If you are in a relationship and you are not happy,just come clean and tell your partner. It will hurt at first but you have gone a long way saving you both from progressive catastrophe

dafeyankee:
See like he resemble lalasticlacla

Aint saying marriage is not sonething sweet but you will still get to understand my point when you get admitted into the institution someday



Wishing you a blissful married life ahead in future

PrimadonnaO:


Yes, I'm not. And yes, I know that marriage is not a bed of roses. Still, I don't belive it is difficult. I lnow lots of blissful marriages, and I know mine wouldn't be an exception.

EgunMogaji:
What a cacophony of idiosyncrasies that can but only locomote out of the darkest depths of Africa.

#Sad.

Ishilove, chop grammar from your good friend

rayblings:


Bang DE DE deng!!!

What's the fuse.

Be waiting to return his bride price MUMU

As if he returned the sex you gave him

Be there deceiving yourself with bride price and don't move on. How will bride price stymie you from marrying someone else?

Be waiting for these kids to grow before you borrow sense

I was also wondering why it's a big deal for her. Seems she doesn't want to move on. Still hooked on the guy.

How do you expect a man who has abandoned a woman to come and collect the bride price he paid. Moving forward, Woman, please go with some elders from your home town to your estranged husband’s home town and return the bride price to him/his people. Some rites will immediately be performed and that’s the end of the traditional marriage between both of you. Period!

omooba969:


@bolded,

That's where the problem lies & it's a dangerous path. Everyone sees the red flags but we overlook/ignore coz we supposedly love our bf/gf & we can't imagine leaving them to start again.

If we can learn to love ourselves first, I think making up our minds when we see red flags would be a lot easier.

people overlooked because we can't have it all, someone red flags are things we can manage so we overlook them cos we know we have our own flaws too. Unfortunately some of the overlooked red flags turn out to be symptoms of a much bigger personality disorder, that is the problem

allanphash7:
Aint saying marriage is not sonething sweet but you will still get to understand my point when you get admitted into the institution someday



Wishing you a blissful married life ahead in future

. Thanks.

.

Do they know it will end up like this when they were deceiving themselves and the public tru pre wedding pix always displayed on Nairaland. All that glitters is not gold.

don't they have families ?

If he insist on refusing d money, abeg let her go n giv d money to d less priviledge
Lobatan

frenzyduchess:
people overlooked because we can't have it all, someone red flags are things we can manage so we overlook them cos we know we have our own flaws too. Unfortunately some of the overlooked red flags turn out to be symptoms of a much bigger personality disorder, that is the problem

You have a smart way of excusing bad behaviour. Ignoring the red flags is to allow bad behaviour to fester & will bruise your heels in the long term.

Never you allow anyone to get comfortable with disrespecting you.

My 2kobo.

omooba969:


@bolded,

You mean the fact that - no matter how faithful a man could be, the woman who gonna cheat is still gonna spread her legs like rumour.

people who cheat will always cheat even if dey have got all wat dey want in a person..shikena

Rozaytee:
people who cheat will always cheat even if dey have got all wat dey want in a person..shikena

Cool

It depends on where you are from, it shows he has left you for someone else for two years now and he is refusing to collect his bride price from you which is wickedness or he is under a spell. My dear you have to move on and let him rot with his found new love, but you cant until you return that money false fully. Like i said it depends on where you are from but whichever where, take the bride price cap in hand with your father, if your father is not there go with a trusted elder to his father's compound and say you have returned his bride price by throwing the money in their compound and run out with the elder without looking back and you are free because the said money is in their house already. Then you can move after this drama looking scenario.

prettyangel10:


Yes, I know d true story because we live in the same neighborhood. We attended the wedding in Delta State or Edo, can't remember again, all of a sudden, d wife disappeared, was wondering and d husband told us she went back to school, (she was a student when they got married) it was recently the full story came out that she moved out of d guys house because he is not as rich as she taught.

And d guy does not even have a girlfriend sha. This one she is saying d girlfriend is more beautiful than her is just all a lie.

okay

omooba969:


Where's your place?

Edo state.

CioAngels:
It depends on where you are from, it shows he has left you for someone else for two years now and he is refusing to collect his bride price from you which is wickedness or he is under a spell. My dear you have to move on and let him rot with his found new love, but you cant until you return that money false fully. Like i said it depends on where you are from but whichever where, take the bride price cap in hand with your father, if your father is not there go with a trusted elder to his father's compound and say you have returned his bride price by throwing the money in their compound and run out with the elder without looking back and you are free because the said money is in their house already. Then you can move after this drama looking scenario.

Ha, if they go to his fathers house is even too much. They shud go to the guys house or wea he works n drop the money there. If he accepts it then the seal is broken. The guy is simply wicked for not wanting yo collect bride price.

Tphoto1:

Edo state.

Cool

omooba969:


Cool

What a quick response. So u online 24/7 abi u can get notification?

Tphoto1:

What a quick response. So u online 24/7 abi u can get notification?

All for you.

Are you the one in NYSC top?

omooba969:


All for you.

Are you the one in NYSC top?

Nah. Lol. I was traveling and I saw d boy at a police check point. I started snaping him.
I no know who give am crested vest.....
Hahahaha

Tphoto1:

Nah. Lol. I was traveling and I saw d boy at a police check point. I started snaping him.
I no know who give am crested vest.....
Hahahaha

What a quick response. So u online 24/7 abi u get notifications?

Tphoto1:

Nah. Lol. I was traveling and I saw d boy at a police check point. I started snaping him.
I no know who give am crested vest.....
Hahahaha

Since you're hiding your face, may I ask you a question?

Are you beautiful? If yes, rate your beauty /10.

omooba969:


What a quick response. So u online 24/7 abi u get notifications?

Copied

omooba969:


Since you're hiding your face, may I ask you a question?

Are you beautiful? If yes, rate your beauty /10.

-0/10. Check me out. I know u won't speak to me again after seeing my pix.
Hmmmmm

Tphoto1:

-0/10. Check me out. I know u won't speak to me again after seeing my pix.
Hmmmmm

If that's you, you are beautiful & am serious.

omooba969:


If that's you, you are beautiful & am serious.

Tnx...
But I know u r kidding. If u wanna see more of my pics I can share them with u on WhatsApp. Drop ur number hea I know u won't want to cox don't look attractive

Tphoto1:

Tnx...
But I know u r kidding. If u wanna see more of my pics I can share them with u on WhatsApp. Drop ur number hea I know u won't want to cox don't look attractive

Lol, you're funny.

omooba969:


Lol, you're funny.

Hey I am serious hea. Just give me a chance by showing u more of my make up face pictures. U will see that make up makes me beautiful. That picture is a n make up pix. Drop ur number.
Please

Tphoto1:

Hey I am serious hea. Just give me a chance by showing u more of my make up face pictures. U will see that make up makes me beautiful. That picture is a n make up pix. Drop ur number.
Please

Let me ask for permission from BabbanBura .