If a lady tells a man that is wooing her to forget about her, does she want to man to forget her truly or she wants him to try harder??

THERE IS NOTHING TO TRY HARDER FOR. Many ladies are out there that would pay you to be their MAN

marttol:
If a lady tells a man that is wooing her to forget about her, does she want to man to forget her truly or she wants him to try harder??

No she doesn't but try to a point where she'll struggle with the temptation, then leave her, she'll come back for you

The phrase "forget about me" by ladies has lost it's original meaning and value.
Practically when a lady says such, nothing has changed....She doesn't really mean it.

depending on the situation everyone is entitle to his/her opinion

how she came about to tell you that?

it depends, some ladies mean what they say others say what they don't mean.

Ladies' language can be complex. You have to learn how to decipher the code for each individual lady. Remember too that she's the product of her environment.

When a lady says forget about me, she doesn't mean it most of the time.
She simply wants you to show more care, more concern and pay more attention to her emotional needs. She needed you to show more commitment to the relationship, value her, re-assure her and give her sense of belonging........ but like someone said, it depends on the circumstance.