I was in a discussion that generated into a heated argument where all the ladies seem to unanimously agreed & believed that there boyfriends must take full responsibility of there financial needs even when they are not engaged.

I countered there line of arguments by saying no guy is mandated to help his girlfriend out of any financial difficulties and it is even not his duty to give you any money for your upkeep since he is neither your father nor husband. If a guy is giving, it should be at his own free will.. But guess what they all said! They said I'm naturally stingy hence my perception. But in Truth, I am not stingy!! I just believed that ladies should be more industrious and shouldn't depend on guys financially...

Ladies and Guys in the house, what is your take on this issue??

Tell those girls to come to my street, theres a shop where they sell quality shovels, Ghana is just a stone throw away, theres still enough gold there to dig

Apina:

Apina:

yes a guy should take full responsibility of his girlfriend

it all depends on who wants what the most.

a girl desperate for affection my be blind to money and only crave love attention, org.asm...

a guy desparate for love attention, or orgasm will be more financially responsible to the babe thwn his own parent.

why the heck will I take full responsibility of a chick that am not engaged to or married to..
sadly some niggas that are blinded by love will do anything for their partners even displeasing themselves to please their spouse..
is not a crime to help your partner financially buh the taught of taking the full responsibility of her father is madness..
na so my bro dey mumu e self for one girl for ekp
anything the chick wants she gets babe call my bro very late in the night say she's hungry oga fly bike for night go by fast food for her..
last last babe still fvck am up

marvin906:
why the heck will I take full responsibility of a chick that am not engaged to or married to..
sadly some niggas that are blinded by love will do anything for their partners even displeasing themselves to please their spouse..
is not a crime to help your partner financially buh the taught of taking the full responsibility of her father is madness..
na so my bro dey mumu e self for one girl for ekp
anything the chick wants she gets babe call my bro very late in the night say she's hungry oga fly bike for night go by fast food for her..
last last babe still fvck am up

you can imagine

Different things for different folks.
I personally believe relationships should be about sharing. Hence the responsibility should not be one sided. Guys were not created to serve girls. On this note,I believe we ladies should be industrious and not wait for one man to foot our bills.

mzhorlah:
Different things for different folks.
I personally believe relationships should be about sharing. Hence the responsibility should not be one sided. Guys were not created to serve girls. On this note,I believe we ladies should be industrious and not wait for one man to foot our bills.

not many ladies would agree with you

clitlicker:
it all depends on who wants what the most.

a girl desperate for affection my be blind to money and only crave love attention, org.asm...

a guy desparate for love attention, or orgasm will be more financially responsible to the babe thwn his own parent.

i kinda disagree with you

bobokeshington:


not many ladies would agree with you

yeah,different things for different folks. This is my own opinion

mzhorlah:
yeah,different things for different folks. This is my own opinion

yes you're right

dhamstar:
yes a guy should take full responsibility of his girlfriend

Pussy nigga spotted girls have added another meat to their pot kai!!!

Akinbahm:

Pussy nigga spotted girls have added another meat to their pot kai!!!

Don't mind him,is people like him dat will buy a house for a girl but will find it hard to buy his mum a wrapper..

Holysucker:


Don't mind him,is people like him dat will buy a house for a girl but will find it hard to buy his mum a wrapper..

You don dey take am 3 far e be the type wey go carry girls go big restaurant tell the gurl to order for anything and him go order for table water not to go off budget and e go reach home go soak garri. My friend better receive sense!!!

Akinbahm:
Pussy nigga spotted girls have added another meat to their pot kai!!!

outta pussy you were born and through pussy you shall return...
But seriously some guys been dey fall hand sha

Full responsibility... nor be only!
Giving is optional, if she wants money, den make she enter ashawo work na... I once dated a girl for 5 yrs and she only bought 1 boxers and 1 singlet for 5 years... stingy set of pple... you only take responsibility after u marry her, every other spending is like investing in TTB, no returns no interest only deposit without withdrawal...

It really depends. But ladies should not depend on guys to foot their bills. I can give but won't if you unnecessarily make it an habit. Even my wife knows I don't just give, not to talk of gf

will nija guys spend on girls without penetrating them? I laughed when a girl I was previously dating claimed her last man did a lot for her including weekly pocket money without penetration! is there any stupid man who won't sex a lady he spends on weekly?