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Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 7:45am On Jun 14, 2010 |
ruba_slipa: Moronic arguments as usual. So a man that wants to leave a relationship is "abandoning" his wife and children. What a joke. So because the West does something in a certian way, we should also do it. No justifications why it is right to do it that way except "if a man wants to leave a relationship, automatically the law should regard it as he is abandoning his wife and kids" despite WANTING custody of his kids. Unbelieveable ignorance! Moronic arguments. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by allycat: 12:51pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
[/quote][quote author=Aloy+Emeka link=topic=457484.msg6210448#msg6210448 date=1276491510]I didnt say he was broke, I said buisiness took a turn for the worse. He wasnt wretched when he died but was no where near the man we knew of in the 80's and early 90's. Any way broke self is relative. For someone who was high flying with at least a house in London and other properties in Lagos, to be reduced to owning just one house in Isolo and another in the village: for him those were hard times. I believe they also assumed my aunts house and car were also his property. Even the man with a mud hut in the village has people struggling over his property when he dies |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by rubaslipa: 1:57pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
Sagamite:You've come again with your bad attitude. Listen, everyone on Nairaland knows what kind of thing you are. Hint to anyone who doesn't know, just click on his name and check his past posts. As usual, the mainstay of your argument is to call other people 'slowpoke'. Is that your mother's nickname for you? Sagamite:You are the funnier joke. The guy wants to skip to his next wife, and carry everything with him. His attitude doesn't appear to be that his wife is too greedy, he is saying that everything - all cash, assets and property belongs to him. He wants even the underage child (most likely so that he can dodge child maintenance money). After 18 years. You might not think he is trying to abandon the woman, but others are laughing at you. The guy doesn't want to maintain his old, loyal wife, and he cannot bring out any offence she has committed. He already knows where his fresh 'pum-pum' is. Dat one na abandonment o! Don't defend the guy just because you can do the same thing. Sagamite:Strangely enough, no matter what it is, anything that the West does is automatically bad in your eyes. As old as you are, you were opposing reading and writing as being 'White man's nonsense', and later, shouting against people sending their daughters to school as being 'un-African'. If you can't talk even 10% sense, shut up. Aren't you the same person advocating that gay men and women should be burnt (na 'oyinbo invention'), and claiming that Amodu is on the same level as Lagerback (mainly on the grounds that Amodu is one of us, where as Lagerback is white). Don't let me start on you, because I will just fillet your back catalogue of posts to reveal the pathetic level of your comments. SAGAMITE is one of the primitive, reactionary, misogynist, backwards, chauvinist, unreasoning and blind "people" whose attitudes hold back society from progress. Watch his responses. His standard attitude is that when he can't answer a point, he simply ignores it, and shifts the goalposts to another point. He has been already yapped up and down all over Nairaland, before I even registered, so I've said enough for now. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by rhymz(m): 2:08pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
Sagamite:. . .and I am also saying that as a human being, I would rather work with what is obtainable( and may be circumvent it to my own benefit) than work with quixotic beliefs that can't help me. . . I would rather a woman who would not bail out on me at the slightest provocation than the one that will have me sign up pre-nups to determine how to live with her and share my property if she gets tired of my mistakes. . .Yes, our laws are lopsided to the benefits of male-folks just like that of the west is so insanely pro-femalfolks- that alone shows there aint no such thing as a slice buttered on both sides. No system is perfect, you can only perfect it with a good attorney. For instance, Imagine a woman asking for 1billion Naira plus 300,000 naira upkeep all because her husband wants a divorce, even though she has never contributed a dime to the success of such wealth. May be those flaws are there to keep both greedy men and greedy women in check. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by rhymz(m): 2:08pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
Sagamite:. . .and I am also saying that as a human being, I would rather work with what is obtainable( and may be circumvent it to my own benefit) than work with quixotic beliefs that can't help me. . . I would rather a woman who would not bail out on me at the slightest provocation than the one that will have me sign up pre-nups to determine how to live with her and share my property if she gets tired of my mistakes. . .Yes, our laws are lopsided to the benefits of male-folks just like that of the west is so insanely pro-femalfolks- that alone shows there aint no such thing as a slice buttered on both sides. No system is perfect, you can only perfect it with a good attorney. For instance, Imagine a woman asking for 1billion Naira plus 300,000 naira upkeep all because her husband wants a divorce, even though she has never contributed a dime to the success of such wealth. May be those flaws are there to keep both greedy men and greedy women in check. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by AloyEmeka5: 7:41pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
allycat: If he was not broke, then there are chances he came back to your aunt out of penitence but you presented your initial story like he was washed up, hungry and barely hanging on to life thereby needing your aunt to support him. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by eldee(m): 8:36pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: You know what he wants?? JUSTICE!!! Everyone should be equal before the law . . . that just shows how wrong the law is in the first place. By your logic, if I rob First Bank or Barclays, I should go without any punishment because they '300x richer' than me?? You're the one arguing blindly with some points that just make Def Jam Comedy look serious. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by eldee(m): 8:43pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
