ola9ja:
(21-05-2018)

Oh, I'm so relieved.

I just ended the relationship today, I was bathing this morning when she called, I missed her calls, and she quickly composed a text message saying:

it's my sugarbunny's birthday, I am so happy to have you as my first love and friend, I pray that as you add a year today, heaven will open for you, everything you lay your hands shall prosper. do any how it's your day your babe gat your back, always remember that your babe love you and will always do.

I'm sorry the spell has been broken, I called her later in the day and told her that I saw her calls and got her message that I really appreciate everything she wrote in the text message but unfortunately I can no longer continue in the relationship, she knows I wanted to get married to her at most next year but telling me that people change and that I don't expect her to be the same person I know last time I saw her, was one in many reasons I am doing away with the relationship
I told her that I am certain that she had already moved on but was finding it difficult to tell me because she wants to have me as a backup plan.
I gave her the following reasons for moving on without her
1 Blocking me, my friends and family on facebook and not giving me a valid reason what caused it.

You can't love me and not love my family

2. For being a narcissist who only thinks and cares about herself alone
3. For not appreciating recharge cards that i used to send to her.

when ever I send her cards I am still the one that calls to find out if she has recharged, on several occasions she has said, oh she forgot

4. Changing my name on her phone to someone's else name and said that it's her phone that did it
5. There is no give in her dictionary, all she knows is collect, collect and collect
6. For disrespecting me on several occasions.

The list goes on and on....

It could sound stupid listing this things but if you reexamine them deeply you will know they aren't suppose to be taken lightly.
Mind you, I have told her these things severally and I have given her over a year to adjust but she had chosen her part so she should face the consequences, that's only if it will affect her.
When I said it's over that both of should go our separate ways, she said if that's what I want, no problem.

Seriously I don't know I could do this on my birthday but I am glad I did it.
....And I am totally free and relieved now.
Hope to see a better person soon.

ola9ja:
(21-05-2018)

Oh, I'm so relieved.

I just ended the relationship today, I was bathing this morning when she called, I missed her calls, and she quickly composed a text message saying:

it's my sugarbunny's birthday, I am so happy to have you as my first love and friend, I pray that as you add a year today, heaven will open for you, everything you lay your hands shall prosper. do any how it's your day your babe gat your back, always remember that your babe love you and will always do.

I'm sorry the spell has been broken, I called her later in the day and told her that I saw her calls and got her message that I really appreciate everything she wrote in the text message but unfortunately I can no longer continue in the relationship, she knows I wanted to get married to her at most next year but telling me that people change and that I don't expect her to be the same person I know last time I saw her, was one in many reasons I am doing away with the relationship
I told her that I am certain that she had already moved on but was finding it difficult to tell me because she wants to have me as a backup plan.
I gave her the following reasons for moving on without her
1 Blocking me, my friends and family on facebook and not giving me a valid reason what caused it.

You can't love me and not love my family

2. For being a narcissist who only thinks and cares about herself alone
3. For not appreciating recharge cards that i used to send to her.

when ever I send her cards I am still the one that calls to find out if she has recharged, on several occasions she has said, oh she forgot

4. Changing my name on her phone to someone's else name and said that it's her phone that did it
5. There is no give in her dictionary, all she knows is collect, collect and collect
6. For disrespecting me on several occasions.

The list goes on and on....

It could sound stupid listing this things but if you reexamine them deeply you will know they aren't suppose to be taken lightly.
Mind you, I have told her these things severally and I have given her over a year to adjust but she had chosen her part so she should face the consequences, that's only if it will affect her.
When I said it's over that both of should go our separate ways, she said if that's what I want, no problem.

Seriously I don't know I could do this on my birthday but I am glad I did it.
....And I am totally free and relieved now.
Hope to see a better person soon.

Link to Previous Post: https://www.nairaland.com/4513677/ending-toxic-relationship-monday

ola9ja:
(21-05-2018)

Oh, I'm so relieved.

I just ended the relationship today, I was bathing this morning when she called, I missed her calls, and she quickly composed a text message saying:

it's my sugarbunny's birthday, I am so happy to have you as my first love and friend, I pray that as you add a year today, heaven will open for you, everything you lay your hands shall prosper. do any how it's your day your babe gat your back, always remember that your babe love you and will always do.

I'm sorry the spell has been broken, I called her later in the day and told her that I saw her calls and got her message that I really appreciate everything she wrote in the text message but unfortunately I can no longer continue in the relationship, she knows I wanted to get married to her at most next year but telling me that people change and that I don't expect her to be the same person I know last time I saw her, was one in many reasons I am doing away with the relationship
I told her that I am certain that she had already moved on but was finding it difficult to tell me because she wants to have me as a backup plan.
I gave her the following reasons for moving on without her
1 Blocking me, my friends and family on facebook and not giving me a valid reason what caused it.

You can't love me and not love my family

2. For being a narcissist who only thinks and cares about herself alone
3. For not appreciating recharge cards that i used to send to her.

when ever I send her cards I am still the one that calls to find out if she has recharged, on several occasions she has said, oh she forgot

4. Changing my name on her phone to someone's else name and said that it's her phone that did it
5. There is no give in her dictionary, all she knows is collect, collect and collect
6. For disrespecting me on several occasions.

The list goes on and on....

It could sound stupid listing this things but if you reexamine them deeply you will know they aren't suppose to be taken lightly.
Mind you, I have told her these things severally and I have given her over a year to adjust but she had chosen her part so she should face the consequences, that's only if it will affect her.
When I said it's over that both of should go our separate ways, she said if that's what I want, no problem.

Seriously I don't know I could do this on my birthday but I am glad I did it.
....And I am totally free and relieved now.
Hope to see a better person soon.

Link to Previous Post: https://www.nairaland.com/4513677/ending-toxic-relationship-monday

EzendiEgo1:
Stupid story for the Gods, This is why I did commented on your last post.

Childish behaviour

Perfectnumber6:
Congrats bro, this your girl turned ex now and my ex are just alike no difference atall. Everything she did to you, mine did same to me, So am happy am a free man now bro . Team Singles now bro.

ndy87:






Yes o! Team single
Team Virgin. Lols virgin ko mbok no b me n u ooo��

Marshalxv:
Congrats bro.

But please don't lead us halfway, tell us the full gist. What was her reply ? how did she react to it?

ola9ja:


She tried to explain the aspect of not buying anything for me, that she uses all her money to settle school issues.

And that for the facebook issues, she didn't do it, then who did it she said she don't know, but she is not the one.

Then as for the name change, that it's her phone that did it.

She wasn't able to defend everything I listed here.

For her reaction, she said if that's what I want no problem, which simply means to me that she had probably move on before now. But I am very sure she would still feel it later.