This is why relationships in this age are overrated. I'd rather just fúck around. Don't check your babe's phone, your headache, that last WhatsApp notification she got was me texting her what area the uber taxi should pick her up.

Study has it that people who are obsessed about whether their partner is cheating or not are the ones actually cheating or intend to ...

This guy is new to falling in love and fears loosing the only girl who ever accepted him, There is no such thing as trust dealing with human being because every one has a mind of their own and the vast majority are good at pretending.

If his girl has the opportunity, she would snoop through his phone looking for CONFIRMATION BIAS because human are naturally biased so getting a confirmation to back it up is instinct for long time successful survival among same specie. This psychology plays out because of the competition among species.

234GT:
Leave maturity.
Checking your babes phone can reveal a lot and save you from wasting precious time in a relationship heading for nowhere.

Wa gba yi.

LifeIsGuhd:
Has nothing to do with maturity...

I also believe we shouldn't go through our partner's phone but when that partner is making a conscious effort to keep his/her phone away... then my brother, it is time to throw away maturity and trust.

May God bless you

Wahala dey o.

who high bp help
i trust no one

Aweboyaweboy:
I don't agree. if we trust each other then we should have access to each others phones.

As in!!! I dey wait make i see if i go understand wetin those undercover idiots dey talk. Anyway sha, to each his own.

This one weak me oo

At times not checking on one's phone doesn't necessarily mean U trust the person!

It simply means U neither have the time or strength for that emotional path!
In other words,I cherish my peace of mind always!

U guys are just giving urselves unnecessary high blood pressure by turning into a detective because of ur partner....

Whoever wants to flirt or cheat will do so nicely and no one including the partner will ever know or suspect!

My peace of mine is paramount!

I check her phone, she checks my phone.. no big deal. keeps us both updated and in check (if you know what I mean) . Call it immaturity, it's your headache. chao

no biggie I often times leave my phone with my gal. no qualms

so i will not watch movie, pictures and play game in my girlfriends phone again when am using nokia touchlight?

prettyesther20:
Study has it that people who are obsessed about whether their partner is cheating or not are the ones actually cheating or intend to ...

Reference your claim biko.

Gibberish.

if countries can have spies, why can't I? I get my girl's phone almost every time, it is not only cheating, you will know through her chats if she likes you or just want your money or if she talks about personal things you share with her to her friend, you will at least know her true character especially when you check her group chats with friends

TreMain:
A Nigerian twitter user, @nwikyernest, revealed that he does never check through his partner's phone or stalk on her, while he condemn d act.

According to him, spying or stalking on your partner can be very disastrous to the health of any relationship, he however never deny finding some bitter truth, he said " when u break that, U inevitably find it".

Secretly checking partner's phone has destroyed a lot if relationship, does it in any way even strengthen relationship??




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I agreement disagree with u!

Never checking ur partners fone is the BIGGEST mistake u can make in relationship/Life. Cos u will only know what he or she wants u to know about them. Is dat sufficient info for u to know who ure about to spend the rest of ur life with? Risking alot for??

However

On the flip side Checking ur partners fone every single time u find the chance or demanding to see it all the time will only make u a paranoid human being and incapable of trust.

So u have have a balanced approach to it. Enjoy

For me checking my partner's phone is a must!
But the catch is knowin what to check.
I always laugh when guys search the inbox of their partners whereas they should be searching the outbox/sent messages.
Any idiot can stalk, toast or fantasize to a chic through her inbox but it would take a cheat to consent via her replies!

If its a bilateral relationship the type that exist between Nigeria and China,u don't have any right to go through her phone but if it's a mutual type of relationship the one that exist between a Fulani man and his cow,my man that phone belongs to you biko.

The only time u might be forced to take a peek at her phone is if she's acting all suspiciously. U wouldn't want to contact some deadly STD frm ur partner cos u acted all matured and give him/her ur total trust.

Bros ur own na story. I knw u wella, u wey sabi check ur babe phone je, she been kum tel my mumcy. U kum here here the talk bicos nobdy the see?

This is trash!! Any woman that i cannot take her phone and go out with it, or she taking my phone out freely, that's a fraudulent relationship/ marriage.

U're on your own my broda

Hofbrauhaus:
I check my girls phone but I don't allow her to check min3...Girls are made to be loyal to men. Why would my girl be checking my phone, what is she looking for?

Exactly what you are looking for in her own

continue till she finish you and leave. girlfriend not even wife. not at generation we are oo. ama check check check and spy till I get something .

"Maturity, Trust"....

In this era of runs & 'side' action

Be deluding yourself...

Omoh,...leave am. Ders notin lyk maturity n trust wateva, u're jst takin preventive measures. U're avoiding heartbreaks or soul damage lol...Sm tins ar beta nt known. U jst no wan get BP reloaded.

as e de hot

adecz:


"Maturity, Trust"....

In this era of runs & 'side' action

Be deluding yourself...

adecz:


"Maturity, Trust"....

In this era of runs & 'side' action

Be deluding yourself...

adecz:


"Maturity, Trust"....

In this era of runs & 'side' action

Be deluding yourself...

maybe she's the one financing him.

U

mylove4God:

Exactly what you are looking for in her own

If she has another bobo...

Lol this op sef. Truth is I tell my girl this - I won't go through her phone... I trust her... Blah blah blah. But the minute she enters the bathroom I turn CIA agent. I know all her passwords although I pretend not to. But unless she is a good at formatting her social media chats and sms, then I think everyone is safe so far.

Op please o!! Trust.....but verify. For health reasons.

Mtcheww. Maturity ko, mortality ni. Lubbishhhh