benefits the parties involved.

Any man who has a problem with the female child being trained to be financially dependent on a man, but has no problem with this...
Hmmm, H, Y, P...for the HYP, for the HYPOCRITE .

XhosaNostra:


That's his opinion. He is not my man so I don't care

PastorLucifer:




[s]Shut up Pocohantas.

You have been severely used & dumped hence your online frustration & rants about men. Your mods banned me for posting proof.

Shame has not allowed you to continue with your Pocohantas moniker so you hide on Nairaland with AntiBrutus.

I promised you deactivation didn't I?

Whenever you grow the balls to return there, I'll be waiting. For now you can enjoy obscurity as it mirrors your real life persona. Any whiff of the word Pocohantas on NL will be extinguished ruthlessly & relentlessly.

Coward[/s].

Guidette:
Do Naija men even know what the feminist movement brought to this world? Women working to earn a living. So if you are a man looking for a working woman, but hate "feminists", then you are complicit in this movement. Why not get you a housewife and stop complaining about anything. Don't do business with women at all, like visiting female doctors or lawyers or pharmacists or bankers or engineers. Afterall, women need to be in the house only nurturing and taking care of your kids while men go and bring the daily bread home, right?

Don't be two faced or hypocritical. You cannot be anti-feminism yet be a party to why it existed in the very first place then. Just my 2 cents.

COdeGenesis:


Being a feminist or fighting for a course doesn't entail being disrespectful or taking every opportunity to throw tantrums at men. The feminists movement was born out of hate for men

AntiBrutus:


Trash. Get a life, I would never deactivate...
Definitely not because of you. Every sensible human knows this is my alternate. Anything else?

Toks2008:


Every dog and baboon now use that word misogynist even here on naira land.

Check out most ladies who are always quick to tag guys that name and you will see that they are mostly single,divorced and frustrated.

WORLDPEACE:

But he could become your man. You never know.
A rich, handsome and famous guy like him is not out of reach just because he lives in another continent, you know.
A spectacular guy like me could also want to promote you to the kitchen and the other room. Won't you make some compromise just to be with a king?
Please, this is not me feeling myself a little too much. I just want to know your thoughts.

KinSlayer:
how is that people think western society is failing when we have snakes here that swallow money like eba? I genuinely cannot understand

ideologies:
As a man who trained his daughter well, will you allow your daughter marry a man with poor home upbringing?


You ladies are funny!

These kind of mentality are the reason you need tougher upbringing.

Your lives are mostly based on fantasies not realities.

PastorLucifer:




"Every Nairalander knows this is your alternate" yet it was opened on Jan 22, 2018? A few days after I dealt you that public blow your nairaland image is yet to recover from?

Very funny.

Madam stop making excuses and return to your pocohantas moniker.

That moniker has lost crediility and you know it thats why you opened AntiBrutus. No one can take you seriously again after seeing the true, subservient, thirsty, needy, male-dependent hypocritical wh0re that you are.

Coward.




NB: Quit hiding your pain behind grin emojis. It only draws more attention to it.

donstan18:


Shut d'fvck up... Social media claimers.

What character is she building?, what's wrong with what he said, he wants to be strict to his niece, so?

Is she your "Niece"? , is Anthony Joshua life and decision suppose to be your concern?, huh?

Yes, he knows what African culture entails, he knows that her niece will grow to be someone's wife, he has every right to father her strictly the way he wants.

All the ladies that weren't brought up strictly and great discipline, what did they turn out to be? whoré, hoe, bitches and wannabe feminists that does nothing than to sleep around and ask for money from men due to their inability to become a responsible woman, wife and mother to the society.

You typed of beauty and brain, which one do you have?, he doesn't have beauty and brain, yet he's at the level he his..... Your type can even reach orgasm at the sight of him, yet will come here to form pooooo!

Once again... Shut d'fvck up and mind your business.


You dare not tell a Nigerian man how to train his kids or siblings.. You dare not....Train your own the way you want, don't decide for others.

Silumi:
You see our problem now.she will now grow up to marry the man that nobody trained when he starts messing up the marriage they will say it's her fault for not keeping her home.my son eh am just waiting for you.u cannot come and be entitled and irresponsible like most men of this generation.

AntiBrutus:


Blabla bla... It was opened after I was banned for insulting another troll like you. Even my siggy is my main handle.

Is it your toto I am using to wh0re? Na my toto na!
Leave it for me biko...
So, anything else?

sexybbstar:
I don't see anything wrong with his words. People just misconstrued the meaning of the statement.

DonaTee:


So boys don't need training? A well trained girl getting married to a poorly trained man will result to a miserable wife.

Boys need to be properly trained. That doesn't stop them from spreading wings. But when the chips are down they ll make quality men which is what the society lacks

PastorLucifer:
...

donstan18:


Shut d'fvck up... Social media claimers.

What character is she building?, what's wrong with what he said, he wants to be strict to his niece, so?

Is she your "Niece"? , is Anthony Joshua life and decision suppose to be your concern?, huh?

Yes, he knows what African culture entails, he knows that her niece will grow to be someone's wife, he has every right to father her strictly the way he wants.

All the ladies that weren't brought up strictly and great discipline, what did they turn out to be? whoré, hoe, bitches and wannabe feminists that does nothing than to sleep around and ask for money from men due to their inability to become a responsible woman, wife and mother to the society.

You typed of beauty and brain, which one do you have?, he doesn't have beauty and brain, yet he's at the level he his..... Your type can even reach orgasm at the sight of him, yet will come here to form pooooo!

Once again... Shut d'fvck up and mind your business.


You dare not tell a Nigerian man how to train his kids or siblings.. You dare not....Train your own the way you want, don't decide for others.

ideologies:
As a man who trained his daughter well, will you allow your daughter marry a man with poor home upbringing?


You ladies are funny!

These kind of mentality are the reason you need tougher upbringing.

Your lives are mostly based on fantasies not realities.

Toks2008:


Every dog and baboon now use that word misogynist even here on naira land.

Check out most ladies who are always quick to tag guys that name and you will see that they are mostly single,divorced and frustrated.

Neminc:

Trash, I guess every parents should just leave their children to grow and make mistakes and learn from it. Parents train children, that's the way it's meant to be. The Bible says train up a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it

RSVP:
Dat guy made a vaild point right there but some stench fools faminists like d ones we have on dis forum won't like the truth!.

You can be a woman but it takes alot to be a wife.

Man and woman are meant to serve different purpose... WE ARE NOT THE SAME!

Everything na feminist dis, feminist dat. Faminist my azz!

Navalsadiq:
well said.i think these one has common sense.most Nigerian girls have turned out to be whores. All they do is exchange sex for money.