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Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Adebowale89(m): 3:33pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: would have you say this if your sis is the one involved. the way man take actions is quite different from ladies and that's why we override their senses easily beside this was when she was building a dream you won't tell me u haven't make some mistakes that u later regret of thereafter? quit judging with sentiment 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by sweetrace(f): 3:33pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: Maybe you shouldn't have said anything at all because you can't relate to her experience at all. It has happened to quite a number of girls. As Nigerians we are taught to be so respectful to our elders. Plus well brought up girls are often left in shock when they come across such brazen behavior. The shock does leave one speechless and unable to think. Afterwards she probably thought of so many things she could have done or said to him. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by DozieInc(m): 3:35pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
I believe her story. Most woman experience some form of sexual harassment especially when they seek help from the men. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by raumdeuter: 3:35pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen: This is Bullshiiit If I come to you and say I want to sleep with you, Do you realize you have the right to decline right? There is something like proposition and there is something called declining. Every girl knows this and stop making it sound like girls are dumb and have to take every proposition thrown at them Of the men who have approached you for sex in your life, did you agree to sleep with everyone of them? And the pay disparity, there is something called negotiation in every instance of business. If I offer you 200 and you accept, then the next person I offer him 200 and he declines insisting on 2M. Then dont blame me or him for knowing his worth and insisting on it If you agree to 200, Do you expect me to give you more? If you want to buy bread and offer N100 and the seller accepts, should I blame you for not offering N10,000 6 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Most men think with their smaller head down below. Whenever they see a woman, all they can see are a pair of boobs and ass. Such men won't hesitate to rape anything in skirts or pampers. Shameless goats. No decorum at all. Unfortunately there are tons of them on this forum. Always quick with the vulgar words, all because NL affords everyone a modicum of anonymity. 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by godofuck231: 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
CastedBlog: If you are not married and not in a relationship and you didn't enjoy it, then your lie go sink titanic ship wen de under water, you need a man get married like omotola and you go de orrite 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen: the women who sleep with these men of power for some advancement (or whetever these bastard are offering) are indeed trying to cut corners... because if they had what it takes to get it righteously then they wouldnt sell their body and soul to the devil to attain it.duh! It is so saddening and heartbreaking that after you have worked so hard for something, you see a man giving you conditions before your dreams can be brought to fruition. I'm done with the way men treat women. This gender disparity is so so unfair. what is saddening and heartbreaking is the deluded people who gladly fall to such pressure to attain their goals....here is simple question: what is more important here, the book deal or your DIGNITY?! Imagine E! network paying two members of staff who play same role different salaries, why? Because she is a woman. She got paid less. this is the unfair world we live in and a complete different issue unrelated to the above. I anticipated this, as usual, the woman always takes the blame. yes, women should take "some" of the blame for the above rubbish... if women cannot stop a man in power to reach for UNDER their shirt, UNDER their bra (imagine how difficult that would be o), and stop him for squeezing her tittays for a few seconds, then YES women should take some of the blame for this arrant nonsense! 5 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by marticeus(m): 3:43pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
For hiding the identity of the pervert even uptill now, it is better she kept her mouth permanently shut. 6 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:45pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
raumdeuter: Let's paint a picture. You are someone who is well known in the business "world" and I happen to respect you a lot. In the bid to expand my soap business, I ask for a meet, because I believe you will be of help( not financial). If I visit you and you try to touch me, I SHOULD SLAP YOU VERY WELL, but because of your of your social standing and maybe age, I will tell you to stop in a calm manner, pick my bags and walk away. Now, did I sleep with him? No! Did I decline? Yes. Did I walk away? Yes. Did he abuse me? Yes. Must I show violence? No Sexual abuse no matter how little is abuse. If you touched my neck is a suggestive manner without my consent, it is an abuse. 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by sekem: 3:46pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: You're right I recently watched one of her videos where she even suggested that African men should start carrying babies I couldn't help but laugh at the high level of foolishness she was freely and openly displaying while thinking she's wise because it seemed to me that she may have been forgetting the saying that when you go to Rome, you act like the Romans Well, it's a free world and anyone can have any opinion She can say anything she likes to her white and feminized audience, and they will clap for her But I trust my African brothers to always know where to draw the lines most especially when it comes to putting a woman in her rightful place. 8 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by IgboticGirl(f): 3:47pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
kingthreat: dullll in ur mini brain i love the area she focus on ...if u dont like write ur own |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by MrBrownJay1(m): 3:52pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
