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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by doskie(m): 5:30am On Jul 12
Vmaqween:

Your comment caught me Sounds so matured
thanks.
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Vado(m): 5:32am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
I understand. Ohh she's from Ogun state
Sounded like you finally met my ex Oyinkansola too
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Vado(m): 5:32am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
I understand. Ohh she's from Ogun state
Sounded like you finally met my ex Oyinkansola too
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by laplace13: 5:41am On Jul 12
LivingFree:
You sound overbearing, is this not an adult who has lived all her life governing herself? How do you come along and start telling her what to do? I think you should let people live their life how they see fit and if you have a problem with the way they're doing things you should recognise that it's your problem and you should reflect on how you can manage it or if it's a deal breaker for you then move on with you're life. Imagine telling someone to close the door when they're using the toilet. It's not everybody that closes the door when they're pissing and they live with their partner. I find it uncomfortable personally so I close my door instead of telling them what to do. You don't sound like a fun person to be around always correcting people upandan like you an eraser. Learn to chill and deal with your control issues.

The demons have arrived cheesy cheesy


But it's too late.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by MWTH(m): 5:43am On Jul 12
THERE IS NO PERFECT WOMAN OR A MAN ELSEWHERE

Speaking from experience too, I would strongly advise that you keep to the relationship. Just ensure, you try as much as you can to always let her know your dislikes.

You should also understand that most ladies today do not have the character of our mothers. Education and exposure has changed a lot of things with our girls.
Men are no longer their small gods like it used to be with our aged parents.
Most ladies today don't believe in marriage as an important achievement in life.
They also know that, they can fend for themselves even without a permanent male folk (Husband). This is not far-fetched from the fact that, one woman will always be chased by a thousand men with luxuries. Not because they want to settle down with her, but for the fun (sex).

If you've found a woman who has all the good qualities except for her ego, please hold her tight. She's still a child.

By the time she starts giving birth, those things will vanish. If it doesn't, of course your tenderness towards her now, will definitely change when kids begin to come between both of you, because your love will be more on the kids and she would have to adjust.

And of course, once family is involved, her attitude will change as well.

My final dose......

Do your best, and keep her for tomorrow. She's a GOOD WOMAN & A WIFE TO BE.

But don't let her give you hypertension sha.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Mac2016(m): 5:45am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all
It's all wrong to ask you to break up with her as many people are suggesting. I am certain she does all these cos she knew you are afraid of losing her. Bro, brace up and switch ur status from lovey-dovey to platonic. Let her realize you wanna be her true friend and that's what you've always been when correcting her and not that you dread losing her. Openly keep female friends and let her observe by herself that you are not worthless and rejected by even ladies more beautiful than her. Keep her close thru all these steps but not the fuckin partners u guys might be. Be her friend and keep other friends openly... Let her see how much other ladies crave for you. She might love you but scared you love her more and dread losing her.. That's repugnant to most ladies.
Don't call it quit yet, she might eventually be the most loving wife it all depends on you.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by BestDude: 5:55am On Jul 12
stpat1:
The tall and short of the story is that you are the one in Love.
When a woman is in love, she practically becomes a vegetable.
The ball is in your court.
bros longest time o. Hoe u dey? It is ya boy 2xxxy
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Cumtroller: 6:01am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all
Weak Bastard. You’ll soon get tired of the free pvssy she’s giving you and come to your senses...

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by gabpaul: 6:06am On Jul 12
biafraisdead:

Months back I was in a similar relationship before I finally call it a quit(I also intend to keep her as a wife, I have even introduced her to my people). I always apologise to her even while she was at fault and she will never admit been at fault or even say sorry, though she would stupidly tell me at times that her bad side is her being too proud and that she was working on her self to correct it. the day I ended the relationship was a day she insulted me and I just told her I won't call her again but she thought I was joking and since that day(over 7 months now) I haven't called her neither has she called me(because of pride). But I know she is seriously dieing now her problem is for her to call me and say 'I am sorry' she keeps calling me with unknown numbers and each time I pick she would end the call without saying anything but I know she is behind those calls, also she keeps stalking me on LinkedIn, she doesn't know LinkedIn sends u profile of people viewing ur profile. so my brother if u try to change her and she is not changing I would advise u to let her go; imagine what u would go through when u finally marry her, we shouldn't allow love to block our senses at times. any man or woman that can't say sorry is not worthy to be a husband or a wife. By the way where is she from cos we may be talking about the same girl.

