Amarabae:
About the word "submission "
Many men misunderstand it,
Many abuse it
Many hide under it to show their misogynistic attitude,

But what do you understand by submission?

Let's examine this.

Joy is beautiful
Joy is well educated and very intelligent, she read abroad.
Joy is working and being paid well

Joy gets married to John.

John is handsome
John is also educated,
John is working too


Now they are married,

John wants joy to be submissive to him ,
Joy ask him "sweetheart what do you mean by submitting to you?

John replies (in a typical African man understanding of submission) :
1.Submitting to me means that my word in this house is final,
2. When I am talking, you should be quiet
3. Whenever I want sex, you should spread your legs
4. I can cheat but you dare not cheat
5. I determine the number of babies we can have.
6.Never you raise your voice on me.
Etc

Joy asked him, :ok but why should I be "submissive to you " and not the other way round?
How did you merit it?


John replies : are you mad?
Don't you know that I am a man and bla bla bla.

The typical African man reasoning.

How can you having a dick be the only qualification for a woman to be submissive to you?
What kind of dumb mentality is that?
You expect a woman to lick your asshole because you have a dick?

And when you try to define the word "submission"
It means yielding to a superior authority,
You being under the control of another person or thing.

So in the mind of the misogynists, a woman who they refer as weak vessel should yield to a man who is a strong vessel,
No wonder many women are passing through a lot in marriages today,
Tolerating a lot of nonsense,
Because we are in a man dominated world,

It pains me to see that many girls are still being brainwashed,
You see them accepting the word "submission"
Aunty submission, are you a slave?
Will river Niger dry up if men starts submitting?
You better wake up.

I am not a slave,
Marriage is not a slave camp,
I will love you as the husband the same way you will love me.
We will argue,
I will not lick your asshole,
I will stand on my right and defend it
My opinion matters.
And lastly
I am NOT and will never be a weak vessel
Feminism rejects that.
We are strong and proud.

Many men need a reorientation about issues like this especially the yet to marry ones.
Many women are waking up,
There is a reason why the divorce rate is high these days because tolerating rubbish has a limit,
Our mothers went through a lot of anti women prejudices in the society and marriage,
We refuse to go through the same,


All thanks to feminism.
A woman should love the husband deeply and the husband should love the wife deeply too.
Respect her, she will respect you,
Care for her, she will care for you.

Stop manipulating women with the word "submission"
I don't believe in it and will never.
I am no slave.
I love my husband and he loves me.
Our marriage is not a slave camp.
And thats how it should be.

#thanks

Ladyhippolyta88:
Good one.Nigerian or Africa men are always quick to talk about submission but they forget that they ought to love.

Amarabae:

Some of them, their wives are feeding them but they will still be shouting submission

donstan18:

lilmax:
romance section still like this?

men forcing women to submit means oppression, so they should ditch it and should not be controlled
women on the other hand forcing men to do away with the mentality, oppression too

logic has been reduced, you are a Christian and you follow it up, you are not a Christian you fuc.k it

do whatever works for you and your spouse instead of creating worthless topics

crap

Grayjoy:
If John outlined ur points above then he is nt learned as u said, the thing is marriage requires respect from both parties and not this submission theory.
And the Irony is that many men today are d ones submitting don't know why u ladies are still complaining.

Amarabae:

Feminism don't want any gender to submit,
We want the word submitting to be eradicated.
That's all.

Amarabae:

3. Whenever I want sex, you should spread your legs

THIS IS HIGHLY IMPORTANT.

Amarabae:
Cc : greiboy.
Get in here
Shugavee get in

Newbeginnings:


What is marriage Amarabae?

ceejayx:
Why does this God's gift and ability bestowed upon these girls to push a baby out of their vagina entitle them to female supremacy and denigration of men?
Trash post
Don't quote me

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I KNEW THIS THREAD HAD NO PURPOSE THE MINUTE I SAW YOU MENTION SHUGAVI. I MEAN, SHUGAVI OF ALL THE WOMEN ON THIS FORUM?? HAHA..

