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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by solasoulmusic(f): 11:57am On Apr 16
prechbills1:


pass on please.
my daughter can never be poor.

poor people aren't supposed to go into relationships

Then stop waging war against poor people else face Gods wrath

If everyone had your mentality there will be no marriage still going on today

Money you will leave behind when you die lol you want to carry unto your head

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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by nezer83: 12:03pm On Apr 16
prince3009:


Stop that!

I once used N5,000 to prepare 2 different soups and stew!

Half a kilo of chicken: N650
Vegetable oil (a margarine cup): N100
2 Wraps of Thyme: N60 (N30 Each)
Spinach leaves: N100
28 Pieces of big ripe tomatoes: N350
3 big round onions: N150
2 pieces of Local Maggi (Okpehi or Dawadawa) (I don't use Cubes because of Sodium content): N100
Ugu leaves: N200
2 cups of melon seeds (Egusi): N140
Palm Oil (half Eva): N300
Okra: N100
Two Titus Fishes: N500
Half a kilo of Goat meat: N500
I big Stock Fish Head: N700
Cray fish (1 margarine cup):N400

TOTAL: N4,350

I already had other stuff at home like turmeric powder which I use instead of curry, salt, garlic, ginger and Semo powder and wheat powder.

I used the fish for the Okro, Goat meat and the stock fish head for the egusi, and chicken for the stew. I have my blender at home so I blend instead of grind!

So let's say I don't have a blender and decided to grind the tomatoes in the market, it won't cost me more than N100.

For people who swallow garri (I don't...i even prefer akpu)...let's say 4 or 5 cups of garri: N250

Won't it still be in the neighborhood of the same N5,000?

I cooked and filled my food plastics and I consume these things for almost 2 weeks. The two guests that had the opportunity to visit me and I served them meals were swearing that it was a woman who cooked everything because it was sooo sweet!

The thing is...most women (esp Nigerian women) are bad managers of finance!
They can't utilize money given to them to buy ordinary foodstuff talk less of managing their homes properly.

It is understandable that some still do "apriko" (keeping extra cash) from the overhead costs of what is to be bought but I should be done with conscience especially when you know your husband is not too financially buoyant.

Some are bad cooks! You will give them N50,000 and they will still cook crap that even a refuse scavenging dog can't eat!

Kudos to my mum (may her gentle soul rest in peace) whom I learnt all these from!

Cc: @nezer83

Good one my brother thank God am not the only one here. God bless all good mothers who train their son to good in the kitchen.
@ishilove beans grain was not part of the 5k rather the ingredients for the beans.
I wonder why it's difficult for girls here to believe that one can make 2 good soup with 5k..smh seriously.

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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by solasoulmusic(f): 12:18pm On Apr 16
prechbills1:


pass on please.
my daughter can never be poor.

poor people aren't supposed to go into relationships

But with that mentality she’s worse off actually the person you call poor could have a six months accrual of 1.6 million and you may be struggling to raise 50k none is better than the other when I print my statement I am always humbled it’s saving me I need because no one is really poor until they can’t see the good and wealth around them

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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by prechbills1(m): 12:24pm On Apr 16
solasoulmusic:


But with that mentality she’s worse off actually the person you call poor could have a six months accrual of 1.6 million and you may be struggling to raise 50k none is better than the other when I print my statement I am always humbled it’s saving me I need because no one is really poor until they can’t see the good and wealth around them

struggling to raise which 50k?



my friend you don't know me so forget about this matter.

broke people shouldn't go into relationships especially females because it never turns out good.

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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by solasoulmusic(f): 12:28pm On Apr 16
prechbills1:


struggling to raise which 50k?



my friend you don't know me so forget about this matter.

broke people shouldn't go into relationships especially females because it never turns out good.
my dear at 50 who will follow you to do bachelors eve lol better marry who will add value to your life instead of looking for money it’s paper it comes and goes your mentality might make you marry one nice karashika that will leave you high and dry

I’ll marry an honest man before a rich man who knows nothing about spreading wealth everyone started somewhere my dream is for people to hear my story and be inspired to work towards their goals not to troll an online board looking for relevance and boasting
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by BlueScholar(m): 12:33pm On Apr 16
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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by prince3009(m): 12:34pm On Apr 16
nezer83:


Good one my brother thank God am not the only one here. God bless all good mothers who train their son to good in the kitchen.
@ishilove beans grain was not part of the 5k rather the ingredients for the beans.
I wonder why it's difficult for girls here to believe that one can make 2 good soup with 5k..smh seriously.

Don't mind them! Upbringing matters alot. Most of them here are either denying it so as not to allow the eyes of most husbands who do not have time to go to the market see 2 pots of soup as a project that a proposal or memo has to be written for or simply because many of them are the indomie generation "slay queens" who are noodles and sharwama specialists.

Cooking ordinary stew to most of these ladies involves mixing Gino or Derica with water and vegetable oil, adding salt and chopped onions with 5-10 cubes of Maggi and 4 sachets of Onga. Na stew be that. When the man develops high blood pressure over the years because of high sodium intake from the artificial seasonings, they will start blaming "village people" not knowing it is the wife.