sweetrace: you either accept demons or you denounce it, but you cant sit here and downplay the above nonsense. so the shock stops people from acting RIGHT when they wake up from their daydreaming assault?!?!?!?!?! she clearly wrote that she pushed his hand "gently" to NOT OFFEND that demon?! why do you think that is if not because she was still thinking of the deal she could lose? the minute people start to use their head, is the minute it will start functioning... and if she does indeed feels that she was violated, then let her use the RIGHT channel to denounce this crime (aka report the assault to the police!) Adebowale89: again, i would have biatch slapped my sista/daughter/mother etc for NOT doing what she has been taught all her life to do in case someone tries to violate her. NO member of my family would even let that man reach for the shirt, let alone the bra or her tittays...and if that man does it by force, then he would be reported to the closest police station for sexual assault (or worst). but hey, thats just me. 6 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by raumdeuter: 3:53pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen: This is the right response I expect from a woman who isn't interested. You respond instantly to decline. either say no or push him away You are a woman, how many seconds will it take you to feel hands in your blouse, into your bra(that is usually tight) and squeeze for a few seconds. If that happened its either you are unconscious or you somehow didn't totally object until it got beyond a certain point You havent told me about the pay disparity, will you offer above what a bread seller agrees to sell her wares? 4 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by lilmax(m): 3:56pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
this woman and her exaggerated stories, always trying too hard, ending up not making sense we are tired, tell us something we don't know slip Ko breadth ni 4 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 3:56pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: Agreed. She's a media manipulating attention lover. As for her writing, she's just competent. Nothing more. 5 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by raumdeuter: 3:56pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Adebowale89: His sister or anyones sister who is not interested would have been taught to state your firm disapproval and restrain the violator within her power. Especially when she is an adult If she made a mistake not to stop the guy Then she should admit that she was partially to blame also 5 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by SoapQueen(f): 3:59pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
raumdeuter: It wasn't about any pay. It was based on gender. They both got into E! at same time. They manned the same activities, it took her more than a decade by mere happenstance to know that the difference in salaries was much. 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by raumdeuter: 4:02pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
SoapQueen: They offer everyone salaries and they all negotiate. If you choose not to negotiate and accept what they give you then its your problem That you entered at the same time doesn't mean anything if you don't negotiate. If Glo offers Davido or Tiwa Savage 20M and they accept. They offer wizkid the same 20M and he declines and asks for 200M. How is that a problem? 6 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Ogunleti01: 4:03pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
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Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by TheAngry1: 4:03pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Mention the person na! What is this nonsense! Do you know how many girls the idiot is presently terrorizing? 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by emperorblog(m): 4:03pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
who ahe epp |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by kingthreat(m): 4:04pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
IgboticGirl: You punanni-licking Biafran feminist calling me dull? I'm very happy in my profession. Must I be a writer? 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by TheUpsetGirl1(m): 4:09pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Adebowale89: in as much as I think he isn't making sense that doesn't mean you should pull the "what if it was your sister, what if it was your mother and so so.... line" it's stale. saying that just to get sympathy, do you realize that your fellow male folks are also sexually harassed in various ways? 3 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by steveDpro: 4:12pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Xisnin(m): 4:14pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
DoTheNeedful: You will need more aspirin to ease your pain because not every harassed women will keep quiet and pretend that everything is okay. 2 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Nobody: 4:16pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
After the North Korean leader, this woman is the world's next problem. I don't approve of sexism, it's like racism and tribalism |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Adebowale89(m): 4:17pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
TheUpsetGirl1: and judging her without being in the incident is what? you people state of reasoning do amaze me sometimes why conclude on a thesis you don't read proof the JTB. whether men or ladies is the one abused here is still a wrongdoing of them to be abused. not taking urgent action doesn't mean she want it. I pray you won't be under a pressure that would make u look unconscious for a seconds |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by mikolo80: 4:18pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
simonlee:uh, she wey be dia regional ringleader see her de wait to see if he will help her wiith her book first confused women 1 Like |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Segzy008(m): 4:23pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Does men even get sexually assaulted at all? |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by Nobody: 4:30pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
MrBrownJay1: You know its easier to type seconds rather than say "he touched me for a nano second" and if the guy is her superior there she might get fired if shes still working under him and trying to acuse him. |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:40pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
Admin401: do you have the audacity to say that its better to accept being molested/assaulted (in order to get a biz deal) than to keep your DIGNITY?! but hey, i hope that they day you have to sign a biz deal, and the guy in front of you is gay and starts touching you (or worst), you will have the same mindset to gladly ACCEPT being molested/assaulted by him. lol! 3 Likes |
Re: Chimamanda Adichie: I Was Sexually Harassed By Media Man Who Squeezed My Breast by IgboticGirl(f): 4:40pm On Apr 19, 2018 |
kingthreat: yea big empty bowel like u we all should be feminist |
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