I came in seeing a man not known to me not only in my room but also on top of my wife.
Am i to divorce my wife or go through the matrimonial vows which says that we are one and it is for better for worse.

Go through your matrimonial vows,please if you love God please forgive her.

forgive her? after sleeping wit anoda man in your house! well, its ur choice

Na fire go burn 4 better 4 worst, another man messin wit ma wife in my bed? 9mm gon judge immediately on dat dude nd 4 my wh0re i called wife will leave my house straight up gbam!!!

Blueice4re:

Go through your matrimonial vows,please if you love God please forgive her.

How practical is this religious advice? You think things can ever be the same? The incident has destroyed a major ingredient of a blissful union: trust. It is one thing to forgive and it is another matter to forget. It might even be unnatural to expect anyone to forget that kind of thing.

hey my ppl,been in this so called western would for long long time ago,got all a normal man should have but no child yet,dated white women for yrs still no child,we,ve tried hospital show,doctors says i,m alright with sperm test but woman not completely alright.i decided to go down to naija,dated 2 seperate girls for 2 to 3 yrs,both always tell me they got pregnant but my ppl,up till now,i never see any pikin yet,pls advice.na waooooo,i tire sef.

What!!!! she no even fear? 4 ur own house on top ur own bed? Hope you both dnt hav kids anyway it doesent matter; If u ae really in love or still in love give her last warning, but if u don tire dude get her out of ur hse pronto

Forgive her. Talk and work things out. Figure out what went wrong and what can be remedied. Trust will come over time.


I can't believe I just wrote that

Listen to ur selfs speak, asking him to send his wife away is not fair,  have you all considerd her reasons for her action. Am not saying what she did was right, but for the love of God forgive her please. what if it was the woman that caught her hubby will you guys not as her to forgive him, @ poster please, please forgive her i know is too had to, but we are all humans please do this and God will bless you.

divorce her for what? it was just Olu the plumber checking if all the faucets are in order!

Forgive ko forgive ni . Na so e easy ?.u better send anm comot for ur house befor u start to dey send one Bastard Pikin go Havard !lol

@poster,pls tak tins ez but i agree wiv wot sombody sed dat u suld let her parents knw cos if u jst kip quiet all in d name of luv n vows she wont knw d gravity of wot she has done.tell her families n c their reactions.

3some opportunity be that. You can pretend you and your wife are having a threesum ryt there. She won't even be able to refuse.

I think our larwwwdd himself will understand if you bury them both alive.

A wife that will cheat on you will kill you.

In a case where she brings the man on to your matrimonial bed, you are already dead.

You need to be raised like Lazarus.

Well, what your wife has done is defintely BAD, however i think you should endeavor to find out what prompted her to behave this way. No woman gets up just like that to do this kind of thing. nothing pass arrangement. She's your wife, try to work things out. Everybody makes mistakes and deserves a second chance to right their wrongs. Remember, it's not advisable to wash your dirty linnen in public. i know u must be shocked, dissapointed and all but try to keep calm. communication is the key.

Have u cheated on her b4? (no insult intended).