Nairalanders,
I am facing the most difficult moment of my life. My girlfriend of two years got pregnant for her secret lover. All these happened while I was away for an official trip/training.

I discovered her duplicity when I recently came back home and was making love to her. While romancing her bosoms, I noticed I was taking in a substance with soured taste in my mouth. I pretended not to notice it at first, being not exactly sure what was coming out of her bosoms but when it kept coming, I stopped to investigate what precisely I was sucking only to discover that it was coming from her unmentionables.

When I asked her what kind of liquid was coming from her bosoms, she initially denied knowledge of it, but I pressured her to know what could have prompted the bosom milk. I kept mounting pressure on her to confirm what my suspicions were. From my experience I know a woman lactates when she is pregnant and during bosom-feeding.

When she kept maintaining her stance, I asked her to leave my house that night; so, she started shedding tears and later confessed that a guy she started dating when I was away got her pregnant. Up till now, I am still in a state of shock as I find the whole episode still so confusing and disturbing. Please I need your candid advice please.

WHY THE MANY NOISE?

She's pregnant for someone else so if you don't know what to do go smoke igbo ! Dump kill yourself

Wow you still need advice afta somebody bagged ur girl. There is no advice for this son. U shd kick her to da curb and wish the both of them a happy life. And move on with ur life. Dont even think otherwise cus she aint feeling u just using you and she probably been fucking this guy all along. Just be happy u wasnt around when da pregnancy happened or she woulda gave u anoda mans child. She dont love u u prolly sweet to her so she been stayin around while playing da field.

My dear, I wonda wat U r feeling now but all d same,be rest assured U've lost dat girl.Let her go and meet her lover and please do dis diplomatically.NEVER BEAT A WOMAN.

Do you need a hand? what exactly do you want to hear from us bro?

Woke4all:

WHY THE MANY NOISE?

She's pregnant for someone else so if you don't know what to do go smoke igbo ! Dump kill yourself

just suck it in if you have nothing sensible to say

@`post
such is life . .   . take it easy and move on or except you wanna father another man's child then no probs

just drink the milk an get fatter, then leave her, a save some 4 da baby,

if i was you i would just fvck her and get head again then dump her at least you know you hit that shit the last time

y me:

just suck it in if you have nothing sensible to say

@`post
such is life . .   . take it easy and move on or except you wanna father another man's child then no probs

Oh sorry i didn't know you were the girl he's talking about!

End it.

dude what you decide is up to you. Talk to her if theres a possible way forward for the two of you. If you decide to stay with her will you truly be happy? what would be the reaction of your family? you have to weigh the pros n cons but on the surface she doesn't seem to deserve the sacrifice

find out who the lucky man is, you neva know he might be your best friend

too_soon:

find out who the lucky man is, you neva know he might be your best friend

i dont have a best friend

when you are not serious with her, why will she not find another guy that is man enough. sorry

SAD,

She still dey there?! 4 ya house I mean?
Aww man,

You move on dude. We are in Africa, even if u want to forgive, ur family, friends, church, Imam or whatever thinks otherwise.

Our society expects u to move on.

This is soo very sad.   wat she did was very wrong but afta all sed and done, it all depends on if u are willing to live with it and 4give her.
The ball is in ur court really cuz u knw exactly hw u feel  
does she still want u or the oda guy?  

@poster:
OPEN A MILK FACTORY 

thats so sad i can understand how u feel, shit  happens thats shows how unfaithful she will be when u guys get married, but the pregnant expose her hidden agenda, just move one with ur life, i guess she ain't worth the stress,

There is nothing to advice here, Brother for the girl to have cheated on you and still had the guts to make love to you, means she can afford to posion you when you least expect. i am sure the only reason she did that was because the guy has rejected her and her unborn child. Bros, sorry o! Take heart and move on, wish her lucky in her new life and her endeavors, and get yourself someone better.

chi-baby:

This is soo very sad.   wat she did was very wrong but afta all sed and done, it all depends on if u are willing to live with it and 4give her.
The ball is in your court really cuz u knw exactly hw u feel  
does she still want u or the oda guy?  

chi, what he said is it true, that once a woman is preg, she brings out the milk,
personally have u encountered such from ur, before, im curious, i wanna know~

u know god created these girlz beautifully and wonderfully. if he really wanted us to have only one he would have written our nmaes to a part of their body or something like that. guy pls don't kill urself over one when u can have as many as possible.

Sorry to Burst ur bubble MR POSTER but give credit where credit is due. This EXACT post WORD FOR WORD, PUNCTUATION FOR PUNCTUATIOn was posted on dear agatha/dear Bunmi heartache/agony aunty section like 2 months back.
F.Y.I> If you that desperate to have a topic, try something that hasnt been published in a national newspaper next time.
There's something called plagiarism.

What do you still want in a Girl that have opened her legs wide for another Man?She got hot pants and she wont change.Please,move on.She is not the one for you.

This kind thing dey cause sleepless night, my man u sure say u don sleep since that day? It's easier to get over it, if you have experienced it before; but thank God you've experienced it now. Get over it and move on because, that's what you should do. Let me give u a tip, to get over it faster, just toast any other girl around your hood, i.e somebody you can see almost everyday.

She's not ur wife so what business have u got sucking her breasts?If you can do that then dont complain when someone else does the same.

wow!

Congratulations poster!

What moral justification do you have to feel the way you claimed?
That your girlfriend (not your wife) is pregnant for another man.
Why should you be having sex (nothing like making love in this case) to someone whom you are not married?

The girl, yourself and the secret lover are all thieves and have sinned; You are a fornicator who is not even ashamed.

Lord have mercy!