lefulefu:
yes oo na so life be. There is no guarantee dat a woman go remain with u if na cos of ur money or success make her dey run after u. Sooner or later she go run leave u dey chase after another man wey get plenty money pass u .see some of my edo brothers wey dey jardon or Yankee or jardon. Those wey no get serious girlfriend before them port overseas..dem dey come back quite alright to come marry. But fear no dey let them carry this girls with them back overseas cos dem dey fear dat these ladies will take advantage of the system...divorce them and take over their property or dem go just dump dem and run after a richer boy there. The ones wey u dey see say dey carry dhier wives with them overseas na d ones wey don stay long with such ladies during courtship.d ones wey dey leave their wives back in naija dey only come visit dem during festivity times and wen dem dey overseas dem go dey send dhier wives monthly upkeep money.so na so e jus be.so dats why wen u never buoyant even if u no get gf u go jus try as much as possible to mingle and know wich girl good so dat wen u don hammer u can know d one to choose. To just lock up and shut out urself from women cos u broke...wen u don make am to get good one go dey hard ooo.

Correct talk there guy especially the last part.

DonPiiko:
It used to be blurry, I can't place her face. But I never took note of the ASSets

yea she only started blurring her pix wen some dudes started trolling her pix....normal nairaland trend. Ehn u haven noticed d ASSets?....u dey talk true so?

True to God

lefulefu:
yea she only started blurring her pix wen some dudes started trolling her pix....normal nairaland trend. Ehn u haven noticed d ASSets?....u dey talk true so?

I become worried when men support this!
When you tell a woman that you need money to date her you have already conditioned her to a prostitute. Now you know why most young ladies of today are lesbians and prostitutes. A lesbian will never say she needs money to date another lesbian but the moment it is a man they start looking for money.


If you support this as a man, you are enabling the entitlement attitude of women. You are the reason a lady EXPECTS money when you ask her out, EXPECTS money when you ask for her number, expects money when you compliment her.

So if you don't want to marry a prostitute, you can't be supporting this.

My belief is a man can date any woman whether he has money or not. But you need to be doing something either business or working to marry her. Not because of supporting her financially but because of children that are expected.

If any lady give you attitude because you are not buoyant ignore and laugh at her foolishness! She doesn't deserve you. She deserves a ritualist or yahoo yahoo boy who will use her body parts to further enrich himself.

lefulefu:
yes oo na so life be. There is no guarantee dat a woman go remain with u if na cos of ur money or success make her dey run after u. Sooner or later she go run leave u dey chase after another man wey get plenty money pass u .see some of my edo brothers wey dey jardon or Yankee or jardon. Those wey no get serious girlfriend before them port overseas..dem dey come back quite alright to come marry. But fear no dey let them carry this girls with them back overseas cos dem dey fear dat these ladies will take advantage of the system...divorce them and take over their property or dem go just dump dem and run after a richer boy there. The ones wey u dey see say dey carry dhier wives with them overseas na d ones wey don stay long with such ladies during courtship.d ones wey dey leave their wives back in naija dey only come visit dem during festivity times and wen dem dey overseas dem go dey send dhier wives monthly upkeep money.so na so e jus be.so dats why wen u never buoyant even if u no get gf u go jus try as much as possible to mingle and know wich girl good so dat wen u don hammer u can know d one to choose. To just lock up and shut out urself from women cos u broke...wen u don make am to get good one go dey hard ooo.

. abi oo boss....may God save us from samantha

Hapigirlxoxo:


Lol. This is funny because is even those that don't have money that have erection pass.

Everyday baby where are you, can you over because no job to exhaust their strength so they will like to exhaust it on bae. Lol

Kuku kill them too much strength

DonPiiko:
True to God

don't take da name of da lord of vain. Its jus ukwu we talkin abt.

dinachi:
I become worried when men support this!
When you tell a woman that you need money to date her you have already conditioned her to a prostitute. Now you know why most young ladies of today are lesbians and prostitutes. A lesbian will never say she needs money to date another lesbian but the moment it is a man they start looking for money.


