thebosstrevor:




i am based in abujathe capital city beautiful city,maybe i will show you around if you one day visit

XhosaNostra:


Don't tempt me
Who wouldn't wanna be in the company of such a sensible guy?

What tribe are you? This is a sensitive question to some. Weird. Hope you're not one those lol

Tallesty1:
I don't wear pants

thebosstrevor:


anyway tribe on nairaland and in Nigeria is a sensitive topic which i try to avoid so much.

anyway,i am yoruba)

do you guys have this tribal issues like Nigerian do?

XhosaNostra:


Ok, thanks for the honest reply despite the discomfort. I appreciate it.

Well, so-so. It's nothing serious though. More like teasing & banter than any genuine hostility. We tend to lean more towards tolerance. You don't have to love everyone, but you don't have to be a miserable POS to them either. So yeah, we're civil to one another for the most part.

thebosstrevor:


tribe plays a big role in politics,government and military jobs because we use quota system to make every one feel involve but it doesnt work so well.in private sector tribe doesnt play a big role.

dont be deceive by nairaland name calling,in real life,we marry each other,have sex with each other,go to the same school and work in the same place,but we still have stereotypical crime each tribe is know for,this is real but many people always get offended by the truth

e.g yoruba-internet crime
igbo-drug dealing
benin-prostitution
hausa-terrorism

this is real in nigeria.

XhosaNostra:


Yeah true, I've come to realize that it's all about the teasing over there too.

So are you into any internet crime?

thebosstrevor:


hahaaaa)) lol,i cant do that, it will destroy my reputation and family name,so i try my best to avoid any illegal stuff

so what are you into?

XhosaNostra:


Hmmm, that's attractive. A man with honour.

Well, what do mean by what I'm into? Interests? I have a fascination with evil & the unknown lol. I'm always reading about murder cases & mysterious disappearances. IDK why, but I like stuff like that.

What are you into?

thebosstrevor:


lol) i guess you are very curious about that,hope you wont become so hypervigilant basically that is what happens when you watch and read too much murder and mysterious cases,i used to,mine was watching too much real life shooting videos on youtube,there is a channel you watch gun shootings and people self protecting themselves on youtube,it was fascinating to me,i wanted to understand how humans die from bullet wounds,what was very informative was that a hand gun wont do much damage to you if fired once ot twice but anyway,i do watch this channel sometimes just to value life))

our chat is getting too public for nairaland,lol,are you on any messenger?

Tallesty1:
I don't wear pants

XhosaNostra:
So many things. It's like I'm a magnet for weirdos.

One time I saw a car parked outside where I live, there was a man inside. I thought it was someone looking for directions, so I didn't hesitate when he called me over. Dude was sitting with his pants down, stroking an erection. He pleaded I do things to him. It was weird. Days later while telling the story to a neighbour I found out he is a well-known flasher & exhibitionist around my neighborhood.

The 2nd time was a neighbour. The guy lived alone. If I was home, he'd invite himself in just to talk. I didn't think much of it. I thought he was just lonely. The day before the incident, we were both outside, talking. He showed me pictures of his family etc & that's when I got the sense that he was looking for more than just a friendship. So anyway, early the next morning he knocked on my door & I told him I was busy (having a bath). About 30 minutes later, he came back again & I just moved the curtain out of the way to talk to him. He was dressed in a robe. He parted the robe to expose his penis, then he pressed it against my window. I was shocked. Days later I noticed a greasy smudge in the place where he'd rubbed his penis against. Thank God he moved out a month later but he is not staying very far because I still see him around every now & then.

I don't understand why people do things like that. It's crazy.

encryptjay:
@thebosstrevor, you're truly a boss. Interesting conversation.
What else do you like apart from politics?

thebosstrevor:


lol)play football and games and read when free))i used to drink before but stop,i need to protect myself for my future child)

now a days i am so busy that i dont have time for myself)) i work all days and travel,it is stressful but that is life)

XhosaNostra:


Yeah, change comes with negativity. Personally, I prefer when our borders were closed as things weren't as bad as they are right now. Also on the political front things aren't looking good. South Africa could face a civil war. I heard that some white people are being trained overseas just in case. Do I really care if people die as the result? Not really since I believe it's about time people start to take responsibility for their failures. I'm tired of people always blaming the past, when they're the architects of their own reality, right now.

