Caring0:
good evening nairalanders I had to join this forum to post this to get some advice and help on this issue
Been dating this girl for 3 years now and I got t find out this month that she never enjoyed having sex with me because the size of my dick is too big her. We tried lubricants and very long time of pre-intimacy before SEX, no Matter how much I try my best to get down on her the best way and all, she says she don't just enjoy the sex at all that all she feels is pain. Tried everything but nothing
Below is the chat I had with her guys
. I'm just devastated this is a girl I love so much. Dated other girls they all Complained about the dick size too but they did enjoy the sex but with pain

Guys I feel terrible right now like all i do is hurt the girls I date #Sad

Below is our chat... .

Nature has already given you what it think is your size, probably you have been dating younger girls hence the pains they are having, try dating matured women they have the ability to withstand some pains, you might be lucky to get one that will appreciate your size and be satisfied with it.

frozen70:

Nature has already given you what it think is your size, probably you have been dating younger girls hence the pains they are having, try dating matured women they have the ability to withstand some pains, you might be lucky to get one that will appreciate your size and be satisfied with it.

Thanks dear. Honestly you are correct I do that younger girls because I myself is pretty young, just 23 though, most older ladies are quite rude to us younger guys because they feel like we are not matured enough and only want to play games with them which is not true most times, I approached an older lady of recent she is 27, has a child, no longer with the baby daddy but she is insecure around me because she feels I will leave her for a younger girl so she doesn't want to date. It's really frustrating sometimes, I really need a partner whom I can enjoy sex together with and also communicate with and share ideas, rub minds and do things together, I'm quite sapiosexual though, I want to be with someone now because I'm not a flirt so I want to settle down atleast within the next 3 years maximum.

Olifiz:
I don’t understand o. Do u know what cervix is. Someone is having pains in her vagina u talking about an organ far inside her reproductive system. He said he’s dick is big n hurts her he didn’t say he’s sick is long n touching her cervix n hurting her. The OP never mentioned where she said she enjoys the sex n feel pain it’s just pain. To much of my knowledge circumcised women don’t enjoy sex only pain most times. So that’s why I told him to check if she’s circumcised. Thanks

Okay. So cervix is far inside? I've heard you.

may032:


Circumcision have nothing to do with tight cervix.

@Op, please let go of the girl before you destroy her genitals for another upcoming man.

Maybe you need to always inform any girl you wanted to date about the size so as to avoid emotional pains.

I done die oo.... Wetin concern big dick with emotional pains

dairykidd:
I done die oo.... Wetin concern big dick with emotional pains

Wetin no concern am.

may032:

Wetin no concern am.

Lolzz the dick dey hit her emotions abi

Caring0:


Her name is samantha. Call her Sammy babe. What her mum and family calls her. So what's wrong there, I think since I can read and write if I made this up I would have put a cuter name there


But it is what is it, nothing to gain. I need solution, I want to save my dying relationship because even giving her head she don't enjoy it

I don't know if there is any other thing one can do. Searched Google but nothing other than try lubricants which I have tried and pre-intimacy but still the same.

If after giving her heads she don't enjoy it, then its obvious u don't do it well or perhaps very possible she's not much into sex.. One round is enough type of girl..

Caring0:



Thanks dear. Honestly you are correct I do that younger girls because I myself is pretty young, just 23 though, most older ladies are quite rude to us younger guys because they feel like we are not matured enough and only want to play games with them which is not true most times, I approached an older lady of recent she is 27, has a child, no longer with the baby daddy but she is insecure around me because she feels I will leave her for a younger girl so she doesn't want to date. It's really frustrating sometimes, I really need a partner whom I can enjoy sex together with and also communicate with and share ideas, rub minds and do things together, I'm quite sapiosexual though, I want to be with someone now because I'm not a flirt so I want to settle down atleast within the next 3 years maximum.

Keep searching you will definitely get one and when that happens try to keep her and don't loose her

IamD18 Haha you deserve a cold beer, you put him/her in the bin

IamD18:


Feed yourself with good food and stop eating ants and rice

Dillusionist:

I Will keep reiterating it.


I will feed you and your destiny.

quit being a frustrated babilala on romance section.

Nonsense