Hai nlanders,av bin dating dis girl for 8yrs nw.am a gradu8,bt no job yet and dis girl is bin so supportive,financially,spiritually,etc.bt my mom doesn't like light complexn girls(omo pupa),i also told my pastor bout her,he prayd n told me dt if i marry her i wil av prob in d future.dis girl stil gives me money weneva i askd n she's submisive.wat do i do?

Please don't listen to that Pastor of yours,someone that has been supportive in all ways and is even submissive despite your not having a job is not going to be much of a problem.Man,you have something that is hard to find in Naija,don't loose it. As for your mother,it is up to you to convince her that light skinned ladies are really not different from other ladies.What matters is inside her.

you want to throw away an 8-yr-old relationship? Why? What wrong did she do? Was she unfaithful or disrespect u?
I really envy you. I have a girl like that. Fair like anything. Problem is she's stingy. Yet i'm still with her because i believe she'll change.
Pls dont throw away a good thing.

Bro do wateva u want to do bt 4 me u must nt wast 8yrs of d girls lye 4 nothn. This one u can even give it a thot means once u av a gud job u will av reasns to tru her.

Do U realy know the worth of 'a bird at hand'? Pastors are human, ask GOD not a pastor. Does your mum realy know about these 8-yr gestures from the same 'omo pupa'?

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your mom simply dont like a girl not because of her person but simply because shes is omo pupa and your pastor have already analysed your future and have foreseen the yet unforeseeable?

it seems you have already let others make the choice for you, please it will be very kind of you to compensate the girl of all the hard works she has diligently done for you before you let her off with some silly excuses

So you mum just noticed that the girl is fair ritand pls your pastor is not God,you are a man u should be able to stand your ground,dnt let your mum or any other person decide for you,I dnt even undastand this mentality ppl have abt fair skinned ladies,

Omo don't be stupid o I ve got a elderly friend who was warned not to marry a certin girl by a pastor the girl was already pregnant for him he refused fastforward 20 yrs later de man is not happy at all its up to u to do ur private investigation and confirm what de pastor said if true or not people change circumstances change some women look and act like humans but are really devils in waiting

Do be careful abt ur choic of a wife U DON'T OWE A WOMAN MARRIAGE because she gave u money love or was submissive u don't owe her narraige as compensation for
eight years she spent wit u. U owe urself de right to make de rite choice for URSELF(yep its ur damn right to be selfish) if u base ur choice on her staying 4 eight years

Den u are a mugun of de highest order