I HAVE BEEN CHATTING ON LINE WITH A NIGERIAN FOR OVER A YEAR NOW AND WE HAVE BEEN ON AND OFF. I'M CRAZY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT SOMETIMES IT JUST SEEMS HE DON'T CARE BUT SOON AS I TELL HIM I HAVE MOVED ON HE TELLS ME HE LOVES ME AND I'M MAKING A MISTAKE AND I WILL REGRET IF I LEAVE HIM. THE THING IS I FEEL HE IS THE ONE HE IS EVERYTHING I LOOK FOR IN A MAN. EVERYTHING ABOUT HIM MAKES ME WILD; WE HAVE NEVER MET FACE TO FACE JUST CHATTING ON LINE. BUT HE WILL GO MANY DAYS I DON'T SEE HIM ON LINE OR HEAR FROM HIM, MAKES ME TO WONDER IF HE CARES.

THE BAD THING IS I HAVE BEEN CHATTING AND GETTING SERIOUS WITH A YOUNGER GHANAIAN BUT HE HAS THE TIME AND LOVE FOR ME I'M LOOKING FOR BUT I CANT TRULY LOVE HIM THE WAY HE NEEDS IT, I'M STUCK ON MY NIGERIAN. WHEN THE NIGERIAN COMES AROUND I FORGET EVERYTHING ABOUT THE GHANAIAN.

IS IT ALL A GAME OR JUST THE FACT OF LIVING TWO DIFFERENT WORLDS?

Ill vote for a naija man anyday, good lovers, and wait until he gets you under the sheets! You will scream 'eureka'
Ghananians are gentlemen, not good lovers.

The Nigerian is playing head-games with you. I will go for the Ghanian guy, Ghanaians are very nice, warm people.

this is not a question to ask on a Nigerian forum because you will get a biased answer. Anyway why are you loving a person you haven't seen who could be selling you a pipe dream

Ebonyeyes:

The Nigerian is playing head-games with you. I will go for the Ghanian guy, Ghanaians are very nice, warm people.

You dis girl na wa o .

madlady:

You dis girl na wa o .

Hey babes what is up? Will I get killed for my above comment?

^^I am dying with .

I have heard that Ghana folks aren't very welcoming and nice. Anyway relationship isn't about a country but who understands you the most.

Hey ma woman, so u will chose a ghanian man above me? So hw r u? Longest time

"Your woman"? Do you want to drag me by my hair too?

As Nigerian living in Ghana for 4 years now, i have come realize that 79.8% of Ghanaian men are devoted and committed because THEY ARE LAZY and live off their woman's purse,the Younger ones are all over the internet looking for ways to make fast cash or ways to get a woman invite him overseas, no matter how you look at it, Nigerian Men may not have the time for sweet talks and all those love chats, but he sure has a plan for the future, just my own point of view, so its better you get your game straight and follow where your heart belongs,
This doesn't mean Nigerian guys are 100% good, but A KNOWN DEVIL IS BETTER THAN THE ANGEL YOU JUST MET TODAY.

Do u like me to do it dat way? If yes then i will becos  u r my woman. How are u? Longest time

@poster, i dont think online dating sounds nice,its far too dangerous.i think this naija guy is showing some bad traits already.

omega25red:

this is not a question to ask on a Nigerian forum because you will get a biased answer. Anyway why are you loving a person you haven't seen who could be selling you a pipe dream

u just said it!!!!dats so true

if you ask me I will go for a naija guy any day any time

And my dear you're in love but act cautiously whether it's naija or Ghana think with your head and listen to your heart it will guide you, cheers

Depends on who has the more potential.
I.E ask each of them for their monthly salary and by what percent the salary increases per year.

I will stick with the Nigerian man, make sure you get the kind that believes in monogamous relationships that what you want right?

I'll choose the Ghanian. . .the Nigerian one is up to some hide and seek games.

Neither, the Naija guy is not giving you what you want from him, the Ghanaian guy is not who you really want he is just around. You said you forget about him when you speak to the Naija guy, you are not really feeling him then.

Stay unattached and meet a guy who ticks more boxes for you. One that you have actually met in person.

I'll choose the Ghanian. . .the Nigerian one is up to some hide and seek games. Grin

see people, why the player hatin?
@poster sorry to say this if u got something beautiful about you show it to a real man and not a virtual person u've never met.
cheers

I would suggest you actually "love" someone in real life, how can you love two men you have never met?