MariaLavina:
I'm working to get to that level that no man will ever want to reject my proposal. A level I will show love to one and millions will fight for it.

I will walk up to him and say "Marry Me"

biko how?

Luxuryconsult:
biko how?

Be Love. Be whom people seek

MariaLavina:
I'm still working on it, you missed that part.

Lol..I ain't missing nathin!!!
Ur mentality pleases me!!!

shaybebaby:

Numpty

who dey follow you laff

UyaiIncomparabl:
Whoever that has eyes, let her read and assimilate. This is very intelligent. I commend this, Amarabae.

Several months ago, I was in a relationship with whom I presumed 'Loved' me so much not to loose me. I loved him too. It was an abusive and intolerable relationship. I didn't want to loose him, thereby I did everything in Love's book to keep this guy. Not that We had plans of settling down soon, but I was ready to do whatever he bidded. At a time, I used to visit his parents' home to say 'Hello'. I always did this and His mother abused this use. She'll always want to send me errands like her slave. I patiently adhered to this torture for sometime until I couldn't tolerate further. Her first Son and his Fiancée visited. I happened to be around on that day.
What actually infuriated and perplexed me was that she asked me to go to the kitchen and boil rice for the 'Fiancée'. What nonsense!
I had an appointment. I was vexed, and my ignorant boyfriend couldn't explain to her about this development. I was surprised i was polite all through the fracas ensuing. I wasn't my normal self anymore. I was raging. I told her sternly and firmly that I wouldn't be able to do what she asked. She felt slighted. Oh, so the girl doesn't have hands to boil rice for herself, right?
I politely excused myself.
Thereafter, my boyfriend called and told me that I had a negative attitude. Oh really? Is that how 'A Wife Material' is being known in your village? He told me to come and apologize to his mum on my knees. I cursed and ended the phone thereon. He never called. I never called. He took my desperation for stupidity. I learnt the hard way.

To the ladies, never allow a man treat you like trash. You all are phenomenal. If he doesn't accept you for being a lady with poise, excuse yourself. A better relationship awaits. I'm not discouraging that you shouldn't help when the need arises or when you find yourself in the midst of a gathering like that, but then, NEVER over-do it. Washing their clothes will not earn you a 'ring'. It's not bad to be principled too. Know your worth.
I'm happy I took that decision. I've never been more happier. If he is meant for you, no force can tear you apart, and vice-versa.

My dear. A good read. The worst feeling ever is being treated like trash by someone you love. I fell in love with this guy some months ago, treating my like trash is an understatement. I picked up the pieces, groomed myself and God brought an amazing guy my way. He isn't perfect but he is great. When he has time, he cooks for me and invites me over.

Yours will come. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

Colourich:
I'm even tired of the whole wife material trash, all the wife material trash I did with my stupid ex what did I gain? if my boo no wan marry me, make him leave, its not by force, I don't like what I hate neither am I desperate. I will go to his family house and I won't do shii, ain't nobody complaining.

Lol. Real talk!

You don't have to bend till you break. When the right guy comes, he is not going to put you under pressure. He will even adore your flaws!

You go girl!

luminouz:

Lmaooooo
Now I know u REALLY need to get hooked up....
I've heard that 'i'm perfect being single' line a gazillion times n u know what It's a BIG,FAT lie.....

Look, rlatnships can be stressful but hell life is stressful..n that's what makes it fun..it makes u human,showing the capacity to FEEL....n that's how I know ur still good inside... otherwise I wouldn't give a fvck if u feel nothing,that makes u dangerous!!

Now....just let ur DMs be open 2mao..ok...

You're one hell of a person!
I'm not interested in getting hooked up!
Tell indomie generations to freh me!

SoapQueen:



Lol. Real talk!

You don't have to bend till you break. When the right guy comes, he is not going to put you under pressure. He will even adore your flaws!

You go girl!

Touché baby!

SoapQueen:


My dear. A good read. The worst feeling ever is being treated like trash by someone you love. I fell in love with this guy some months ago, treating my like trash is an understatement. I picked up the pieces, groomed myself and God brought an amazing guy my way. He isn't perfect but he is great. When he has time, he cooks for me and invites me over.

Yours will come. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

Go girl!
The worst thing is, this guy never respected me. He used vulgar and very insultive words with like I was trash. Is that the definition of love? While I await true love, I'll groom myself perfectly to suit whoever will come for me.

OfficialDad:


Don't mind them. One olodo will just think of useless thing and rush to Nairaland to type it and other olodos will be clapping. When the olodo clock 30-40 without husband, they will be crying upandan that village people is doing them.

I'm ashamed on behalf of Africans especially Nigerian's

She did the right thing. You shouldn't act as a slave to your boyfriend. It isn't done.

