ThePelican:

Begin this questions

190:

are we questioning theseeker without the presence of platimunk

Its not done~
she threw the charges
she should be seated here~
[s]if care is not taken i would advise theseeker too to go for shopping and come back later~[/s]

Plat has to be seated here!!

190:

are we questioning theseeker without the presence of platimunk

Its not done~
she threw the charges
she should be seated here~
[s]if care is not taken i would advise theseeker too to go for shopping and come back later~[/s]

Plat has to be seated here!!

ThePelican:

The relationship ended on December 12, 2009 to be precise. But emotionally it had ended before then, if that counts for anything.

ThePelican:

The reason it ended was because she said she's convinced I'm a scammer.

Missy B:

Would You please, through more light on this?

Missy B:

Why do You think she made such a claim? Are You Guilty?

ThePelican:

The relationship was rocky at some point. The emotional draining was getting high and I found myself continually detaching away from the relationship. But, I can't deny that I felt good with the relationship from the start. . .some things are just not meant to be and one way or the other if they happen, they have to discontinue. This case wasn't an exception. I must reiterate, however, that she was a great girl at least up until the time everything went sour.

ThePelican:

I can't deny that I felt good with the relationship from the start. . .

ThePelican:

The reasons I think she made such claims were according to her, "facts that proved her red flag alerts right". And, no, I am not guilty.

tkb417:

Ok
I have taken my seat tho ill be posting from a bar via my fone, I promise not to let the alcohol in me system distort my reasoning and sense of judgement
So help me Lord!!

So who else is on board?

Odunnu:

chair don finish!Went shopping myself,nw i'm late.
Abeg lap me nah. . . Thanx bros!

Missy B:

While You were 'detaching' from her, was she doing same?
Was the loss of interest as a result of the other Nairaland Lady in Your life at that time?

Missy B:

You're saying ; The relationship wasn't meant to be? You regret it?
Thepelican, please, tell us how the whole scam thing started.

Missy B:

How You asked for help, for what reason and why You failed her.

ThePelican:

I don't know if she was detaching at that time; I can't tell how or what she felt. I didn't have any nairaland lady in my life then and not even now.

ThePelican:

She offered most of the helps, I don't vividly recall asking for any help.

Pweety4me:

I believe she was very giving & generous.

[size=4pt]By d way will the audience get d chance 2 ask any questions? [/size]

Missy B:

You never had a romantic relationship with Fl Gators?

Missy B:

You may want to tell us, what help she offered. You didn't ask for any help?

ThePelican:

No, I never had any romantic relationship with Fl Gators. She was one of my biggest fans, but I don't think so anymore. Nevertheless, I'm still hers anytime.

ThePelican:

The help I got from her were two. First was the TOEFL test fee she paid and that was for $175.

Missy B:

You're not welcome in here. Why don't You take Yourself out? Thanks!!
You're seeking too much attention.

ThePelican:

No, I never had any romantic relationship with Fl Gators. She was one of my biggest fans, but I don't think so anymore. Nevertheless, I'm still hers anytime.

The help I got from her were two. First was the TOEFL test fee she paid and that was for $175. The second was the application fees she paid to the colleges. In as much as I appreciated the TOEFL test fee, I didn't feel comfortable with it at first and I made this known to her by text message--and I think by email too but I'm not certain. She told me she didn't feel comfortable with it as well but that she was going to give me a benefit of doubt. I told her then that I was going to send her the test fee to pay, and that I could only do that by September because I wanted to take the test in September but she insisted I took the test in August and as such she was going to pay for it and I will refund her at my convenience. I agreed to accept, after all, we were in a relationship and it might just not be proper if I refused to accept it since the intention was to speed up the whole process for me to have all that were required to submit the application for college admission.  She did the same with the college admission. Besides those two, there were no other offered help.