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| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by 2016v2017: 2:46am On Apr 13, 2018 |
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| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by 2016v2017: 2:53am On Apr 13, 2018 |
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| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by Lexusgs430: 2:53am On Apr 13, 2018 |
eleojo23: Oga, you harsh o..... |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by 2016v2017: 2:55am On Apr 13, 2018 |
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| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by MissRaine69(f): 2:55am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Suffer the consequences....... Even under pressure and frustration you could have said no but you wanted to punish your ex because he was taking his time and you were impatient. Well this is what happens to impatient women. You made your bed lie in it. As for your ex some men want what they suddenly can’t have or there is the real reality that he wants you because he sees you as an opportunity to leave the country just like you did. ( that’s if you left) Don’t think for a minute he will stay with you if he does. You madam are now a means of an end nothing more! If his parents did not approve of you then they certainly have very valid reasons to absolutely not approve of you now have you thought about it? Should have stayed single ........while you sorted your self and your head out now. You can’t jump in and out of relationships and expect no consequences. This man (husband) has the right to ask for all he has paid for you to be returned. I feel sorry for your husband. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by AreaFada2: 2:58am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Well, as much as we all like to condemn this lady for her insecurity and immaturity, maybe we should see her point too. She has already realised she cannot marry him for life. Hopefully just two months into the marriage she's not pregnant yet. And hopefully she has not moved abroad with hubby yet. Therefore better to help the hubby cut his losses now. She will also spare the innocent hubby and herself much unhappiness. To soldier on regardless just for the sake of it will eventually cause resentment. Something the hubby cannot help but notice with time. So she should not continue deceiving him. She's already practically cheating on hubby by still discussing love and possibility of returning, with her ex. Emotional cheating is the twin sister of physical cheating. If she chooses to divorce, the hubby will be distraught initially of course but it will save him time and avoid the chances of the lady's ex fathering a child for the hubby. If she returns to her ex, whatever she gets there she has to bear with humility. The ex might be out on vengeance, to break her marriage, use her and dump. If the ex bf was previously hiding his other liaisons by hiding phone at night, who says he'll stop that behaviour to please a returnee ex who's now even a divorcee?  5 Likes |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by iammarvellux(m): 3:15am On Apr 13, 2018 |
BE more patience, You will smile at last |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by linearity: 3:29am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Nairaland is fast becoming a fake news and fake story factory, keep it up. |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by ikevictor: 3:34am On Apr 13, 2018 |
The only reason why am disappointed in you is not because you married another while in love with the other...the painpoint is, does your husband know that you truly do not love him? Start by telling him the truth first, cos its possible you still call him all the sweet names in the world then come to NL to post rubbish. 1 Like |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by prechbills1(m): 3:39am On Apr 13, 2018 |
 fake story.. I don't understand how some people actually believed this crap |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by prechbills1(m): 3:41am On Apr 13, 2018 |
lemme go back to sleep abeg, 40% of stories like this posted on nairaland are fake 1 Like |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by prechbills1(m): 3:46am On Apr 13, 2018 |
MissRaine69: I used to think that things like this only happen in nollywood movies.. imagine the disgrace, was she dragged like a goat to the alter? this story is fake though, anybody who believes this crap is living in fantasy. 1 Like |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by RaseJudex(m): 4:10am On Apr 13, 2018 |
To say that you are confused is an understatement. You are confused, senseless and immature. According to you, your Ex's family didn't support your relationship with him because you are not from the same state. They rejected you when you were brand new. How then do you think they will accept you now that you are a ' second-hand', 'tokunbo', 'roughly (fairly) used', 'belgium' They will never ever accept you. What is wrong with you is one of the following possibilities. 1.you are destined never to get married. Hence the reason you want to destroy your current marriage in order to fulfill that prophecy 2. You are an Olosho with a borehole as pussy and your husband is so tiny downstairs, hence hr can't satisfy you. 3. You are a gold-digger and you just discovered that your husband is not as rich as you imagined or expected. CONCLUSION; Grow up and take responsibility for your actions. Build with your husband. Leave your Ex alone. There is a reason why he is an Ex. 2 Likes |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by jajaofafrica: 4:24am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Sorry Lady...but you are just one more casualty of poverty 1 Like |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by kushme: 4:36am On Apr 13, 2018 |
lalasticlala: @bolded, the stupid excuse they start making when they' re planning to leave. She was already connected to the abroad guy before her mind started noticing the the bolded... If you never liked or loved the foreign based, why would you tell your parents in the first place? You desperate piece of shiit. From her write up, you would observe that she ain't ready to be responsible for her problems.. She is directly or indirectly blaming everyone. the Ex, his parents, the friend who connected her, her parents and the current husband. As for the Ex, if you accept a divorcee who left your arse for an abroad husband, then sorry na your name. |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by theo1477(m): 4:45am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Remember your ex was hiding his phone when sleeping,he started doing something funny. My advice is relax where you are, cut the bridge between you and your ex. You would regret in life if you go back to him. I hope husband is not aware that you don't love him? Then it is better you calm down and build your home. Don't think there is any marriage with totally perfect love. Bear, be patient, relax build your home, you won't regret it at last. 1 Like |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by bestiyke(m): 4:45am On Apr 13, 2018 |