If you support this as a man, you are enabling the entitlement attitude of women. You are the reason a lady EXPECTS money when you ask her out, EXPECTS money when you ask for her number, expects money when you compliment her.

So if you don't want to marry a prostitute, you can't be supporting this.

My belief is a man can date any woman whether he has money or not. But you need to be doing something either business or working to marry her. Not because of supporting her financially but because of children that are expected.

If any lady give you attitude because you are not buoyant ignore and laugh at her foolishness! She doesn't deserve you. She deserves a ritualist or yahoo yahoo boy who will use her body parts to further enrich himself.

don't take everything u see on social media to heart. If all women were only dating men with money then shoemakers,barbers,okada riders, well diggers etc would have been single for life ba? . Just go for d one dat work best for u... But then while doing that always have it at d back of ur mind dat if u use money to make a woman like u na u go suffer am last last.

We are not hissing oo
We agree perfectly
But hope you have done your research on the percentage of the rich & poor

So "see you when you're 40"

QueenSuccubus:



I agree with the girls... The truth must be heard ooo but broke men will be hissing over this matter..

mikejj:
. the system of not spending money worked very well during the days of our grandfathers and mother...where u you don't need to date or do courtship before getting a wife.. then when you are a hardworking farmer and you have big barns of yams.nkechi and choima will fall you.

Haha ... you may have a point true say I wasn’t in that era. .... but remembered my gran saying they used words to woo back then ...

DonPiiko:
I can't even place what Lalas looks like, I think I have seen small photos though, I hope her pre-wedding photos surface here. I am very thin so big ladies will intimidate me.

lefulefu don’t mind him o

Lalas247:

lefulefu don’t mind him o

Lalas247:

lefulefu don’t mind him o

lefulefu:

He like the fifth person this month not sure what’s in the water they are drinking ...
Don mind don o .. make he dey look the thumbnail pic like that .. cannot come n kill me

Lalas247:

He like the fifth person this month not sure what’s in the water they are drinking ...
Don mind don o .. make he dey look the thumbnail pic like that .. cannot come n kill me

5th person saying such?... Na waoh. Maybe na strategy to make u put back those ur BUMbastic pix on ur dp.

lefulefu:
5th person saying such?... Na waoh. Maybe na strategy to make u put back those ur BUMbastic pix on ur dp.

Kolewerk

A guy that dates without having money will see every girl as a gold digger. He will be angry and bitter and start crying wolf.

A lady that goes into a relationship without having money will be a pest.

QueenSuccubus:



I agree with the girls... The truth must be heard ooo but broke men will be hissing over this matter..

but why broke men? both sexes must not be broke and be dating. I hate broke girls with passion. I'm trying to toast a girl lately and later discovered how broke she is and her family background. broke people should date each other,average people should date each other and rich people should date each other. that's complete balancing of equation and that's how it is today .

PierreDeFermath:
but why broke men? both sexes must not be broke and be dating. I hate broke girls with passion. I'm trying to toast a girl lately and later discovered how broke she is and her family background. broke people should date each other,average people should date each other and rich people should date each other. that's complete balancing of equation and that's how it is today .

I agree with u...But a lot of broke men juz pretend to be a big boi and a lot of hoodrats with a plastic wigs they borrowed from their grandma will pretend to be rich too..

All these stupid act in the name of packaging...Chaaai!!

Oyindidi:
Any ijaw language, izon, okrika, Kalahari, nembe etc

chai,see languages I've never heard exist. you be confirm minority lady

PierreDeFermath:
chai,see languages I've never heard exist. you be confirm minority lady

OK

Lalas247:

Haha ... you may have a point true say I wasn’t in that era. .... but remembered my gran saying they used words to woo back then ...

. haha i wonder what the punch lines will be like

mikejj:
. haha i wonder what the punch lines will be like

I bet u it will be better than the one u guys use now.. they had Serious Game back in d day

oya give me ur best chat up line let me be the judge ..

