afrobaby:

Just sit her down and tell her she is hurting your feelings, need to talk to her in the best way and best mood, she is your wife u know, u know her best

afrobaby:

Just sit her down and tell her she is hurting your feelings, need to talk to her in the best way and best mood, she is your wife u know, u know her best

kunletech:

A year noun that my friend wife delivered a Baby boy, she as been refusing to make love with him

African_queen:

yes. . . Communication is the key. . . Maybe your friend had hurt her unknowingly and its her way of punishing him for that. . .you know women na. . . They act funny sometimes

no1madman:

Only wicked and unwise woman will punish a man by withholding sex.

Outstrip:

Is it possible to go a whole year without sex hmm

Miss_Ife:

Did she see a doctor and make sure everything was alright with her body? Is she still breastfeeding her baby?

I know some friends who still feel pain in their privates even many months after giving birth, maybe the wife is too ashamed to talk about it? Or maybe the pregnancy/breastfeeding induced hormonal changes in her body and "turned off" her desire for s.ex. I know a lady who took over 18 months before she could have intimacy with her husband again.

Or maybe she doesn't feel pretty after having a baby? (weight, )

I think the husband should try his best to talk to his wife, be patient with her, romance her, make her feel a woman again, and not just a mother. Did he try to take her out on a week end/date? To do things they used to do when they were just dating/just married?

Sometimes men forget all those things after marriage and then wonder why the wife is not as easy as the girlfriend was,

queeneve:

If I want to deny my husband sex, I will do so. There is no law said I must give him some when he want sme,

queeneve:

if i dont want to give my husband none for a whole year, i dont have to give him none,

queeneve:

Don't put your excuse on me cos you nassy, IF YOU ARE NASSY, YOU GOING TO CHEAT REGARDLESS NASSY BASSID. 


SMH AT DOGS CREATING EXCUSES FOR THEIR NASSY AZZES,

queeneve:

if i dont want to give my husband none for a whole year, i dont have to give him none,

But if i may ask, why would you deny your husband? don't you think it's his conjugal rights unless under medical condition or a reached agreement, ?
@poster, like others have already said, tell him to sit her down and talk to her as matured adults do. Most times you see husband and wife engaging on what i called silly competition now tell me what else can be as being defeated as being climbed on, which i presumed to be a 2-way thing in a marriage

queeneve:

if i dont want to give my husband none for a whole year, i dont have to give him none,

African_queen:

Its possible dear. . . I know of someone who have stayed for 13yrs now without sex.

queeneve:

If I want to deny my husband sex, I will do so.  There is no law said I must give him some when he want sme,

OAM4J:

Now, that is a case study! Is this person married? or is he/she a nun/priest or what?

queeneve:

*looking at my original post*

I said IF I don't want to have intimacy, I don't have to.  I did not say that what I am doing at this moment, saying whatever I decides I don't want none, THEN I DON'T HAVE TO, if he decides he don't want to give me none, THEN THAT ON HIM, men can't live without sex for no more than five days, WOMEN can tolerate the lack of sex longer than men,

Marriage has nothing to do with sex and sex is part of human function naturally.  It has nothing to do with marriage, and Marriage is a union between two people in the sanction of God that it.  Nothing more nothing less. People add stipulations on what marriage should be about, the FIRST UNION were about companionship and committing with one another in partnership, SEX IS CREATED FOR PURPOSE OF CHILD BEARING, NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS,

People need to stop enforcing their views and opinions on others, EVERY MARRIAGE IS DIFFERENT AND THERE ARE MARRIAGES THAT ARE SEXLESS, HAVE YOU BEEN READING THE NEWS PEOPLE?!!!

adaphik:

why do some women, talk TRASH sometimes?  Absolute NONSENSE,  IF u deny your husband of sex for health reasons, it is very understandable, n ofcourse he would understand aswell. But when there's no reason, for Gods sake, u must b insane. Very Insane, for that matter. If the same man decides not to touch u for life, except for when he wants kids, would u be happier?