This is the reason why 99% of the 5 star hotels in the world have "male only" chefs. We are very creative in the kitchen much more than the women.

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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Gracesofar(m): 12:36pm On Apr 16
SnowJay92:


Lol, where are you posted at the moment?

82 div enugu. U?
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Nobody: 12:49pm On Apr 16
Gracesofar:


82 div enugu. U?

Currently doing my Master's in porthacourt. Maybe you can let me know when next you want to cook, I could tell you what to buy and how to put them in, easy peasy. �
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Gracesofar(m): 1:04pm On Apr 16
SnowJay92:


Currently doing my Master's in porthacourt. Maybe you can let me know when next you want to cook, I could tell you what to buy and how to put them in, easy peasy. �

Hapily bro. Will send a Dm to u. Probably I can video call u for a change. My plan z to make stew and soup on Thursday coz m expecting a lady visitor weekend nd I hv to let her know she's in safe hands if she get pregnant by making sumptuous meal for her. U can start by writing out the accessories for vegetable.
Probably egwu

God bless u bro. Am so expecting dz
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Nobody: 1:26pm On Apr 16
Gracesofar:


Hapily bro. Will send a Dm to u. Probably I can video call u for a change. My plan z to make stew and soup on Thursday coz m expecting a lady visitor weekend nd I hv to let her know she's in safe hands if she get pregnant by making sumptuous meal for her. U can start by writing out the accessories for vegetable.
Probably egwu

God bless u bro. Am so expecting dz

No problem at all.
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Ishilove: 1:33pm On Apr 16
Emmanystone:

This guy bought two Titus sardines for N500 with nothing else and cooked okro soup.

God for bit bad man.
Lmao! Don't mind him. He still hasn't explained how he managed to buy a tuber of yam to make porridge, beans and 2 pots of soup from 5k. Hian
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Ishilove: 1:34pm On Apr 16
prince3009:


Don't mind them! Upbringing matters alot. Most of them here are either denying it so as not to allow the eyes of most husbands who do not have time to go to the market see 2 pots of soup as a project that a proposal or memo has to be written for or simply because many of them are the indomie generation "slay queens" who are noodles and sharwama specialists.

Cooking ordinary stew to most of these ladies involves mixing Gino or Derica with water and vegetable oil, adding salt and chopped onions with 5-10 cubes of Maggi and 4 sachets of Onga. Na stew be that. When the man develops high blood pressure over the years because of high sodium intake from the artificial seasonings, they will start blaming "village people" not knowing it is the wife.

This is the reason why 99% of the 5 star hotels in the world have "male only" chefs. We are very creative in the kitchen much more than the women.
Hian
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by oyb(m): 3:06pm On Apr 16
Ishilove:

Hian

No corruption or diversion in our cooking game. Full judicious and accountable use of resources.
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by adonaimart(m): 12:47am On Apr 17
I rush open thread thinking se Na real cheating story I go read. Guy u no try.
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by prechbills1(m): 1:18am On Apr 17
solasoulmusic:
my dear at 50 who will follow you to do bachelors eve lol better marry who will add value to your life instead of looking for money it’s paper it comes and goes your mentality might make you marry one nice karashika that will leave you high and dry

I’ll marry an honest man before a rich man who knows nothing about spreading wealth everyone started somewhere my dream is for people to hear my story and be inspired to work towards their goals not to troll an online board looking for relevance and boasting

and what makes you think I'm trolling?


will trolling add $$ to my account?

I rather remain a bachelor than marry a broke /poor Nigerian lady, such marriages never turn out nice..

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Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by solasoulmusic(f): 11:39am On Apr 17
prechbills1:


and what makes you think I'm trolling?


will trolling add $$ to my account?

I rather remain a bachelor than marry a broke /poor Nigerian lady, such marriages never turn out nice..

Forgive me but who wants a Husband who looks down on his wife let me tell you I met the person I love broke he gave me a meal worth 1k he didn’t know me from anywhere and the same year for his daughters birthday she got a 20k bike from me life and Love is all about contributing if you have nothing to offer it’s okay there’s always someone who will meet you halfway
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by revontuli(f): 8:47pm On Apr 17
prechbills1:


where are you residing?
countries using the euro have high cost of living.... always having financial problems

which country are you living in? undecided

I'm in Finland. I made a meat stew with a lot of roots, which was roughly about 10k or so.
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by armyofone(m): 12:34am On Apr 19
Op
Wow!! so you carry calculator dey calculate how much she spent on buying food? shocked so she no fit keep whatever small change for purse again?
Osanobua!!
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Festacbreed(m): 9:42am On Apr 20


ifyalways:
One paint of garri is 800 ngn in lekki, Ojuelelegba might be 700 ngn.
A tuber of yam, 500 ngn, no less.
Derica of beans 400 ngn

It's possible @ OP but that's not cos your woman is a cheat. I'm sure you didn't buy palm oil, salt and Co. Your woman must have been buying them. Also you dare not compare your soup quality with hers. 5,000 ngn can barely cook a proper soup so your babe is not cheating you.