LivingFree:


who dey follow you laff

Chai! I don suffer oooo..

GODPUNISHUNA:




You should not have responded. You just confirmed what Jamariwolff said

Silence is golden

Savage!!!!��

SoapQueen:


My dear. A good read. The worst feeling ever is being treated like trash by someone you love. I fell in love with this guy some months ago, treating my like trash is an understatement. I picked up the pieces, groomed myself and God brought an amazing guy my way. He isn't perfect but he is great. When he has time, he cooks for me and invites me over.

Yours will come. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

I don't know why I smell lies.

I am not feeling fine though.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Go girl!
The worst thing is, this guy never respected me. He used vulgar and very insultive words with like I was trash. Is that the definition of love? While I await true love, I'll groom myself perfectly to suit whoever will come for me.

mmmm

BluntBoy:


mmmm

What aah??

BluntBoy:


I don't know why I smell lies.

I am not feeling fine though.

Doubting Thomas.

UyaiIncomparabl:


What aah??

I don't understand. Where do you people get guys who use vulgar language

Anyway, I heard girls like bad boys. So, enjoy!!!

.

BluntBoy:


I don't understand. Where do you people get guys who use vulgar language

Anyway, I heard girls like bad boys. So, enjoy!!!

No no. He wasn't a bad boy. He just couldn't help it. He insults at any slightest provocation. Well, that's done and dusted already.

UyaiIncomparabl:


No no. He wasn't a bad boy. He just couldn't help it. He insults at any slightest provocation. Well, that's done and dusted already.

OK. I wanted to ask other questions but it appears like you don't want to talk about it anymore.

UyaiIncomparabl:

Doubting Thomas.

BluntBoy:


OK. I wanted to ask other questions but it appears like you don't want to talk about it anymore.

Yes. What happened in the past should stay there. No time for sentimental nonsense!

UyaiIncomparabl:


Yes. What happened in the past should stay there. No time for sentimental nonsense!

But I think you are still in love with him, though.

BluntBoy:


But I think you are still in love with him, though.

Never. It's quite hard to forget old flames but when I remember all that he made me go through, the hate surpasses anything I feel at that moment. I can't deal with a toxic relationship. �

UyaiIncomparabl:



Never. It's quite hard to forget old flames but when I remember all that he made me go through, the hate surpasses anything I feel at that moment. I can't deal with a toxic relationship. �

But you made excuses for him. You said he couldn't help being like that.

OK, Uyai. I will drop it. It appears to cause you distress and a beautiful lady like you should not go through such unnecessary stress from a gentleman and man of God like me.

SoapQueen:


My dear. A good read. The worst feeling ever is being treated like trash by someone you love. I fell in love with this guy some months ago, treating my like trash is an understatement. I picked up the pieces, groomed myself and God brought an amazing guy my way. He isn't perfect but he is great. When he has time, he cooks for me and invites me over.

Yours will come. Good riddance to bad rubbish!

hmmmmmmm, what do you guys do when he invites you over

UyaiIncomparabl:


You're one hell of a person!
I'm not interested in getting hooked up!
Tell indomie generations to freh me!

Lol....I'm alien actually!!!
Trust me baby,u will get better with time.
Just remember this...finish grooming ursef n take things easy....n lemme know...cuz I will be back!!!!

Modified:
I read what u said about ur ex using vulgar n abusive words on u n all dat n I wonder where did y'all get these guys(u n soapqueen)...it's only a foolish nigga who takes advantage of a girls love to maltreat her.....

BluntBoy:


But you made excuses for him. You said he couldn't help being like that.

OK, Uyai. I will drop it. It appears to cause you distress and a beautiful lady like you should not go through such unnecessary stress from a gentleman and man of God like me.

Lmaooooo!!!
Just ask her out already na!!!!

luminouz:
Lmaooooo!!! Just ask her out already na!!!!

Absolutely. I don't need anything to stress my life. Relationships can stay on its own for now.
You, man of God? *scoffs*

[quote author=BluntBoy post=69096452]

But you made excuses for him. You said he couldn't help being like that.

OK, Uyai. I will drop it. It appears to cause you distress and a beautiful lady like you should not go through such unnecessary stress from a gentleman and man of God like me. [/quot

Poor peasants everywhere

luminouz:


Lol....I'm alien actually!!!
Trust me baby,u will get better with time.
Just remember this...finish grooming ursef n take things easy....n lemme know...cuz I will be back!!!!

Modified:
I read what u said about ur ex using vulgar n abusive words on u n all dat n I wonder where did y'all get these guys(u n soapqueen)...it's only a foolish nigga who takes advantage of a girls love to maltreat her.....

I'll never delve into a toxic relationship as that again.
As for yourself, save the trips. Don't need 'em!