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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by QueenSuccubus(f): 8:35am On May 30, 2018
nelsonebby:

You want everything


grin


Ooh yeaaah... I like it especially when he eat me like a jollof rice cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by jeff1607(m): 9:04am On May 30, 2018
Amakavula:
me too. Cars, money don't freak me.



God de look you
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by BossLaifay(f): 9:13am On May 30, 2018
I love an alpha male. One that knows what he wants wen he wants it. I hate whimps; they irritate me.
Even if wn alpha male isn't rich he oozes authority and I crave to be controlled. I am outta control!

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by jericco1(m): 9:39am On May 30, 2018
a lovely thread
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by oloyede252(m): 9:41am On May 30, 2018
I can't say I know What women want so all I tell my guys is that...
1.if you're Not handsome, have varying personalities and money..
2.if you're broke, have varying personalities and be handsome.
3.if your personality Is bad, have money and be handsome.
4.if you're Not handsome and broke, baba go work

note; varying personalities means you should be able to change or make people assume something about you even if it's a lie..you should be able to be a nice guy for a girl and a bad boy for the other,all you Just need is to know the Kinda guys the girl likes.

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Kimcutie: 9:52am On May 30, 2018
BossLaifay:
I love an alpha male. One that knows what he wants wen he wants it. I hate whimps; they irritate me.
Even if wn alpha male isn't rich he oozes authority and I crave to be controlled. I am outta control!
BSDM fit you. angry
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Safiaa(f): 9:56am On May 30, 2018
oloyede252:
I can't say I know What women want so all I tell my guys is that...
1.if you're Not handsome, have varying personalities and money..
2.if you're broke, have varying personalities and be handsome.
3.if your personality Is bad, have money and be handsome.
4.if you're Not handsome and broke, baba go work

note; varying personalities means you should be able to change or make people assume something about you even if it's a lie..you should be able to be a nice guy for a girl and a bad boy for the other,all you Just need is to know the Kinda guys the girl likes.
Everyone has to pick a struggle. You can’t be a whole disaster, you’ll be hopeless.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by press005: 10:19am On May 30, 2018
BossLaifay:
I love an alpha male. One that knows what he wants wen he wants it. I hate whimps; they irritate me.
Even if wn alpha male isn't rich he oozes authority and I crave to be controlled. I am outta control!


Are u sure?
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by oloyede252(m): 10:27am On May 30, 2018
Safiaa:
Everyone has to pick a struggle. You can’t be a whole disaster, you’ll be hopeless.
in as much as I don't really get your point. your first statement is very key to an individualistic pov.. but if you're someone that is larger than life, you should be able to confront and solve a wide range struggles in a single process.

To my post,there are 4 options or categories listed and as we know life is a process and people can move from one option at a time to another. for example a young guy who is a student may take option 2 while a working class guy should opt for 1or 2.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by folake4u(f): 10:35am On May 30, 2018
Hmm. This one hard.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by BossLaifay(f): 11:09am On May 30, 2018
Kimcutie:
BSDM fit you. angry
Lol. Trust me I've tried. Ended up even dominating in that relationship. Many Men these days dont just have that alpha in them
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by BossLaifay(f): 11:10am On May 30, 2018
press005:



Are u sure?
100%
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by daveP(m): 11:45am On May 30, 2018
Waiting for the lies I'd see in writing by ladies here.


What you say in writing has and have always differed fro. what you do in reality. That's why ladies are good book writers.


Rarely are personalities a major decider.

It's like an interview that if you fall short of one, you're out.


check
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until.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by nabegibeg: 11:50am On May 30, 2018
BossLaifay:
Lol. Trust me I've tried. Ended up even dominating in that relationship. Many Men these days dont just have that alpha in them


explain how you end up in the human race


it might interest nairaland
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Kimcutie: 11:55am On May 30, 2018
BossLaifay:
Lol. Trust me I've tried. Ended up even dominating in that relationship. Many Men these days dont just have that alpha in them
Don't worry one day you'll get what you're looking for, I promise you. You will be the one to run. Lol

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Safiaa(f): 12:34pm On May 30, 2018
oloyede252:

in as much as I don't really get your point. your first statement is very key to an individualistic pov.. but if you're someone that is larger than life, you should be able to confront and solve a wide range struggles in a single process.

To my post,there are 4 options or categories listed and as we know life is a process and people can move from one option at a time to another. for example a young guy who is a student may take option 2 while a working class guy should opt for 1or 2.
ok
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by press005: 12:52pm On May 30, 2018
BossLaifay:
100%

like u prefer being d SUB while he is d DOM?
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by femi4: 2:28pm On May 30, 2018
Amakavula:
My friend said something to me yesterday:

" Just so you know, girls only really like looks, power, and status - personality is just a bonus to you people"

I don't agree because I love nice guys with great character.