Same Girl...same Girl.. grin

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Abdogood(m): 6:11am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all


Please are you sure we are not dating the same girl here. Because I am exactly passing through the same thing right now.
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by olugabbie(m): 6:15am On Jul 12
We humans r very selfish. In a relationship and in our famiilies we all want to b a dominant power. U gav her d power to dominate ur relationship. She is used to bein incharge. U v to tak charge. U v to tak d power back from her. N d only way u can do dis, is to wait for her to call and also APOLOGIZE. Even if its goin to tak yrs. U v to turn d table around. N dats d best way to do it. Bro Take Charge. Be The Man In Ur Relationship. Gudluck bro!

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Aringon(m): 6:16am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all

What you cannot sustain, DONT start it Bro. Be the man and act as a man. Thanks

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by sammylink: 6:18am On Jul 12
Dear Brother, please drop the lady as soon as possible. I am a 51 years old man. This same mistake i made years ago. i married a lady with similar characters with your lady. The marriage with 02 children collapsed irredeemably after 7 years. Though i have moved on with my life (remarried and have other children) but am yet to recover from the consequential negative effects of the collapsed marriage. It gave me a serious drawback. Please drop her now now.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by banchuz: 6:19am On Jul 12
biafraisdead:

Months back I was in a similar relationship before I finally call it a quit(I also intend to keep her as a wife, I have even introduced her to my people). I always apologise to her even while she was at fault and she will never admit been at fault or even say sorry, though she would stupidly tell me at times that her bad side is her being too proud and that she was working on her self to correct it. the day I ended the relationship was a day she insulted me and I just told her I won't call her again but

she thought I was joking and since that day(over 7 months now) I haven't called her neither has she called me(because of pride). But I know she is seriously dieing now her problem is for her to call me and say 'I am sorry' she keeps calling me with unknown numbers and each time I pick she would end the call without saying anything but I know she is behind those calls, also she keeps stalking me on LinkedIn, she doesn't know LinkedIn sends u profile of people viewing ur profile. so my brother if u try to change her and she is not changing I would advise u to let her go; imagine what u would go through when u finally marry her, we shouldn't allow love to block our senses at times. any man or woman that can't say sorry is not worthy to be a husband or a wife. By the way where is she from cos we may be talking about the same girl.



Is it advice able u wish her birthday wishes during this course of not calling each other?
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by zedman1(m): 6:20am On Jul 12
Some persons argue there's no such thing as a 'Nigerian feminist' , that a feminist is a feminist. She's the definition of a Nigerian feminist - one who just simply disrespects men, claims always to know better than men and always wants to torment men for no just reason at all. I think I spotted one on the first page of this thread.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Pat081: 6:21am On Jul 12
I was having d same problem with one useless gal like dat some months back if u tell her wot u re doing is nt good she will tell u dat she dnt care, but I have to move closer to one or two of her friends to knw maybe dat is how she use to do wen dey too correct her and dey all say d same thing dat she dnt use to listen to correction and if someone try to do dat she will nt talk to dat person as long as she want to ,so I hv to end it . Op try to find out 4rm her friends too

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Abdogood(m): 6:23am On Jul 12
donstan18:
I'll advice you to break up with her and allow her learn the hard way from a hard and tough man.

But incase you want otherwise, then read.

She's taking advantage of you because you seems to be a good and caring guy, and one of the habit of a typical Nigerian lady is to take such men for granted.

All you need to do is to pay less attention to her nagging attitude for a while. Give her the same attitude in a higher measure. Allow her understand what "Correction" is all about by putting an end to your act of begging her after correcting her on something.


She's taking your kindness for a ride and indirectly wanting to turn you to a MUGU with her nasty attitude. Man up and go aggressive/less concerned on her for a while. Just a while.

She'll change if she really cared for you, but If after she fails to change. DUMP her for a respectful lady who will give you peace of mind with no nasty attitude.

I just love ur comments. I don change ham for her now. I don't apologize to her, I even love keeping the malice with her now. Small things me sef go vex. If she love me let her change. If she is tired let her walk. One woman no go kum colonized me for my small world. Never!!

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by urose93(f): 6:25am On Jul 12
LivingFree:
You sound overbearing, is this not an adult who has lived all her life governing herself? How do you come along and start telling her what to do? I think you should let people live their life how they see fit and if you have a problem with the way they're doing things you should recognise that it's your problem and you should reflect on how you can manage it or if it's a deal breaker for you then move on with you're life. Imagine telling someone to close the door when they're using the toilet. It's not everybody that closes the door when they're pissing and they live with their partner. I find it uncomfortable personally so I close my door instead of telling them what to do. You don't sound like a fun person to be around always correcting people upandan like you an eraser. Learn to chill and deal with your control issues.