All the advice you need has been given by most here. To sum it up, love has to do with mind and feeling. Just as you can change the way you feel about something, you can equally grow your love and affection for somebody. Change your feeling for you hubby , grow your love and affection for him and make him to love the more. You will enjoy your marrage. As you has been rightly told by many here, 'DROP the else DATABASE FROM your RDBMS'. The earlier you do this the better for you. |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by nwoye72: 4:53am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Even if you marry your ex u will still think u might have made a mistake ok,no one is perfect.long time relationship before marriage can also fail too.no excitement and nothing new.u may not love him but i idvice u to better start building the love,love is something u have to build.but mind u if the abroad guy get to know u don't love him,honestly he will throw u away immediately without thinking all he spent to marry u.so thats how we are and I'm one of them,thanks |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by Boyooosa(m): 5:09am On Apr 13, 2018 |
The reason I comment is to find out the interest of lala in this post. How can a whole almighty lala become an op to this kind of empty post: of a greedy lost sheep seeking the attention nl neighbourhood in the middle of the night. Lala, is she your ex?! |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by Codebrain3323: 5:09am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Pray
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| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by eyinjuege: 5:10am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Stop chatting or talking with your ex. He has no intentions of marrying you. He never did even before you got married, is it after you become a divorcee he now wants to, orhis mother will now give her blessings? Don't fool yourself. Face your husband, and start appreciating his good sides. Don't think your husband doesn't know you're still chatting with your ex o. He's just watching you to see how far you will go with this ex issue. Don't ever talk to Mr X again and block him from all social media |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by wristbangle: 5:25am On Apr 13, 2018 |
This is the problem with ladies atimes. Probably due to their weak emotions which is the reason for their poor decision making, easily deceived and bow to pressure most especially from peers quickly. Is it that he is no longer financial capable like before or maltreats u? Why do u want to deliberately wreck your life? Afterall, u made the decision after being entice by the goodies-goodies from your abroad husband. Why would you want to consider your ex with secret and questionable character? Can't you see what he is doing to you? Choking your head with "jagons" and maybe after achieving his aim, he will dump you as a sweet revenge for not considering him at first. The only reason I could advise you to opt out is if you are facing intense physical assault and other terrible maltreatment from your husband. Give your marriage a trial and delete any form of communication with your ex. You have made a vow. For better. for .... 1 Like |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by Chari4: 5:56am On Apr 13, 2018 |
Madam, you have been married for a minute. Calm down, no body's marriage is perfect. Love us never enough, you have to make a conscious effort to love and make it work. You still need time to get to know him, mind you the wahala that comes with marrying into a famiky that doesn't like you worse off. Discuss this with your husband and find a way to communicate more and be friends. |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by newoffer: 5:59am On Apr 13, 2018 |
You are one of those spirit wife |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by Adebowale89(m): 6:14am On Apr 13, 2018 |
no one is perfect, we'll have a flaw and the ability to get up from your wrongdoing shows the sanity in you. when your ex were given that attitudes, do you communicate with him about it because I know communication makes imperfect relationship perfect and how can a guy mother against you getting married to his son and you feel it would still work? if you need to know, mother take a bigger role in their kids marriage than the man now the guy abroad you don't like him but you agree to marry him somewhat of doing marriage with him, do you know what it takes to tell a man YES? lemme bring this to your notice that, if you go back to your ex, he won't be serious with you thereafter and ruled out any idea of him getting married to u not even when you're still surrounded with earlier circumstances is better you learn to love that man, so far he loves you, we learn to love. you didn't love your ex immediately he approached you am sure and why you don't have feelings for your husband is because you people have short courtship but still I won't advise you to quit that marriage, you might end up regretting it for life what if, you went back to your ex and he wasted your time for some Years and later dump u? what if, after your ex dump u, and you're later jumping from one fvckboy to another have you consider the consequence? if you think deeply, you're still more safe to learn to love him than quitting the marriage |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by olumide81(m): 6:19am On Apr 13, 2018 |
You forgot to tell us that your ex is not doing too well financially |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by osabiggy(m): 6:20am On Apr 13, 2018 |
[See, I think you should learn to love your husband o, it's just 2months, haha! ask your mom/parants they may not have loved themselves the way they do now. What sort of yeye love do you and your ex have? Marriage is more of companionship; again, learn to love your husband (Christian sacrifice) and God will bless you. quote author=Emekus92 post=66663247]I will advice you to build ur marriage get to know ur husband more better tell him things let him know u n try to forget about ur ex. a life time promise you made 2 months ago u want to break it. what make u think the 1 u will make with ur ex will last up to a week. What make u think ur ex will want to marry you even if he do want to marry you what makes you think his family will give you their blessings. [/quote] |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by Follygunners: 6:26am On Apr 13, 2018 |
splmosixx: Cuz he be god, abi? Ode.   |
| Re: "I Am Still In Love With My Ex, But I Am Married To A Stranger" by MrEgghead(m): 6:31am On Apr 13, 2018 |
My perfect description of the 'op' is someone who is utterly confused and doesn't know what she wants. You left your boy friend on the basis of family pressure, infidelity and insecure attitude, It depicts you're a still a neophyte when it comes to relationship matters. IF you had stood your ground against your parents wish, I'm pretty sure they would have succumbed. In respect to infidelity, Did you bother to know why his attitude suddenly changed?I doubt. Put yourself in your husband shoes and imagine the pains, disappointments and indignities he'd pass through if you eventually divorce just because of your insensitivity, egocentrism and vile avariciousness for materialistic things.. It's so unfortunate! No man is infallible, I'm sure the husband will want a happy home for himself if he doesn't wish father children that are not his because it's clear you're even fucking your boyfriend unknowingly to him. Get your ass together and take a bold step today but remember the laws of karma. 1 Like |
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