Do you agree ?
The personality no matter
At all
Individuality cannot make
Us tall
I sing, I sing, for all y'all
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Starman2(m): 3:34pm On May 30, 2018
Sorry to say this.,most of them are so confused that they don't even know what they want.....
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Pusyiter(m): 3:58pm On May 30, 2018
SOAPIE......there is only one thing a woman wants. PROTECTION/COVERING. cheesy
Every other is secondary.
SoapQueen:
As our faces and finger prints differ, so do our preferences. .

One thing I noticed about myself , albeit lately is that I am more drawn to people's personalities.(Not like I have been one to ogle a man's purs.e)

I'd rather go for a guy that has respect for me and one with less ego than a rich guy who feels proud to communicate. Power and purchasing power isn't everything.

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by bigpicture001: 5:10pm On May 30, 2018
am suprised I went tru all comments and couldn't find mony..of course,we all know it's money all gals want..plz no.matter what.dont let tgem.deceive u!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by ikbnice(m): 6:15pm On May 30, 2018
QueenSuccubus:



grin

I like a man who's gentle & caring outside but a beast on bed wink grin
... And a masochist
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by AlphaSoul: 11:22pm On Mar 19, 2021
ImaIma1:
A guy that treats women with respect always gets me.

A man who is not vain and too careful about his looks...using ruler to line his sideburns...naaah.

A man with great smell...good personal hygiene.

An intelligent mind that understands sarcasm.

A man that has a source of income.

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by bigpicture001: 12:21am On Mar 20, 2021
SoapQueen:
As our faces and finger prints differ, so do our preferences. .

One thing I noticed about myself , albeit lately is that I am more drawn to people's personalities.(Not like I have been one to ogle a man's purs.e)

I'd rather go for a guy that has respect for me and one with less ego than a rich guy who feels proud to communicate. Power and purchasing power isn't everything.


I bet you if you see what you want completely as stated here you will still want something more....usually money!.. Yes plenty money guy,and that brings u back to what you don't like.. Funny gals
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by blazepascal(m): 12:47am On Mar 20, 2021
ImaIma1:
A guy that treats women with respect always gets me.

A man who is not vain and too careful about his looks...using ruler to line his sideburns...naaah.

A man with great smell...good personal hygiene.

An intelligent mind that understands sarcasm.

A man that has a source of income.

go and build him yourself

Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by blazepascal(m): 12:47am On Mar 20, 2021
ImaIma1:
A guy that treats women with respect always gets me.

A man who is not vain and too careful about his looks...using ruler to line his sideburns...naaah.

A man with great smell...good personal hygiene.

An intelligent mind that understands sarcasm.

A man that has a source of income.

go and build him yourself..

Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by blazepascal(m): 12:52am On Mar 20, 2021
if you notice none of the girls mentioned money but in reality its money they are craving for all this girls you can't just trust them they are like chameleon

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Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by ImaIma1(f): 9:50am On Mar 20, 2021
blazepascal:
go and build him yourself..


I didn't have to.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by Akinbahm(m): 11:22am On Mar 20, 2021
SoapQueen:
As our faces and finger prints differ, so do our preferences. .

One thing I noticed about myself , albeit lately is that I am more drawn to people's personalities.(Not like I have been one to ogle a man's purs.e)

I'd rather go for a guy that has respect for me and one with less ego than a rich guy who feels proud to communicate. Power and purchasing power isn't everything.

Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by SoapQueen(f): 5:55pm On Mar 20, 2021
bigpicture001:



I bet you if you see what you want completely as stated here you will still want something more....usually money!.. Yes plenty money guy,and that brings u back to what you don't like.. Funny gals

Sit yourself and be humble. I had once been in a relationship where I picked the guys bills for a long time because things were very, very rough for him. Say what you know.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by SoapQueen(f): 5:56pm On Mar 20, 2021
[quote author=Akinbahm post=100042886][/quote]

No, you aren't listening, you are obviously hard of hearing.
Re: What Do Ladies Really Want In A Guy ( Brutally Honest Truth ) by okesuku: 9:53pm On Mar 20, 2021
Do not go into a relationship with a girl with a mindset of pleasing her..the day you do so is the day you have lost her.
Women are attracted to a guy who knows what he wants , goes for what he wants and makes himself available for with the leftover time he has, not the other way round.
Tips :
1.Do not be always available for a woman, you will be come unvaluable.
2. Be confident in your ways, especially when around her or matters that have to do with her. confidence can be learned and developed.
3. Be witty. Know how to talk to a woman with the right words at the right time.
4. Be unpredictable. Be humourous sometimes, be serious sometimes. If you are always playful and humourous, you will be taken for a joke. If you are always serious, you will be tagged as too uptight. Know how to find the balance.
5. Money is not the number one bait to get a woman. There are men who have money but cannot get women. The bait depends on the kinda woman you are interested in. Women are as different as men are different. Study her for a while ..you will see what makes her let her guard down. Then play your strong cards in that area. But remember to be unavailable sometimes.

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