Op see one of them here o. Confused feminist.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by mfm04622: 6:25am On Jul 12
You are not taking things too far. In fact, you better go your way. If she can put up attitude over such small correction, i wonder what she will make you go through if you marry her. this is the time she is supposed to put up her best behaviour. If this is her best behaviour before you marry her, it is up to you to decide if you can cope with her
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by banchuz: 6:26am On Jul 12
pryme:


If you can read between the lines I believe everything is presented clearly to you.
This is exactly what you will have to put up with for life, if you marry her, it's as clear as night and day.

She has shown you who she is, so I don't think she is confused on that, the confused one here is you. Cos you are confused if you are to accept her the way she is or walk away.

Anyway for you to open this thread shows you are not down with it. The question is are you strong enough to take a big decision? And such decision involves leaving her.

After walking away is advisable to send birthday wishes after 2 weeks of no calling?
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by dimexy247(m): 6:27am On Jul 12
delugajackson:
You are dating a woman with so much ego and such woman will never make a good wife. Truth is, you can never control a woman with so much ego. If she can't apologize for little things, then she has no business being in a relationship. Take my word, she has little or no respect for you. The only reason she is with you up till this moment is because she is gaining from you, once she fulfills her aim of running you down, she will leave your áss for good.

I suggest you look for someone else with better attitude, character and finesse that will make life worth living for you, cause once you marry this particular girl, you will experience x2 of what you're suffering now. She will offer you a lifetime of misery! Who wants a stubborn, nagging, disrespectful woman with an over-bloated ego as a wife?

You need to re-consider this cause it seems you're gradually becoming a victim of emotional deficit. And the hard truth is that you both are not meant for each other.
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by akinszz: 6:28am On Jul 12
LivingFree:
You sound overbearing, is this not an adult who has lived all her life governing herself? How do you come along and start telling her what to do? I think you should let people live their life how they see fit and if you have a problem with the way they're doing things you should recognise that it's your problem and you should reflect on how you can manage it or if it's a deal breaker for you then move on with you're life. Imagine telling someone to close the door when they're using the toilet. It's not everybody that closes the door when they're pissing and they live with their partner. I find it uncomfortable personally so I close my door instead of telling them what to do. You don't sound like a fun person to be around always correcting people upandan like you an eraser. Learn to chill and deal with your control issues.
Ema gbó okugbé

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Bolnij2: 6:30am On Jul 12
I think you know there is no perfect person and even if you dump her there is no guarantee that you will get a perfect woman to replace her. Learn to understand her and what makes her to behave like that. All those asking you to leave her may not be doing you any good. Behave maturely. Women are like babies and you have to pet them. She probably needs your attention. I advise you drop your pride as a man if you want to enjoy peace in your home.
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by fidelism: 6:33am On Jul 12
Raskasal:
This post is directed to the matured minds in the house.

I've dated this lady for close to a year now and I have the intention of having her as my wife because of my love for her. She's got good qualities, cooks well, supportive in a little way but temperamental and easily provoked.

But there is this challenge I'm having with her, she puts up surly attitude and would always keep to herself whenever I correct her, and she won't talk to me for as long as we stay together, call or try to get in touch while away. This might last for as many days not until I come out to calm her down. Over times shes been doing this and the only way I've had to let things be normal is for me to talk to her again and beg her not to be angry. But I'm feeling I'm loosing my worth. This is someone that never admits she's at fault, talk less of apologizing. On several note I have had to take blame for her errors even when I'm not at fault just to make sure we're fine.

A recent development was that she came for holiday and was using the rest room within my apartment, I was passing by and asked her to close the door, she murmured, closed the door and she hasn't been talking to me since then and even when I do she'll answer reluctantly for like five days now. I am tired of living under same roof with someone that never feel anything keeping malice and I want her to realize her mistakes and apologize, but she won't, she'll rather stay back in the room, and whenever I go to the room, she be making avoiding moves.

I watched her closely to observe if she's into someone else but I haven't got any traces of that.

I have decided not to call her to terms again not minding if it costs a break up, but then am thinking I might be taking things way far.

Pls How best can I handle this? I really do love her tho and I am afraid of loosing her but I am loosing my worth and this has made her not have regards for me.

