Talk Less:

Nigerian women talk 80% of the time and want the man to not just listen but agree with them, they can literally turn a man's resting time to gossip time. If they can just be quite a little and not talk too much of how interesting their day to day was, just relax and let the man lead the interaction.

Every man will want to spend time with her. The real man knows to watch what a woman do and not what she says because he knows her superficial is a contradiction.

Get Rid of Ideologies That Encourage Her Worst Trait:

Women should think logically for once to realized that feminism ideology is a hoax, it creates more problem for her because its the only ideology that believe empowering one gender is equality. The feminist wants to put more time into her job and less time with a man.

The fact is, she will be more attractive if she put more effort into yourself outside career the more value, attractive and feminine you will be. No man will want to be with a woman who brag about accomplishment in her career.

Lose Weight:

Nigeria woman should get their shit together, very minute weaker men like obese women. Most women become excessively fat with reckless abandon after dropping one or two children. Every man like a model like woman, get in shape and you will be attractive to men.

Don't Reject A Guy Because You Want To Boast Your Fragile Ego:

Once a woman start feeling she's too special and drive pleasure from rejecting guys she don't want to fu*k. She reduce her chance of building connection with men because arrogance is what the men see when they approach her.

It's okay, to turn guys down but don't feel too good about yourself but politely refused, change the conversation and go on with your life. Being cold to guys should not be a way to inflate your ego or self esteem.

Stop Tattooing, Piercing Your Nose or Body:

Has any woman actually ask herself how many men really like to see them mutilate their body for the sake of being more attractive? The fact is piercing and ugly tattoos make you look unwise and a street urchins, jailbird etc. Maybe in entertainment or you probably read it in some novels and you want to stand out by piercing your nose, it's cool but you're just coping the every other body mutilating women.

Don't Sacrifice Family For Career:

A woman has the only naturally given right to bring another human to the world, this power shouldn’t be abuse or wasted in an attempt to be equal with man. Your best biological years should not be wasted on promoting an ideology that will not stop you from hitting the inevitable biological wall when it comes.

So many other things Nigerians women need to do including not keeping guys in the waiting list too long because men do not like to wait, while waiting or chasing her, he may bump into another woman who clearly see an opportunity and grab with both hands. This type of women are usually the one other women call loose girls in their school days but today the same women are the one that got the lucky men and happily married.

The girls who were nice, too careful and wanting not to be called sluts, put the guys through a list of shits tests are the ones asking question today of 'where are the good men'? The answer, you left them when you were 22 years!

dinewithoyin:
women should try to update their selves, they should be able to put something on the table.

BossLaifay:
Noted! But what would the men do to make themselves more attractive for us?

Mandrake007:
sister tell em ooh all they know how to offer is kpomo.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

ubunja:
7 things i cant stand on a woman: 1.colourful hair, like green dyed 2.tattoo 3.any piercing outside of earing 4.fake hair of any kind 5.bad breath, i kill you. 6.fake eye brows 7.intelligence, shuttup.
4 things i like 1.very tall slender ones 2.under 22 yrs 3.love to cook 4. kneel to serve food.

DeadRat:
you Forgot To Add Body Odour...

DeadRat:
When I Was A Teenager I Liked White Girls More but Now I See And Know Better. Nigerian Girls Are fvckin Pretty... If I Dont Marry A Black Girl then I Wouldnt Get Married...

ubunja:

lol Dead i love white women the older i get. but latinas are my first choice. black women have TOO MANY issues. if you cant love yourself in your natural skin complexion and hair how the hell is another person gona love what you yourself hate

ubunja:

gosh!!! yar. body odor is the next worst thing after being possessed by a demon.

ubunja:
7 things i cant stand on a woman:
1.colourful hair, like green dyed
2.tattoo
3.any piercing outside of earing
4.fake hair of any kind
5.bad breath, i kill you.
6.fake eye brows
7.intelligence, shuttup.

4 things i like

4. kneel to serve food.

DALE917:


She lives in cotonu
She's an househelp

ubunja:

you're the only one who doesnt kneel. all your friends kneel secretly.

Liliyann:
Someone will just sit in his house and write trash about a woman.
No lady should live to please a man,do what pleases you as long as you are happy.
Women should stop worshipping men and living by their dictates they ain't god!!
I live to please myself and no one else
My happiness over everyone else.

Thoniameek:
Since all my stay on Nairaland men have always had one advice or the other for women

From our Vaginas up to our hair extensions, there’s something either Toks2008 or/and Tosyne2much X33LM and Unbunja have to say...

Here I’ve been made to feel I’m worth nothing more than my Vagina and how tight it is...

Here I’ve also been made to understand that a man can blind his eyes to every of my flaws if I was educated and had money...

Here I’ve been made to feel I don’t need too much education - just proper training on how to be a full time housewife (wife material as they like to call it), it’s my only guarantee of having a man want to marry me...

Here on Nairaland I’ve been confused - I joined as a teenager, a critical age. I hated being a woman at some point in my life. Because everyone had something to say about my life and want they wanted except me!

I’ve risen from self pity anyways...

Now, I wonder who Nairaland men celebrate when they celebrate Mother’s Day or international women’s day... News flash, your mothers were once young girls like us and we are our mothers daughters

We should create threads to uplift our women, threads with gentle rebukes done out of love and maybe no feminist would exist again