spikedcylinder: You see what I said about not bringing in your moral standards into this. I can't ignore the truth because I want to cross Spikedcylinder's moral threshold. If you cannot bring valid points, I'll just go chill with Sagamite and Satan, they know a thing or two bout justice. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by eldee(m): 8:59pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
ruba_slipa: If y'all will step back and see that it's not a Men V Women thing and see that justice shouldn't be gender-coded, you'll agree with me. ruba_slipa: As I already pointed out before . . . there is no contract that could reasonably justify you halving one party's assets because of a breach. It is unreasonable and out of touch with modern life to continue with this barbaric tradition. ruba_slipa:It will be daft for you to base your argument on 'because it's done like that in developed countries, it must be right'. Isn't it the same 'developed' countries that stopped black people from voting up until the 1950s?? Isn't it these same developed countries that did barbaric things in the name of spreading civilization?? Didn't your developed country go to South Africa to oppress the indigenous black people up until the 1990s?? I find that line of argument an insult to my intelligence. ruba_slipa: How is it meant to protect the poor when 2 of every 3 divorces are brought forward by wives?? Isn't that just proof of where the laws of the West tend to support?? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Nobody: 9:00pm On Jun 14, 2010 |
As much as I feel the woman's pain, she can't have 50% of anything. I don't want any man wanting 50% of my future empire because I screwed the driver. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by AloyEmeka5: 6:46am On Jun 15, 2010 |
michelin89: Who will give a man 50% of your empire because of that?. He will probably be guilty of adultery too besides, a woman screws her driver with a good reason but a man screws the maid for no reason[frivolous screwing]. Also adulterous women are usually a victim of adulterous husbands but adulterous husbands are victims of nobody but the HE-goat in them. There are also cases of women who commit adultery because they are victims of emotional blackmail from men or even under some spell in some cases. I think the law should consider the differences in the type of adultery before awarding anything. The judicial sledge hammer should focus and hit hard on men alone because they are never victims of anything in this case. Michelin, if you allow men to breathe some fresh air, they will soon start looking for allowance. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by AloyEmeka5: 6:57am On Jun 15, 2010 |
eldee: I don't know where you got this notion but Gbenga is free to sue for damages assuming Moji is affluent enough to pay him. Of course he will not because he will look cheap before his kinsmen. Will you not be ashamed to ask for 50% of your wife's empire in the case of divorce?. What kind of menn do we have in todays world?. They don't have any shame is mooching off a woman, hmmmm. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 8:45am On Jun 15, 2010 |
ruba_slipa: My bad attitude. This is coming from the same pathetic individual that sees it acceptable to spill vulgar sexual insults about people's parents all to show he can be hot headed in insults. ruba_slipa: A term very apt for people like you. ruba_slipa: You know about details of their relationship? If he does not feel like being with her anymore, he should be punished? I know at your intellect level silly conjectures are your facts, I have highlighted them in bold. But can you tell me how you know he wanted his child for custody to avoid child maintenance? So if the child is with him, he would not maintain the child? ruba_slipa: You know she was loyal? You know he was happy in the relationship? Can you live without conjecture? ruba_slipa: This is the time I have to call you it. slowpoke!!! Because I object to certain Western philosophy, does not imply I disagree with them on evrything. I just hate people like you that appear to worship them and want us to follow certain acts without question or evaluation. ruba_slipa: I advocated you, the gay, to be burnt. ruba_slipa: Bastardising each others arse is not progress. Comeback with your conjectures and broken logic process. I can see you modified this post from what you had down earlier when I first saw it but had no time to respond. I thought you were stupidly denying (before modification) you did not say courts should see men ending marriages as an act of abandoning their wives and kids deserving punishment? Moronic logic process. You are getting smart, you know I would slaughter you if you had not modify. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 8:58am On Jun 15, 2010 |
rhymz: Circumventing laws to YOUR advantage is not right. An attempt at justice is way better than a blatant injustice. rhymz: I completely agree. But the law should protect both sides and within the context of that protection, you should both be free to make informed decisions for yourself. The key word is "free". That said, you can still target certain women like stillwater, who if you slap black and blue (I am not for one second saying you are like that), she would beg you to beat her just a bit and kneel down and ask you what you want to eat. A girl like her would never leave and she would love and worship you forever. rhymz: No. It just shows there is no genuine attempt by both groups to butter both sides. rhymz: Madnesss. She has been listening to too many stories of bitter western women milking men and she is hoping to utilise the same philosophy as punishment. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 9:02am On Jun 15, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: So if Gbenga cheats the courts should punish him. But if Moji cheats, she should go scot free? So courts should punish some for a certain offence and let others walk away without punishment? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 9:05am On Jun 15, 2010 |
Ruba_slipa, so eldee quoted you before you could modify? At least I will give you credit for trying. I would have cut and diced you. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 9:08am On Jun 15, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: So when a woman commits adultery it is OK? There are good reasons? Aloy+Emeka: Are you trying to whine people up? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by spikedcylinder: 2:43pm On Jun 15, 2010 |
