odiaero_:

@onchendu, how far?

nayef:

i was very close to a sec. school girl when i was in nigeria,she lives close to my house, though we never had intimacy.I was helping her out financially because she came from a dead poor family. At the said time,i had feelings for her. Am now 25 and she is 20
later,i left Nigeria and was still very well in touch with her and was still helping her financially.Now she is in her second year in the university, am still taking care of her and we talk almost everyday. Other things equal, i intend to marry her. i strongly think she has feelings for me and i really love her. I intend to come back this year after 5 years and see things myself. Am I doing the right thing, or just being a mug? is she hanging on just because of the help she gets from me?

snthesis:

been nice to the oppste s"ex doesnt make u a mugu, pretendin to be nice(spending cash) to get s"ex/attn makes u a mugu-if it doesnt clique.

nayef:

i was very close to a sec. school girl when i was in nigeria,she lives close to my house, though we never had intimacy.I was helping her out financially because she came from a dead poor family. At the said time,i had feelings for her. Am now 25 and she is 20
later,i left Nigeria and was still very well in touch with her and was still helping her financially.Now she is in her second year in the university, am still taking care of her and we talk almost everyday. Other things equal, i intend to marry her. i strongly think she has feelings for me and i really love her. I intend to come back this year after 5 years and see things myself. Am I doing the right thing, or just being a mug? is she hanging on just because of the help she gets from me?

KAYD007:

: am learning! shall print it out and attached it ma mirror.

2sexy:

Rule 1. There are different culture at different places. What may apply to American dating sphere may not apply in Naija. So forget all the American romance movie you watch

georgeiyke009:

Bro women all over d world have 99.9999999% xteristics than differences. I hv dated an American gal,a british one and a botswanan gal minus d 9ja 1s. nva had 2 change modus 4 any of them. same modus works 4 them all.

Very true

I've dated an American and a Latino apart from the Naija chics

Same rules apply

Don't forget to be yourself too

2sexy:

Rule 4. Never start a relationship by spending money on her. Doing so is like digging your own grave
appreciate it, I dont know why.

2sexy:

Rule 5. If your girlfriend is having too many male friends than female friends,there is a probability that she is dating one. So keep your eyes peeled

I must be dating 20 then