sarahade:


Ok. I thought you read my profile and you wanted to attack me .
I'm Sorry I misunderstood the message and called you stupid
If the op was a man I won't bother commenting but for a woman I'm disappointed and I had to say something.

ubunja:

The royal system is part of the patriarchy.

iamJ:
feminism can be translated as an intelligent, successful woman that deserves respect, if Americans can welcome feminism, na undeveloped gutter country like una person wan dey reason, if Nigerians get sense we for dey see am since

babeosisi:
I am grateful for the women that fought for rights of women to be treated equally
I salute them all

bukatyne:


How can the royal system be patriarchy when the current head is a woman?

Their system is monarchy hence, the right to rule is determined by birth/lineage and not sex.

ubunja:
your biggest mistake is thinking: Patriarchy = Male Rulers only. and you think when a female becomes ruler automatically it becomes a feminist society.

Ladyhippolyta88:
After reading this calmly to me your write up made sense from where you stated "lastly"


The rest are unsubstantiated statistics and just mere talk.
Mind you some feminist claim to have a fourth wave of feminism which is gladly influenced by social media.


And as for your flaws of the girl child no one is denying that after all it is in this Africa that you hear people emphasizing on training the girl child and forgetting about the boy child.


Feminism is a choice and no one is forcing you to have the feminist ideology which differs from person to person.

I wonder why you people are obsessed with feminism.

MissCokie:


Exactly. You call and fight for equal rights, yet when you're faced with heavy task like the male counterparts would, your call for feminism would deminish?. Why?.

If you want to be a feminist, be ready to work like the male counterparts, think, solve issues and go through emotional trauma like them.

MissCokie:


A feminist should be ever ready to face responsibilities just like the male child. If she deserves equal rights with him, then he deserve equal power to disagree with her anytime, any day , any where.

A feminist should be ready to split fire wood, fix generator, push wheel barrow to feed.

JasonScoolari:
Feminism is a refuge for ugly people who have trouble attracting romantic partners because they are hideous both inside and out.

The entire ideology has also been discredited by some witless feminists hiding behind the dogma as an excuse for man-hating, while more recently turning their attention to making successful, attractive young women a member of the useless group.

Some nairaland morons are clear examples of how modern feminism is a complete laughing stock that no sane man or woman would want to identify with this bullshit. Don't be one of them, be like Misscokie.

ubunja:
why is labour always divided such that a man always ends up doing the dirtiest, heaviest, most dangerous work?

i seen women work in construction on roads. the men toil while the woman is directing traffic!!! thats the kind of labor division women want. we are equal but you do the heavy work. tsek.

ubunja:

bukatyne:


What is the heaviest, dirtiest work?

How often does this work occur.

In an average home, who does the daily grind and the said dirty work is usually contracted out.

If a man decides to be a garbage collector, how does that concern me or negate my choices?

Don't I see my fellow woman doing alabru in CMS? Or sweeping the roads or
Mixing cement?

Please don't mix choices made out of poverty/unskillfulness to choices imposed on someone. The former has nothing to do with equality/feminism.

bukatyne:


What is patriarchy?

ubunja:

go work 9-5 and i will nurse the kids and cook. i dont mind. can we swap?

Ladyhippolyta88:
I have told you to stop quoting me and pretend as if you did not see my post like I do yours.
That is your problem and definition of feminism and I have mine and I share some of the ideologies therefore I am one of them.
I don't want to be like misscokie I like being myself and I can never live my life to please another or be like another.

bukatyne:


Except you live in an alternate universe, women work 9 - 5, nurse the kids and cook for them.

Infact, this is where all these discussions stem from. If a husband works and the wife stays at home to care for the home, what discussion are we having again? The duties have been divided somewhat equally and everyone has a clear cut role. It is when I have my role and I have to do yours without you understanding that you sometimes have to do mine/outsource mine/manage what I can do that discussions of 'equality' in the home starts coming up.

Interestingly, a number of women who have stayed at home and worked actually prefer working. Your work ends when you get home.... taking care of the home never ends.

iamJ:
me I support its true meaning,

Only weak men fear feminism

MissCokie:


A feminist believes that, she has the right to slap a man, beat him up and be boastful about it. Where did we go wrong?.

A man is a MAN, Not a wo-MAN . feminism is just a scheme to delude and perpetrate a dangerous way of living for the female society.

ubunja:

you hate something you dont even know? hilariois

JasonScoolari:
Sometimes, i always mistake you for a du.mb lu.natic, is your father the owner of nairaland? I quote whoever i wish to. Take a look at misscokie write-up and tell yourself the truth for once... I don't hate you, neither do i feel happy seeing you exhibit your high level of stup..idity to the general public.

makydebbie:
Lol, not all feminists tho. Just the very confused ones dassal.

ubunja:
i agree. but again i ask : "can i stay at home and housekeep?" and you work?

ubunja:

go work 9-5 and i will nurse the kids and cook. i dont mind. can we swap?

Blonchilli:
When I hear the word feminist the women that come to mind are Hilary Clinton, Michelle Obama and Dora Akunliyi. Women that made a difference in the society and paved the way for other women, that's what feminism is not bashing men all over the internet yet you still call Ayo and Chinedu for money you want to use to buy what you need and pay bills. Women today use feminism to cover up their oloshoism when they can't breathe without a man, e.g Toke Mokinwa. Even prostitutes in the streets are more glorified than them. Nice work Op.