This piece was written by Romeo3
https://www.nairaland.com/4387789/diary-uber-driver-interactive/3#65701024







To all guys that read this diary, pay close attention.

Avoid relationships if you do not have a steady and consistent source of income. I want to tell you a hard truth. Mind You, i will always talk from experience.

Girls/women were not created to suffer. Naturally, God did not create them to work. It's an innate thing. It's naturally in them. it's in their instinct to date/marry a male who would provide for her and her children. Make no mistake. All they want from you is consistency. Keep love out of your head. Love doesn't cover everything. A girl will stay with you when you are broke because she believes in your ability to turn your situation around eventually. She will walk away if your situation does not improve. pls, do not blame her when it happens. It's natural. Even when they are working and are making their own money, they are instinctively looking out for a guy who makes more than them or, who has the potential to make more money than them. If your situation doesnt doesn't change for the better, they will insult you eventually and leave you. Even when they do not insult you directly, you will be insulted by how they change their attitude or how they respond to you.

Be wise. Focus on improving your life and stop chasing girls. I repeat, stop chasing girls. When you have made it, you will attract the right kind of girl. A woman chooses her man. She will always follow the one she believe will take care of her the most. Do not also forget that they have a biological clock counting against them, and you do not. It's never about love alone. If they say they love You, it's because they have a basis for that love. No love without finance. When hardship comes knocking on the door, love escapes through the window. They will only stay if you can assure them that your situation will change, and if they can truly see signs of your situation changing.

I meet them a lot on uber. They keep you as a boyfriend, but they are sleeping with a guy who meets all their needs. If you were meeting all their needs they wont cheat on you. It's not your fault that they cheat on You, but i will blame you for putting yourself in awkward situations. There is nothing wrong with singleness. Discover who you are and what you stand for. There is a time for everything. life is step by step. If you skip a step, you are in trouble. If you do not know who you are, you will fall for every girl that comes your way when you are eventually ready. Take your time before you go into a relationship. Study women and their behaviour. Read about them, do your research and observe. If you think having money will bring you women, you are very correct. But if you have not discovered your self and made your research you are in trouble. They will use you.
A fisherman's net will attract and capture all kinds of fish. Not all fishes are suitable. A fisherman has to select good fish from bad. Be like a fisherman. You need experience to be like a fisherman. A fisherman wasnt born a fisherman. He learned to be a fisherman. You do not have to wait for a car to hit you before you know you could die. From the experience of others, you will know. Learn from experience. Gather knowledge.

Make no mistake, women are the smartest of all of God's creation. They can do 10 different things at the same time efficiently. it is how God created them. They can date 10 different men at the same time and none of them will ever find out. Go figure. I am not even talking of runs girls here cos those ones are pure business women. Don't even be a fool to fall in love with a runs girl.

Runs girls will make you feel good about yourself. They will take care of you. They will pamper you and will make you believe they have changed and then you will find out they havent changed and tou will be heartbroken because you are a very big fool.
If it's sex you want, they will kill you with sex. You will believe you have found the one because you are just a rotund discombobulated idiot.

I saw one of those idiots the other day. I picked up this girl and a friend of hers one day from park view estate. They were going to Ajah to see her supposed boyfriend. He has money according to the story the girl was narrating. but, he met her as a customer and fell in love with her. Don't be like him. On our way to his house, they girl was expecting a call from another guy who she was supposed to go and sleep with. Her friend asked her what she'll do when the guy calls her and she was with her boyfriend. She replied and said very simple; I will pick a fight with him, and storm out of the house. Will ignore his calls like say i dey form vex, then i go cool down the next day.....
I waited to see the idiot. The fool that has been wrapped around this girl's little finger.

Be wise. Broaden you view about women. They deserve to be studied. In fact, i believe they should be studied as a course in higher institutions. I have learnt a lot. Pains me to see stupid guys every where. Be wise.



cc: MissCokie

RuthDaniels:
#yawn!


Summary please?

Ruth? Ruth?? Ruth?...??
How many times did I call you?

boyjo:


Ruth? Ruth?? Ruth?...??
How many times did I call you?

Zero times, I didn't hear any voice

Stop trying to impress a girl, rather impress a woman who is your wife.

RuthDaniels:
Zero times, I didn't hear any voice

Lool...you are playing with me you this girl

MissCokie:
Stop trying to impress a girl, rather impress a woman who is your wife.

Never Attempt Impressing Anyone... Impress Yourself... If you Give A Fvck about What People Say Then You then You Are Less Than fvck...




Those Who Mind Dont Matter, Those Who Matter Dont Mind.

[quote author=boyjo post=65890029] They can date 10 different mugus at the same time and none of them will ever find out. I agree with u Op.

[quote author=Grayjoy post=65893379][/quote]

Funny, I disagree with the OP on this.
There are some girls who would cheat but this whole "Girls are cheat" is a huge lie. Propaganda. A propanganda that has failed woefully to yeild fruits!!

MissCokie:
Stop trying to impress a girl, rather impress a woman who is your wife.

You this man, take ya time

EzeDictator:
Never Attempt Impressing Anyone... Impress Yourself... If you Give A Fvck about What People Say Then You then You Are Less Than fvck...




Those Who Mind Dont Matter, Those Who Matter Dont Mind.

At some point in your life, your ability to imress will shoot you to the next level.

boyjo:


At some point in your life, your ability to imress will shoot you to the next level.

whatever You Doing to Get To The Next Level, do It Because You Love To, not Because You Want To Impress...

oga abeg you go help me summarize this thing abeg

EzeDictator:
whatever You Doing to Get To The Next Level, do It Because You Love To, not Because You Want To Impress...

You may not want to impress but you`d need to impress. At an interview for example, you must speak with a motive to impress also.
There are times you need to impress.

boyjo:


You may not want to impress but you`d need to impress. At an interview for example, you must speak with a motive to impress also.
There are times you need to impress.

People Get Impressed Because Are Not Fakin it. You Are Doing It Because Of The Passion For What you Do. They Could Be Impressed By Your Presentation but You Were Never Doing It For Impression Sake, you Did It Because You Were Born For It... THAT SHOULD BE THE MIND SET

EzeDictator:
People Get Impressed Because Are Not Fakin it. You Are Doing It Because Of The Passion For What you Do. They Could Be Impressed By Your Presentation but You Were Never Doing It For Impression Sake, you Did It Because You Were Born For It... THAT SHOULD BE THE MIND SET

@bolded But it is not. You deliberately set out to impress.

boyjo:


Funny, I disagree with the OP on this.
There are some girls who would cheat but this whole "Girls are cheat" is a huge lie. Propaganda. A propanganda that has failed woefully to yeild fruits!!

Not everyone is a cheat both male and female.

Grayjoy:
Not everyone is a cheat both male and female.

Cool.
#GirlsAreNotCheats