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How To Be A Good Man by Hideki(m): 9:26am On Jun 16, 2018
If we all behave nicely to one another, definitely the world will be a better place. We should all strive to be better, that way we can accommodate others and make life more interesting.

I observed that we can become better if we change or modify a few things about ourselves. Let us start with the following:

1 Always be willing to forgive. We should allow forgiveness flow naturally In us. Some people can keep a grudge for aeons. When we let people know that we can always forgive them, they will be willing to tell us the truth. As humans, mistake is inevitable. Nothing should be unforgivable.

2 Respect people. Irrespective of age, position or hierarchy always be the first to say "hello". Some people believe a lady should greet first... That is incorrect. Politeness and civility should be in the unconscious. We should exhibit it without thinking. Don't assume you are better than the next person, even if you are, there is no point bragging about it

3 Love. Loving is easy and it comes naturally to us. We should learn to love family, friends, colleagues and even people who don't seem to care about us. Loving makes us human.

4 Manage your expectations. We should always learn to manage the expectations we have about life and everything in it. Always expect less that way you won't be disappointed. You won't feel betrayed or cheated. Always remember there is a human factor in everyone so have a prepared mindset when things go south

5 Accept responsibility. Be responsible. Strive to keep your job. Take responsibility even when you will be marginally liable if something go wrong. Build the right mind frame that makes you responsible.

6 Learn to give. Giving makes you happy. When we give unconditionally, we make the world go round. We don't have to own much to give. Giving is beyond material items. We can learn to give our time, voice, experience and aptitude.

7 Be slow to anger. It doesn't take much to get a Nigerian angry. We should move past that. We should develop big shoulders and thick skins so that anger and rage will be a thing of the past

The list is endless but let us start with these and imbibe those attributes that will make us better.

I love you all!

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Re: How To Be A Good Man by Myself2(m): 4:28pm On Jun 16, 2018
Hmmm
Re: How To Be A Good Man by RisenJoe(m): 11:58am On Jun 06, 2021
Guy you are loaded with wisdom

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