Hofbrauhaus:
I check my girls phone but I don't allow her to check min3...Girls are made to be loyal to men. Why would my girl be checking my phone, what is she looking for?

TreMain:
A Nigerian twitter user, @nwikyernest, revealed that he does never check through his partner's phone or stalk on her, while he condemn d act.

According to him, spying or stalking on your partner can be very disastrous to the health of any relationship, he however never deny finding some bitter truth, he said " when u break that, U inevitably find it".

Secretly checking partner's phone has destroyed a lot if relationship, does it in any way even strengthen relationship??




https://www.gistrealm.com/i-dont-go-through-my-girls-phone-it-is-called-maturity-and-trust-twitter-user-do-u-agree/

stainlesslamon1:
You checking your woman � or girl � friend phone � is not bad at all,is for you to know her sincerity because ladies they lied alot when it comes to relationship. You need to check so that you will no the danger � ahead or makes an amendment. It has happened to me before the lady I trusted I never no a dick has Bleep her,mistakenly as I login into my facebook account her own was not log out eventually it open behold what I saw was big than me. She is telling the guy she has missed her period that she is pregnant,the guy started to insult her and block her in facebook. When I asked she told me it happen since January but after my investigation and confrontation with the guy he confess and pleaded with me that it happen three days back. And the guy is a church ⛪ worker in Redeem church Opolo Divine parish,I don't want to mention names here. I feel sick seriously my BP increase,but now my woman � has pleaded for forgiveness and I have forgiven her. The issue is had it been that I have paid her marital rite and such happen,no matter the pleading I will divorce her instantly. My conclusion is this checking his/her will make you know what's happening around if only you can bear the pains. I learnt not to give a lady 70% of my love, rather I will give the 45-50% of my heart

LifeIsGuhd:
Has nothing to do with maturity...

I also believe we shouldn't go through our partner's phone but when that partner is making a conscious effort to keep his/her phone away... then my brother, it is time to throw away maturity and trust.

oyb:
the interesting thing is that it is the same people whe are obsessed with going through their spouses devices that are also maniacally secretive. go figure

oyb:
the interesting thing is that it is the same people whe are obsessed with going through their spouses devices that are also maniacally secretive. go figure

prettyesther20:
Study has it that people who are obsessed about whether their partner is cheating or not are the ones actually cheating or intend to ...

asuustrike2009:

point of correction, at relationship platform is a side by side thing. Both parties are to be loyal to each other. it takes a selfish and pride man to hide his phone from his girl why he spies on his lover's phone.

LifeIsGuhd:
Has nothing to do with maturity...

I also believe we shouldn't go through our partner's phone but when that partner is making a conscious effort to keep his/her phone away... then my brother, it is time to throw away maturity and trust.

MissJoy29:

God will Bless you my brother. Anyone who is obsessed with checking my phone and asking questions like a detective is already suspect number one. How do you know I'm trying to hide something in my phone if you are not hiding one or have hidden something there yourself?

Transperancy is key FOR BOTH PARTIES. And it's not just about giving you access to my phone. Besides, why would I want to develop high blood pressure early? Cos that's what I see as the effect of two timing and cheating. But let's assume I don't love my life and HBP is bae, I will cheat smart. I don't need to list ways of cheating smart here. But all those people up being particular about phone haven't seen really smart cheats.

Btw,I haven't seen where it's written that only ladies' phone should be checked. Or do those guys above me want to bring African man mentality to this too? My partner and I should be free with our phones.

Cc: chocberry,
cassyrooy,
purityval.

purityval:



It's funny the comments I have read up there. So we are now at the point where not checking a partners phone is termed maturity? Funny how others are trying to load it down on the female folks and the blame going around... What's that?

Not checking your partners phone is in no way a prove of maturity. Oh! Because you don't want to have a heart attack? So in your mind you know one Way or the other that something might be hidden (lack of trust)

Maturity is the ability to pick up your partners phone, go through it in and out and drop it back, not because you are suspicious but because you know that there is nothing hidden And he/she can do same to your gadget. If your partner can't pick your phone and reply a girl/guy chatting you up, ya'all need to evaluate that relationship.

Bottom line is RELATIONSHIPS are messed up. All we have now is people seeking to satisfy whatever momentary need they have and move on afterwards. Love is SCAM.... Relationship is SCAM.... Marriage is FRAUD.