please am madly in love with a gal of exactly the same age. am just lucky i gave her only a month but we really love each other. although we promise to marry each other but i still have some lil doubt it cant work out because of the age difference(ONLY ONE MONTH).
And again am in my finals and she is in her 200level. am really confused although i love her so much.


please i need advice, a reasonable reason why it can work out or it can never work. please be serious as am damn confused.

or the probality(chances) that it can work or not.

am waiting

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@ olibyno

the ratio of your marriage working out to it not working out is 50 :50, and that's the ratio you would get if you said you were getting married to a girl 5yrs younger and older than yourself

when it comes to marriage and age, i think its got to do with the individuals involved. The truth is that guys don't want to marry girls older than they are or of the same age, because of fear of "lack of respect from the wife" but i tell you this . . a girl 10yrs younger than yourself might even turn out to be more disrespectful than a girl your age

another thing might be the level of maturity when both are compared. Now most girls get more matured upstairs than guys of the same age, hence it becomes a problem if the girl now views life in a more adult manner than the guy. To the girl, the guy becomes childish and irritating

Now if you guys have been getting along well, and the "age thing" has never been a problem, then i don't see the reason why you should be bothered.

what counts more is the compatibility and love you guys share

if you miss out on this one, you might not get a second chance to experience true love

it has been posted on this forum, where someone was complaining that the female cousin was dating this guy. But what annoyed the poster was that the cousin was respecting and being too submissive to the guy even though she was older than him

Now if this could be their case, don't you now think you guys deserve a chance?

what you see in the next compound might not be better than what you have, there is no guarantee that the 10yrs-younger-than-yourself girl you meet tomorrow will complete you like this girl does, why waste this chance for a risk that might leave you miserable?

@olibyno

Age is nothing but just a #

I'm 1yr older than my boyfriend/ soon to be husband

and i see nothing wrong in it, nor do we both have problems with.

We don't allow that age difference to bother us or come between us.

I give him the same respect i give to my dad

Am loyal to him and is family, his my world, life and i will always Cherish him to death.

He doesn't look at like am older, he looks at me has his wife to be.

He respect me and i give him the same respect.

So people wake up, Age is nothing but a single number.

Everytime i talk about him, it brings tears into my eyes.

i love that darling, speaking from experience is even better

now @ olibyno

go and make that damsel yours

cute-ass:

i love that darling, speaking from experience is even better

i know tears of joy.

Omo Eko:

@olibyno

Age is nothing but just a #

I'm 1yr older than my boyfriend/ soon to be husband

and i see nothing wrong in it, nor do we both have problems with.

We don't allow that age difference to bother us or come between us.

I give him the same respect i give to my dad

Am loyal to him and is family, his my world, life and i will always Cherish him to death.

He doesn't look at like am older, he looks at me has his wife to be.

He respect me and i give him the same respect.

So people wake up, Age is nothing but a single number.

Everytime i talk about him, it brings tears into my eyes.

Jeez, so you could sound sober and loving Omo-Eko? . Having read some of ur post, you sound happy go lucky in all ur statements. Obviously, dis guy is giving you some special lovingsss.Omo-eko, o ti yo ife!

I am happy for you omo eko  

@ rikkyjen

oti really yo ife   lol

rikkyjen:

Jeez, so you could sound sober and loving Omo-Eko? . Having read some of your post, you sound happy go lucky in all your statements. Obviously, this guy is giving you some special lovingsss.Omo-eko, o ti yo ife!

heba come on am really a friendly and caring person.
But thanks for ur comment anyway

GNature:

I am happy for you omo eko

thank u jare

The problem is that you think marriage is about 'being in control'. If you change that view, you won't have problems.
Think of it as a partnership. Wouldn't a partnership work better if both partners are equally mature?

Seun:

The problem is that you think marriage is about 'being in control'. If you change that view, you won't have problems.
Think of it as a partnership. Wouldn't a partnership work better if both partners are equally mature?

exactly, very very true

like i was trying to point out, all this about marriage and age, has everything to do with maturity. If thir level of maturity completes each other, then the person would be damned to let go

This boy still dey talk like boy sef, which one is "I'm just a year older than her"? See me see signs and wonders o!

You are still in final year, so i can undastand. By the time you enter the real world and truly undastand the meaning of loneliness, you will value the importance of the big word LOVE.

Brother, unreqitted love is the worst that can happen to annyone, when your love is reciprocated; count your blessing!

olibyno: please am madly in love with a gal of exactly the same age. am just lucky i gave her only a month but we really love each other. although we promise to marry each other but i still have some lil doubt it cant work out because of the age difference(ONLY ONE MONTH).
And again am in my finals and she is in her 200level. am really confused although i love her so much.


please i need advice, a reasonable reason why it can work out or it can never work. please be serious as am damn confused.

or the probality(chances) that it can work or not.

am waiting

im abt few months younger than d girl i wanna get married to. so?? age aint nothing but a few digits!