Ah you're the oldest female I have ever seen online nairaland, shocked shocked embarassed lipsrsealed do you have shares with nairaland or you are among the largest shareholders
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by oyb(m): 12:04am On Apr 24
armyofone:
Op
Wow!! so you carry calculator dey calculate how much she spent on buying food? shocked so she no fit keep whatever small change for purse again?
Osanobua!!

This is how all of you women will be cornering money if put in a position of authority. See your weak character, aggressively defending 10%ing.

Issokay angry angry angry
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by armyofone(m): 12:15am On Apr 24
Did you in your own weak character ever considered that same little cornered change can be used for other things you both might need in your home ?
You don't know how to manage a home is your weakness-isalright oyb.

oyb:


This is how all of you women will be cornering money if put in a position of authority. See your weak character, aggressively defending 10%ing.

Issokay angry angry angry
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by oyb(m): 12:33am On Apr 24
armyofone:
Did you in your own weak character ever considered that same little cornered change can be used for other things you both might need in your home ?
You don't know how to manage a home is your weakness-isalright oyb.


someone canno troll you again cheesy cheesy cheesy

wayo woman angry angry
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by armyofone(m): 4:58pm On Apr 24
I'm on sistahs side almost all the time when na money matter - guys own too much tongue
lol @wayo woman. Good morning!

oyb:


someone canno troll you again cheesy cheesy cheesy

wayo woman angry angry
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by munas: 9:02am On Apr 25
mirianjugrey:
Abeg which soup be that..because this ur story no follow..na ice fish u use cook?..
No dried fish..stock fish ..even meat ba..
I am sure d bean and yam porridge dey empty
Beside this one u dey cook all this food at once..market wan close for the month?

I dont know the market you buy from...

But here in lagos were i live,you can get meat 1k
Big ice fish-400
Dry fish-250
Stock fish-250
crayfish-100
Egusi(1 derica)-300 or Ogbonno 1 milk cup for 300
Vegetable -150


Thats 2,500
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by Nobody: 11:10pm On Apr 30
Gracesofar:


Hapily bro. Will send a Dm to u. Probably I can video call u for a change. My plan z to make stew and soup on Thursday coz m expecting a lady visitor weekend nd I hv to let her know she's in safe hands if she get pregnant by making sumptuous meal for her. U can start by writing out the accessories for vegetable.
Probably egwu

God bless u bro. Am so expecting dz

Officer, how have you been?
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by mukhcech(m): 7:47pm On May 24
prince3009:


Stop that!

I once used N5,000 to prepare 2 different soups and stew!

Half a kilo of chicken: N650
Vegetable oil (a margarine cup): N100
2 Wraps of Thyme: N60 (N30 Each)
Spinach leaves: N100
28 Pieces of big ripe tomatoes: N350
3 big round onions: N150
2 pieces of Local Maggi (Okpehi or Dawadawa) (I don't use Cubes because of Sodium content): N100
Ugu leaves: N200
2 cups of melon seeds (Egusi): N140
Palm Oil (half Eva): N300
Okra: N100
Two Titus Fishes: N500
Half a kilo of Goat meat: N500
I big Stock Fish Head: N700
Cray fish (1 margarine cup):N400

TOTAL: N4,350

I already had other stuff at home like turmeric powder which I use instead of curry, salt, garlic, ginger and Semo powder and wheat powder.

I used the fish for the Okro, Goat meat and the stock fish head for the egusi, and chicken for the stew. I have my blender at home so I blend instead of grind!

So let's say I don't have a blender and decided to grind the tomatoes in the market, it won't cost me more than N100.

For people who swallow garri (I don't...i even prefer akpu)...let's say 4 or 5 cups of garri: N250

Won't it still be in the neighborhood of the same N5,000?

I cooked and filled my food plastics and I consume these things for almost 2 weeks. The two guests that had the opportunity to visit me and I served them meals were swearing that it was a woman who cooked everything because it was sooo sweet!

The thing is...most women (esp Nigerian women) are bad managers of finance!
They can't utilize money given to them to buy ordinary foodstuff talk less of managing their homes properly.

It is understandable that some still do "apriko" (keeping extra cash) from the overhead costs of what is to be bought but I should be done with conscience especially when you know your husband is not too financially buoyant.

Some are bad cooks! You will give them N50,000 and they will still cook crap that even a refuse scavenging dog can't eat!

Kudos to my mum (may her gentle soul rest in peace) whom I learnt all these from!

Cc: @nezer83

Please how did you store for two weeks without losing the taste and aroma of your soup.
Re: So My Woman Has Been Cheating Me!! by prince3009(m): 11:26pm On May 27
mukhcech:


Please how did you store for two weeks without losing the taste and aroma of your soup.

Deep Refrigeration!

When i want to eat, i turn off the freezer till the ice loosens then i bring out the container which i dip in warm water and when the ice melts, i scoop out the required portion and warm slightly without bringing to boiling point or adding water.

That way, the taste and aroma can be preserved for even months (though i have never left food for that long)

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