YOU CREATE A THREAD AND IMMEDIATELY USHER IN YOUR BAND OF THUGS TO STAND AS GATE KEEPERS, SO WHAT'S THE POINT?

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I KNEW THIS THREAD HAD NO PURPOSE THE MINUTE I SAW YOU MENTION SHUGAVI. I MEAN, SHUGAVI OF ALL THE WOMEN ON THIS FORUM?? HAHA..

YOU CREATE A THREAD AND IMMEDIATELY USHER IN YOUR BAND OF THUGS TO STAND AS GATE KEEPERS, SO WHAT'S THE POINT?

Amarabae:
Feminism don't want any gender to submit, We want the word submitting to be eradicated. That's all.

CAPSLOCKED:



THIS IS HIGHLY IMPORTANT.

Amarabae:
About the word "submission "
Many men misunderstand it,
Many abuse it
Many hide under it to show their misogynistic attitude,

But what do you understand by submission?

Let's examine this.

Joy is beautiful
Joy is well educated and very intelligent, she read abroad.
Joy is working and being paid well

Joy gets married to John.

John is handsome
John is also educated,
John is working too


Now they are married,

John wants joy to be submissive to him ,
Joy ask him "sweetheart what do you mean by submitting to you?

John replies (in a typical African man understanding of submission) :
1.Submitting to me means that my word in this house is final,
2. When I am talking, you should be quiet
3. Whenever I want sex, you should spread your legs
4. I can cheat but you dare not cheat
5. I determine the number of babies we can have.
6.Never you raise your voice on me.
Etc

Joy asked him, :ok but why should I be "submissive to you " and not the other way round?
How did you merit it?


John replies : are you mad?
Don't you know that I am a man and bla bla bla.

The typical African man reasoning.

How can you having a dick be the only qualification for a woman to be submissive to you?
What kind of dumb mentality is that?
You expect a woman to lick your asshole because you have a dick?

And when you try to define the word "submission"
It means yielding to a superior authority,
You being under the control of another person or thing.

So in the mind of the misogynists, a woman who they refer as weak vessel should yield to a man who is a strong vessel,
No wonder many women are passing through a lot in marriages today,
Tolerating a lot of nonsense,
Because we are in a man dominated world,

It pains me to see that many girls are still being brainwashed,
You see them accepting the word "submission"
Aunty submission, are you a slave?
Will river Niger dry up if men starts submitting?
You better wake up.
You will see a man whose wife is feeding,
A man whose wife is the breadwinner of the family yet he will be shouting submission!
Funny idiosyncrasies

I am not a slave,
Marriage is not a slave camp,
I will love you as the husband the same way you will love me.
We will argue,
I will not lick your asshole,
I will stand on my right and defend it
My opinion matters.
And lastly
I am NOT and will never be a weak vessel
Feminism rejects that.
We are strong and proud.

Many men need a reorientation about issues like this especially the yet to marry ones.
Many women are waking up,
There is a reason why the divorce rate is high these days because tolerating rubbish has a limit,
Our mothers went through a lot of anti women prejudices in the society and marriage,
We refuse to go through the same,


All thanks to feminism.
A woman should love the husband deeply and the husband should love the wife deeply too.
Respect her, she will respect you,
Care for her, she will care for you.

Stop manipulating women with the word "submission"
I don't believe in it and will never.
I am no slave.
I love my husband and he loves me.
Our marriage is not a slave camp.
And thats how it should be.

#thanks

folake4u:
Op wants to open a can of worms this hot Sunday afternoon .

Amarabae:

Feminism don't want any gender to submit,
We want the word submitting to be eradicated.
That's all.

BluntBoy:

Tell me about it.

folake4u:

BluntBoy:


Alright, I get it loud and clear