buzugee:

this happens because the man is not where he wants to be in life. same with women. if you are still searching for yourself, if you are still searching for a career, if you are still trying to become comfortable with who you are as a person and what your purpose is in this world, if you are still trying to step into and own your personality, if you are still trying to search for yourself in terms of the economic stability that will give you peace of min,  UNTIL ALL OF THE ABOVE HAPPENS  you can never fully appreciate the complete beauty in others because your mind is chaotic. until all the above happens you will never appreciate another human being the way they need to be appreciated. this is why the marriages that work in life are the marriages where the couple get married in their late thirties or early forties. because only at this age range will you completely fully step into your personality as a person. only at this age will you be fully at peace with yourself and hence can appreciate what another person brings to the table. BED HOPPING IS A SYMPTOM OF A RESTLESS AND LOST SOUL.

jeffman:

listen to the post above. he speaks true words except for the last sentence. I am of the opinion that u ommited the "variety is the spice of life" side to man. A man's life is continually a war with self. The average guy would usually want variety in women he goes for. His wife beauty means nothing for he will leave a beautiful wife to "knew" an ugly concubine. Discipline, morals, spirituality are the tools to fight this.

valacious:

I agree  partly with buzugee that while you are still searching for essence in life, you tend not to be satisfied in a relationship, but i disagree based on the fact that men who are 'fulfilled' also find themselves in this dilemma,also age to me is not a barrier, and the radar is still pointing to the reason that, men in fact dont really know what they want, and they easily forget that there are no perfect lady out there, that stated, how then can a man define what he actually wants and carve the best out of it amidst a lot of chaos, i mean amidst several daily choices of women while in a relationship

figment232:

nobody is even trying to talk bout the most basic aspect of a relationship,neatness and respect from your gurl.I left my gurl cos i found out she couldnt just do her duties as a woman,Can u imagine staying with a gurl in your house and u re always forced to do the chores like washing the bathroom,cleaning the house generally,wot bout her general cleanilesss,after trying to change her without success,i had to ditch her chikena!

moonraker:

Uncle Saga

i hope u knw what thread you are in??

I don't think he knows. . .

I think he has his eyes closed while typing, it's not his fault. . .he'll soon wake up.

Just give him time. . .

moonraker:

Uncle Saga

i hope u knw what thread you are in??