Thank you all

No daughter of Eve is perfect. Sometimes we need to overlook some minor flaws of an intending mate.
However, it is advisable to discontinue a relationship with your partner who has serious flaws. It is a pointer to something dangerous especially if you have been patient enough to have her worked on it without any positive change.
Temperament is a deep issue that needs to be watched. Abusive mate usually have anger problem. It often matures to unrestrained habits of mental torture and physical abuse.
Watch out please in order not to regret your decision of a mate choice... Use your head not your hrt. Once you are in doubt, do without! It is too early to be afraid of a mate you are not even married to
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by akinszz: 6:34am On Jul 12
pocohantas:


So, are you (still) single now? smiley
u want apply ni ... see neco question.
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by zedman1(m): 6:35am On Jul 12
urose93:


Op see one of them here o. Confused feminist.
Nice, you spotted her too.
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by otswag(m): 6:38am On Jul 12
delugajackson:
You are dating a woman with so much ego and such woman will never make a good wife. Truth is, you can never control a woman with so much ego. If she can't apologize for little things, then she has no business being in a relationship. Take my word, she has little or no respect for you. The only reason she is with you up till this moment is because she is gaining from you, once she fulfills her aim of running you down, she will leave your áss for good.

I suggest you look for someone else with better attitude, character and finesse that will make life worth living for you, cause once you marry this particular girl, you will experience x2 of what you're suffering now. She will offer you a lifetime of misery! Who wants a stubborn, nagging, disrespectful woman with an over-bloated ego as a wife?

You need to re-consider this cause it seems you're gradually becoming a victim of emotional deficit. And the hard truth is that you both are not meant for each other.
need i say more. Gbam!!!
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by TheHottestGuy: 6:38am On Jul 12
biafraisdead:

Months back I was in a similar relationship before I finally call it a quit(I also intend to keep her as a wife, I have even introduced her to my people). I always apologise to her even while she was at fault and she will never admit been at fault or even say sorry, though she would stupidly tell me at times that her bad side is her being too proud and that she was working on her self to correct it. the day I ended the relationship was a day she insulted me and I just told her I won't call her again but she thought I was joking and since that day(over 7 months now) I haven't called her neither has she called me(because of pride). But I know she is seriously dieing now her problem is for her to call me and say 'I am sorry' she keeps calling me with unknown numbers and each time I pick she would end the call without saying anything but I know she is behind those calls, also she keeps stalking me on LinkedIn, she doesn't know LinkedIn sends u profile of people viewing ur profile. so my brother if u try to change her and she is not changing I would advise u to let her go; imagine what u would go through when u finally marry her, we shouldn't allow love to block our senses at times. any man or woman that can't say sorry is not worthy to be a husband or a wife. By the way where is she from cos we may be talking about the same girl.
You r right and also wrong. Wrong because some people do things deliberately and apologize. I would take some one who owns up to a wrong they do every time. She not apologizing means she feels she's right, and she sticks to her guns. Which is what makes it easier to realize weather or not you can live with this person for the rest of your life, but a person that apologizes quickly is very dangerous since they know what they're doing is wrong but they do it anyway. They feel they can always apologize. These sets of people r neither hot nor cold making it difficult to understand them. Now the poster can either work away or stay, the ball is on your court.

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by fidelism: 6:43am On Jul 12
doskie:
its called emotional blackmail. browse and read about it. you are a victim of emotional blackmail. sometimes we often spoil and pamper our companions into this bad habit by not making them know from the onset that we will not be blackmailed emotionally. its a mind game. you cannot spend the rest of your life with her. i was once in your shoes, i called the girl and told her i want out. i explained to her that its not in my character to double date, else i would have done that, so to be honest, i want to be with someone who is human enough to feel guilty and feel disturbed when things are going wrong between us, you SHOULD NOT ! I REPEAT !!! YOU SHOULD NOT ALLOW YOUR HEART DECEIVE YOU INTO THINKING AN EMOTIONAL BULLY WILL CHANGE !!! You will always be her victim, and some are psychopaths, if eventually you stay long enough in keeping a grudge with her, she may increase the extent of her evil by attacking you one day with a broken bottle, taking solace in cheating on you thinking shes having her pound of flesh, or employing whatever machination necessary to keep you within her powers and manage all your affairs in her own liking. the world is full of beautiful, nice and submissive women. go for one

I couldn't agree more. You spoke my mind...

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Azam101: 6:43am On Jul 12
It just a thin line btw love and hatred!
Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by apuski2: 6:45am On Jul 12
My wife has the same attitude. Either she did not show it during courtship or i was blinded by love. My guy dump her sorry ass or u would live to regret your whole life if u do marry her

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Re: My Experience With A Lady I Intend To Settle Down With by Taofeekdboy(m): 6:47am On Jul 12
Raskasal:

I understand. Ohh she's from Ogun state
chai, I’m thinking maybe it is all ladies from Ogun State because my GF is also like that and she is from Ogun State also, we haven’t talked for 3 days now because I always beg her for everything, even when she’s at fault I will still beg but can’t continue to that anymore so I hold up, thank God I have alternative to run to if I change my mind towards her. And they will be the one to be shouting all men are bad but like to exploits good and caring men.SMH

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