~Sauron~:

^^^

So you are saying it's not selfishness nor insecurity?
What is it then?

nellaluv:

@ topic. .
That's one of the rules in planning a wedding, never outshine the bride, it applies to all females, be it the bridesmaids or the guest, you don't dress to a wedding looking like a tramp all eyez would be on you the bride won't find it funny, i won't , its nt kul!

~Sissy~:

i was recently viewing this wedding profile of a couple, the brides mom was just very fabulous. she literally out-shined her daughter, many commentators literally forgot about the bride and all comments was on her fabulous mom. she took all the attention

indie22:

Happened to me once and it wasnt funny at all, one of my not so close neighbourhood friends was getting married and asked me to be in her train, i wondered why as we were not particularly close, anyway i agreed and when it was time to do the fittings, she brought out this really ugly shiny green joke of a dress she had some surulere taylor, it looked cheap and garrish and i knew at that moment that i would not be attending the wedding, but i said nothing to her.

Anyway on the eve of the wedding she asked that we all come and sleep over at hers, i made up an excuse and promised to meet them early enough in the morning, then i switched off my phn. It wasnt until her brother came banging on my gate the next morning, they'd obviously tried to contact me, that i decided to still attend the wedding. I reluctantly put on the too loose and not at all flattering outfit, (picked out another hot dress from my wardrobe to change into) and met them at her dad's house as they were leaving for church, as soon as they had finished their vows and taken pictures[b] (silly girl was grinning like a satisfied cow), [/b] i politely excused myself went to a friend's house nearby and changed into my own clothes and removed the ugly fascinator, then went back to join the party.

You should have seen the silly girl's face when she saw me. She obviously exepected me to stay the full length of the party in her ugly dress. Pple kept asking me why i changed and i told them the dress ripped and i had no choice but to change, funny enough, no one asked how come i conveniently had a change of clothes.

Dont know if she did it on purpose but why anyone would want an ugly bridal train is just beyond me.

Dont know if she did it on purpose but why anyone would want an ugly bridal train is just beyond me.

tkb417:

The beautiful maids should be part of the effizy for my wedding

My wifey will not unilaterally decide to bring fugly women to our wedding cos she feels insecure

I will not agree to such cos my REP is at stake too

Ujujoan:

You sef too dey put mouth for women mata!

Werrin concern you concern wetin bridesmaids go wear on your wedding day?

tkb417:

The beautiful maids should be part of the effizy for my wedding

My wifey will not unilaterally decide to bring fugly women to our wedding cos she feels insecure

I will not agree to such cos my REP is at stake too

funkybaby:

yeah, yeah. i feel you oh jare.

i can just imagine the screaming headline on Sunday's edition of City People

Lagos big boy, TKB, gets married to Toyosi in a Victorian-styled wedding ceremony with a bunch of ugly girls as part of the bridal train.

funkybaby:

yeah, yeah. i feel you oh jare.

i can just imagine the screaming headline on Sunday's edition of City People

Lagos big boy, TKB, gets married to Toyosi in a Victorian-styled wedding ceremony with a bunch of ugly girls as part of the bridal train.

Ujujoan:

ROTFLMAO

iice:

Are bridesmaids not friends?
A friend ought to know that you'll dim yourself because it's your friend's day.
A bride ought to know it's her day and she's getting to marry the one for her. Whatever the others look like, she should know she's the one in the eyes of the one who matters.


Women sef and their ish. Me na only men dey my own

tkb417:

wetin? what is funny in what she typed?

e be like say una dey find me trouble

both of u

indie22:

So looking your best at a wedding equals trying to steal your friend's man?

A bride that keeps herself preoccupied with other people looking nicer than her at her own wedding is shallow and insecure.

indie22:

So looking your best at a wedding equals trying to steal your friend's man?

A bride that keeps herself preoccupied with other people looking nicer than her at her own wedding is shallow and insecure.