eldee: My 'valid points' are unacceptable to you, as yours are to me. If eldee's kini is meant solely for the maid and gardener, you can even throw in the butler in there, that's his palava. But eldee shouldn't get married or else someone stands the chance of taking away half his 'empire'. Meanwhile, sagamite usually has several pints of O-ve in his refrigerator. Join his party, whydoncha? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by AloyEmeka5: 6:15pm On Jun 15, 2010 |
Sagamite: Its not okay but women usually have their reasons for entering into adulterous affair unlike men who do it by force of habit. Also, how many women actually commit adultery compared to men where about 96% of them are guilty? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by invisible2(m): 8:35pm On Jun 15, 2010 |
Am sure this man sued for divorce because the wife is making his life hellish. She should get no dime! |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 8:50pm On Jun 15, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: So if you have a reason it is okay? Some reasons are acceptable, others are not? Are you trying to whine me up? Tell me the reasons you find acceptable. You think women don't commit adultery because they, unlike men, don't boast about it? You think they don't cheat because they are more secretive and would not even let their best friend know what they are doing? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by invisible2(m): 9:00pm On Jun 15, 2010 |
No matter how hard you try, a woman will never tell you who screwed her, that's why it seems the men cheat more, doesn't it take two to tango anymore? For every man that cheats, there is a woman that cooperated. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by eldee(m): 4:29am On Jun 16, 2010 |
spikedcylinder: That's the thing . . . you're using a moral argument which is totally baseless. And celebrating the law when you know it's unjust . . . I just need to see a reasoning that will hold water. My argument is sumn you've not even challenged, all you're doing is bringing yourself as a moral yardstick and saying how I don't measure up. I think you should get married to Aloy-emeka |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by AloyEmeka5: 8:45am On Jun 16, 2010 |
invisible!: Sorry its not about your emotions or how you feel, it is about the law and Nigerian law says 50/50 upon divorce. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by AloyEmeka5: 8:49am On Jun 16, 2010 |
Sagamite: Women: sobs and depressed after series of abuse and neglect by her husband and any male shoulder she can cry on may take advantage of her emotional state. Men: No problem at home, wife is screwing him fine yet he will shout, damn this chic got nice butt and I must get there or I die. Sort of an adultery of passion. There case is like a well fed child who goes into the market to steal bread. That is why the law does not desire to spare them in terms of adultery. Forget the women hide theirs thingy; men are career adulterers. |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by Sagamite(m): 10:20am On Jun 16, 2010 |
Aloy+Emeka: So all women that cheat are abused? Women that are "neglected" have a right to cheat but a man that is not attracted to a woman anymore does not and should be punished? When women cheat it is not their fault because it is a man that is "taking advantage of her emotional state"? But when all men cheat they are "career adulterers"? Do you chat so much crap for a living? |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by tilie: 2:46am On Jun 18, 2010 |
i suppose somebody here is trying to buy sympathy.All this noise after reading everybodys view,ill say its a storm in a tea cup. for the purpose of argument,if a man sleeps with another woman in marriage,it only means dat the wife has a problem.she couldnt hold her man.if i loose my man to my maid it only means my sexual life or something is in suspect. However,without eroding comon sence,since the man is an industrialist and international businesman,i do not believe what the wife or peole working so hard to sell her story are correct.he could not have eloped with a maid.maybe someone else,definitly not a maid.this is one part of the story that i dont buy. wait a minute,i supposed both parties have extended families,why havent they said anything.i think theres something dodgy here guys.open your eyes and dont get carried away by sentiments.is the wife a good wife,cos otherwise members of the mans family would have fought tooth and nail to make her remain in her matrimonial home.she doesnt look like a good person either thats why dat arena is quiet. 1 Billion naira,haha,after sleeping with some other people too.for someone to tell lies about anoda person sleeping with maid and demand for a billion,it shows the crooked nature of woman.the former husband as it seems is taken a good care of the children and they are old enough themselves,except for the last born.so one billion for what now?to become the latest sugar mummy in town.she didnt say that her children are suffering did she,cos they are all grown up.the last child is 14yrs old,so why the noise.the oldest manages the business in london,the other manages the business in lagos and south africa,so whats she fighting about cos i do not know which area shes lost out in the marriage except sexually. An african man is entitled to so many wives so wats the problem.she probably thinks dat God wrote her name on his dick, no way.I think shes rather been punitive in her demands and irrational.no judge will grant that. mrs ijaodola,while in london was he taken care of you,paying your rent and the kids.does he visit?if yes,so whats the argument.for a man to ask for a divorce only means that you probably have been fighting the other woman which i understand.it probably have become a mess which mostly would be created by you cos you are the embittered,so now you going for the jugular. you have made this man more popular and hid business to progress more.all eyes willbe on you on how you manage any cent you get from him in this act of desperation.what you have done here should be a court contempt cause you want to aFFECT JUDGEMENT which shows what kind of a woman are you. i pity you a lot and hope you find peace cause something tells me like you must have pushed that man to the extremes,you dont seem like a good woman to me, however at the end of the day my opinion remains mine.Go find peace with yourself.yourchildren are not suffering,its you fighting all alone |
Re: Industrialist Dumps Wife For Housemaid. by CorperKola: 10:46pm On Aug 18, 2017 |
so if alakija wan divorce her husband now, the husband is entitled to half of her properties very nice! |
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