wenever i complain its alwayz work work pls try
and understand am gettin sick and tired of it i need
ur advise

Hey chioma go find new boyfriend coz i tink his got anoda 4 him self
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Well even with work you would always welcome that little distraction. If he doesn't call consider these options:
1 - His he someone that doesn't like talking much? my brother is like that and so the family makes that excuse for him.
2 - Do you argue everytime you speak? If so might be a reason for his hesitation.
3 - Even if he has other girls on the side, he would still call you to at least keep you sweet (mind state of a player) unless of course you are on the way out.
Just some considerations,

What he's working 24hrs a day? We are just talking about a phone call! Not visits or flights.

Do u call him too??
must he be d one 2 do d calling??
beta go sit don 4 somewhere now before change my post

talking from experience
most of nigerian girls are very inconsiderate
u see them all day, u talk to them all day
but a day is neva complete until u BUZZ there phone
most times to discuss rubbish talk
or to show off to their friends, that they possess one new MAGA
at the pocket expence of the loving guy

make i curse them o: same thing u do 4 other guys, so they will do 4 ur bros, sons uncles e.tc.

lets stop this bad habbit

_{AM OUT!!!}

I agree wit u bros, my own opinion is dat ladies in naijaa get wan kain mentality wey de alwayz vex me. . .dem no de call o,de'v made it d guyz responsibity. And its a 5O/5O thingy. . .Abeg make ds babez go change der wayz.

but wait o, why would your boyfriend not call you?
Try and talk to him seriously about it first before u take any decisions.
Cheers

My dear,
I want you to first of all understand that the truth hurts, I dont know how old you are because you sound much young to understand this dangerous game called love where there is never a clear winner.
In this game of love, i have come to know that nothing can stop a guy from calling a lady he loves even from the moon.If he gives you that rubbish excuse of working , he doesnt deserve your love.
Maybe you have grown fond of him but i advice you to start learning how to bear heartbreaks, Its a major characteristic of the game.
[center]put your coat on your shoulder and slowly start walking away[/center].

make una wait ooo.

i dont think the poster explained what she meant by her boy friend doesnt call her at all. we guys know that these women dont mind having a phone glued to their ears. having said that, i'd like to know if her boy friend does not call her at all? or calls her ones or twice and she expects to be called a whole lot more.

now if ur boy friend doesnt call at all at all then think again. if he calls u ones i'd still be like hmmmmm but u need to understand his kind of work.

SAM MILLA:


[center]put your coat on your shoulder and slowly start walking away[/center].

word!

This was opened a year ago.

they're prolly married by now with kids. . . or broken up!

SAM MILLA:

[b]My dear,

[center]put your coat on your shoulder and slowly start walking away[/center].

jkpretty:

word!

Dont forget to have a lil bit of money on you cos you might need to use a bus

If he loves you well enough, he would be calling you more often.

@poster

That is the yellow card. Pray that he does not issue you the RED card or you try to avoid the RED card. Do what you think is right.

SAM MILLA:


[center]put your coat on your shoulder and slowly start walking away[/center].

i concur

i understand how u feel perfectly. d truth is bitter. he is gradually fading away from u.pls be wise and strong to pick up your pieces dear.

@poster
If he calls often before and now gives reason of work work, it means there is a distractor somewhere
But if this is not unlike his kinda attitude before, then he could have a point
Coward men can not tell you to your face when they are tired of relationship and need a back out
They only come up with flimsy excuses
WHO even said in the midst of tight schedule, one can not find time to speak to a love one?
Girl beam your light well ooo

Then call him

Chy, dnt mind dat guy of urs, he doesn't wat he's got until he loses it. anyway, i'm offering you me on a platter of gold. and i'll call u until ur phone starts complaining. in fact na u go tire. so do we get it on?
going, going,

samy-young:

Then call him

simple and short

do you call him too? if yes, he is probably seeing som1 else or tired of u, if no, den u don't have a case ~

So since he hardly call you why can't you call him? but why dis nigerian girls believe its d man suppose be doing every damn thing? Cos u can't tell me u r d one spendin 4 him. . . . If our mentality keep moving like dis many marriages won't last in 9ja cos no girls here is tryin to be an independent lady but jus to be dependin on men doing everything.

how come chioma has so much free time? what is chioma doing with self that she doesn't understand that people have work that takes most of their time and when they do have time off they dont want to hear the whining of chioma i'm just saying

d problem we have in relationship is lack of understandin, nd a situation where by theres no care they cant be luv, so lets stay without luv but let there be sex.

omega25red:

how come chioma has so much free time?  what is chioma doing with self that she doesn't understand that people have work that takes most of their time and when they do have time off they dont want to hear the whining of chioma  i'm just saying

lol.

hey peope, this post was in 2007. thats like 300 years ago mstchew