Rozaytee:
Christians are even worse

ladiesreject:


Whether you have sex before or after marriage it doesn't change anything.

Some married people still abort, what can you say about that?

What if they divorce tomorrow, isn't that heartbreak? Will the girl undo the sex they had?

Kevwell:



There is no cipher amount of sense in what you wrote

lalanice:
Mtchwwwww..... So people should go committing fornication and adultery upandan because of lame excuse of stories like this abi? What about all the plenty and legit reasons why sex outside marriage is wrong all the diseases, heart breaks and abortions

Allow devil dey use you dey lie to the ignorant you hear??

GURUGRAPHICS:
for where i like sex before marriage abeg....
Im not that patient.

akeentech:

You are included

Opposite:
to each his or her own.

ladiesreject:


Miss (or Mrs), which ever one.

Marriage and issue of life partner has nothing to do with church or God picking him/her for you.

Know what you want and go for it.
Someone like me cannot marry from Kogi State, Never!

If the girl like make she be virgin Mary.

My point is, keep religion aside.
Know the characteristics you want to see in your ideal husband, like age bracket, his height, his educational background, his financial status, his state of origin et'al.

The one that fits the bill and you're happy with is your husband.

All those God revealed to me that he's my husband or my prophet said this or that na WASH

Maychang:
Lol...

This is Hilarious. Her deceit has nothing to do with Sex before marriage.

I know couples go through a lot of tests, i dont know if they carry out tests relating to breast cancer.

Im sorry about your loss. Perhaps you should have prayed and asked God to reveal what your partner really is, before tieing the knot.

Preshy561:
to your tent,oh! Isreal.
I believe everyone has a choice to make in life,choice to sex life and so many others.

HerexG:
As for me I'm of the opinion that "Sex before marriage" best suits our present age. I will use this short true life story to buttress my point. Please read this carefully and it should be a lesson to learn from, it's a true life story that happened to someone in my neighborhood just few months ago. The guy involved is a devoted church worker so he held strictly the church's "Sex after marriage"

It all started with "he's my brother in the Lord and she's my brother in the Lord". I got attracted to this my sister in the Lord Sis Funmibi, a devoted church worker as myself from the church but from another branch. So I thought to myself marrying a born again Sister from the church should be the best any man can ask for. After studying her character and her devotion to the church, I made my intention known to her. Sister Funmibi accepted my marriage proposal and fews days later we made our intentions known to our family and consequently the church. I was so excited that I have hit a jackpot for finding a lady like Sister Funmibi, as a church boy that I'm I must get married to her first before she can come into my house. So I kept fantasizing about our wedding night and her becoming my wife, so we further speed the marriage preparation up. I have always wanted to meet with my Fiancee's family church pastor for counseling but she will always stop me telling me that after all we are not getting there. To cut the story short, she chose a random church instead for our wedding. At this stage I have been blinded by her charms all I could think of is to bring her into my house.

Our wedding night wasn't as romantic as I thought it would be, we started making out kissing and carresing. I noticed each time I tried to press her left breast she she cry's out in pains saying " Please don't touch the left breast, you can touch the right one". I was like " waris happening here", she wouldn't even allow me to open the breast to see not to talk of sucking. We would have just sex without intimate pre-intimacy, I was thinking maybe it's because of her church background or that she's not yet used to me that's why she's behaving that way to me. She even finds it difficult to UnCloth or get dressed in my presence, I was like with time she should be able to change. Couple of months later Sis Funmibi my wife started falling sick, she will get better today but days later gets sick again. I will try to inquire from her Doctor what's exactly happening to my wife, he will mention one random common sickness. Until one day the doctor finally opened up to me that my wife has breast cancer. I was really devastated, I really felt cheated and deceived. She knew all these while that she has breast cancer and yet she kept it away from me. After battling to save her medically, spending the bulk of my resources to save her life, I finally lost her.

Now choose for yourself which is more ideal in our present world?

Preshy561:

haunty,are you innocent?

markode777:


My Dear no Devil, we humans are the Devil's. Why would you want to spend your life with someone you are not sure if he or she is sexually OK. My Dear don't allow worldliness and your canal knowledge put you in a deep hell you can never correct in life.

Preshy561:
haunty,are you innocent?

Maychang:



You never sabi anything... just go sidon

ndcide:


Your story does not add up and has nothing to do with sex before marriage.

To your topic,

My response to you is...

Acts 5:29 (KJV) ........ We ought to obey God rather than men.

TheUpsetGirl1:



don't allow religion cloud your sense of reasoning..
I don't know if there are men that still wait till marriage before having sex... even if they wait, they only wait till traditional marriage not wedding crap.

KhadyM:
I dont understand what sex before or after marriage has to do with anything.
The issue here is that they didnt take time to communicate and tell each other their secrets before the marriage. Not about sex.

HerexG:


If the guy had hammered her very well, give her several positions, UnCloth her completely, squeezed and suck the hell out her breast. He would have noticed that the lady is not OK, especially when he handles the breast.

KhadyM:


No, communication is the key. So what if they had sex but didnt communicate, dont you think there are other things that he needed to know that he wouldnt have had the chance to find out?

itsmeurLady:
[s]I created a thread for this today, if only we knew the dangers of premarital sex, it causes so much harm than good and dats the reason y d divorce rate is high and then most married couples are not happy in their homes simply because they pursued sex first before marriage... in The OP's case, u sed it yourself, u didn't ask for God's guidance, u were led by your fleshly desires that's y u got the result u got. You don't rush into marriage, u take time to know your partner and ask yourself if this is what God wants for you, not many people practice this and dats why we get heartbreaking results... Show me a man that Genuinely waited on God for his partner and crashed and I will show u a liar and a pretender![/s]

Treasure17:
[s]There's no correlation between the subject matter and your narrative to start with. However, in my opinion and from the moral point of view pre marital sex is absolutely wrong no matter the circumstances cause of the consequences that follows.[/s]