Lalas247:


I bet u it will be better than the one u guys use now.. they had Serious Game back in d day

oya give me ur best chat up line let me be the judge ..

lalas u want to try me koh if i pour my lines ehn ...i don't want that girl to breakup with her boo bcuz of me..u can't handle it.

people are running away from reality...whats the purpose of dating? why would I decide to date a lady? Is it for love, or companionship, or sex, or marriage? The category you fall into will give you the answer you seek. As for me,i am not rich, but by God's grace, I work and I pay my bills. I won't get into a well defined relationship with someone who is a liability and lazy. Different strokes though.

mikejj:
lalas u want to try me koh if i pour my lines ehn ...i don't want that girl to breakup with her boo bcuz of me..u can't handle it.

Abi it’s u who can’t handle.... shioor

dinachi:
I become worried when men support this!
When you tell a woman that you need money to date her you have already conditioned her to a prostitute. Now you know why most young ladies of today are lesbians and prostitutes. A lesbian will never say she needs money to date another lesbian but the moment it is a man they start looking for money.


If you support this as a man, you are enabling the entitlement attitude of women. You are the reason a lady EXPECTS money when you ask her out, EXPECTS money when you ask for her number, expects money when you compliment her.

So if you don't want to marry a prostitute, you can't be supporting this.

My belief is a man can date any woman whether he has money or not. But you need to be doing something either business or working to marry her. Not because of supporting her financially but because of children that are expected.

If any lady give you attitude because you are not buoyant ignore and laugh at her foolishness! She doesn't deserve you. She deserves a ritualist or yahoo yahoo boy who will use her body parts to further enrich himself.

Broh,, it goes without doubt that money is terribly and totally needed in every relationship,, if you truly know how life works,, she might be loyal and understanding of ur managing state, buh man, provided life is concerned, she will get tired someday unless you become financially strong before she does.... So, my suggestion is, a man should try to keep those good girls fate played tricks on him with very close and hustle hard.. Hope I made sense

The guy should have better concerns than dating... He should channel that energy into something productive. Except maybe he was financially stable and got temporarily broke because of a failed business or he executed a contract with all his money and is yet to be paid, it will be foolishness for his girlfriend to live him because his broke.

I just think guys who are struggling with finance should have friends with benefits. Just for sex only. That way they know they ain't into any damn relationship shiii

austyn0:
Broh,, it goes without doubt that money is terribly and totally needed in every relationship,, if you truly know how life works,, she might be loyal and understanding of ur managing state, buh man, provided life is concerned, she will get tired someday unless you become financially strong before she does.... So, my suggestion is, a man should try to keep those good girls fate played tricks on him with very close and hustle hard.. Hope I made sense

You don't need money to date except it is a prostitute!

Common thread topic it seems. Can someone define broke for me please? Anyone who has lived life long enough knows that stuff happens. Theres a difference between circumstances such as being in school losing a job. Those are transitions. On the other hand there is being irresponsible and making poor choices. I can work with the first.

hiawathia1981:
Common thread topic it seems. Can someone define broke for me please? Anyone who has lived life long enough knows that stuff happens. Theres a difference between circumstances such as being in school losing a job. Those are transitions. On the other hand there is being irresponsible and making poor choices. I can work with the first.

Guess im not here for just comments after all

Have someone ever imagined a world where all female human beings live in brothels, and males visit them for sexual gratification and in exchange of financial benefits? Well...I have. And I know that if I had Hitler's power and influence, I might make this a reality.

I don't know how the opposite gender do it with comfort...I mean acute dependency. Maybe that's why they are the weaker sex. But if I were a lady, I would strive to equal, if not outdo a man's feat. I don't know how people get to leave themselves at other's mercy, but I know that I'd have been a boss lady. And when I behold the likes of Christine Largarde, Okonjo Iweala, Mary Slessor, Madam Thatcher, Joan d'Arc etc., I'm 100% convinced that I'm not talking about a utopian.

All in all, let people do what please them. I know for sure that for every Jefe, there's a matching 'Jeferess'. Quality deserves quality