No, I don't use WhatsApp. I also don't have the desire to know majority of people here, offline. As you have put it so nicely, the immaturity is off putting. It definitely makes one wary.

samysmoothfresh:
those two @xhosa and trevor have said "it was nice chatting with you..........bye and be safe" up to 4 times but them still dey derail talk rince



make i dey look them first

XhosaNostra:
So many things. It's like I'm a magnet for weirdos.

One time I saw a car parked outside where I live, there was a man inside. I thought it was someone looking for directions, so I didn't hesitate when he called me over. Dude was sitting with his pants down, stroking an erection. He pleaded I do things to him. It was weird. Days later while telling the story to a neighbour I found out he is a well-known flasher & exhibitionist around my neighborhood.

The 2nd time was a neighbour. The guy lived alone. If I was home, he'd invite himself in just to talk. I didn't think much of it. I thought he was just lonely. The day before the incident, we were both outside, talking. He showed me pictures of his family etc & that's when I got the sense that he was looking for more than just a friendship. So anyway, early the next morning he knocked on my door & I told him I was busy (having a bath). About 30 minutes later, he came back again & I just moved the curtain out of the way to talk to him. He was dressed in a robe. He parted the robe to expose his penis, then he pressed it against my window. I was shocked. Days later I noticed a greasy smudge in the place where he'd rubbed his penis against. Thank God he moved out a month later but he is not staying very far because I still see him around every now & then.

I don't understand why people do things like that. It's crazy.

KillaBeauty:
All I wanna know right now is, did you wipe off the greasy smudge?

XhosaNostra:


Lol, I had to. It became the only thing I could see.

XhosaNostra:
So many things. It's like I'm a magnet for weirdos.

One time I saw a car parked outside where I live, there was a man inside. I thought it was someone looking for directions, so I didn't hesitate when he called me over. Dude was sitting with his pants down, stroking an erection. He pleaded I do things to him. It was weird. Days later while telling the story to a neighbour I found out he is a well-known flasher & exhibitionist around my neighborhood.

The 2nd time was a neighbour. The guy lived alone. If I was home, he'd invite himself in just to talk. I didn't think much of it. I thought he was just lonely. The day before the incident, we were both outside, talking. He showed me pictures of his family etc & that's when I got the sense that he was looking for more than just a friendship. So anyway, early the next morning he knocked on my door & I told him I was busy (having a bath). About 30 minutes later, he came back again & I just moved the curtain out of the way to talk to him. He was dressed in a robe. He parted the robe to expose his penis, then he pressed it against my window. I was shocked. Days later I noticed a greasy smudge in the place where he'd rubbed his penis against. Thank God he moved out a month later but he is not staying very far because I still see him around every now & then.

I don't understand why people do things like that. It's crazy.

KillaBeauty:
White people are weird

Vicktomaniaa:


You're not a Nigerian, re u?

XhosaNostra:


Lol, that sounds scary. As much as I like the macabre, I really don't like the visuals because they stick . It takes a long time to get those images out of your mind.

Just the other day I was watching the movie Scream late at night. After it was done I went around the house to make sure all the windows were closed. I even stuck a piece of toilet paper into the keyhole because I had this irrational fear that someone was watching me through the keyhole lol. I spent days in complete paranoia. I still like slasher movies though.

Would you believe me if I told you no? I don't use messaging apps. I'm a simple person with old fashion values

We could chat on pm, but I'm not particularly confident about that either. Making new friends is not my strongest trait. Perhaps for now we should keep it..."forumy".

thebosstrevor:


basically you were hyper-vigilance and hyper alert,but be careful it also causes anxiety disorder and sometimes traumatic stress.be careful

old fashion? that is nice,where you born before 1990?

funny enough,i do not use social media except nairaland,i am very concern about privacy issues online,it is an issue i am passionate about.
companies like facebook,sell your data without informing you so it is absurd that i am not in control of my data,then there is this stuff social media does,it gives you anxiety especially when you see that your buddy is having fun than you.i love the real world and meeting people in real life,it has improve my communication skills