I just wonder if people who cheat ever regret it? Are there people who are reform now and will never cheat?.When a person cheats it is a whole family involved.You could lose or hurt your children,relatives or friends on either side. Was it worth it ?

Stolen kisses they say are usually the sweetest

Depending on why the person cheated, and if they get caught. Once a cheat in a relationship- always a cheat!

but since I have been cheating, I have never regret it once. it seems I was born-to-cheat, I don't know how stop sthis

dobodobo:

but since I have been cheating, I have never regret it once. it seems I was born-to-cheat, I don't know how stop sthis

Very easy to stop cheating, cut it off.

They never reform.

They think they are SUPERMEN/WOMEN , but, check them when their 50.

They only regret it when they get caught and kicked out! They never reform. Cheaters are gutless and spineless no matter if its male or female. Would love to chat with them in their old age when they are alone cos no one wants them cos they are cheaters and their bits are all worn out,

Listen! A cheater is always a cheater, it is a habit. Even when you catches cheating, he or she may stop for sometime but it will not stop. That person will look for smarter ways to do it. Quit and move one if you are not a cheater yourself.

people people people. . . . . . . . . . . .
a cheater would only regret or reform if A) he gives a damn about the gal who caught him B) he is about to loose her due to the cheating.

since we all know that many women out there dont break up relationships after catching their BFs cheating, its safe to say that the cheaters have no reason to regret anything and may only "reform" (upgrade their game) so that they dont get caught again. lol!

Yes am reform. well I have cut down on chasing p55y i see on the roads
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Anyone who cheats on you can actually kill you as well.
So, I do not spare any cheat.
I post their photographs in public to disgrace them and expose them until they repent.

Orikinla:

Anyone who cheats on you can actually kill you as well.

How can you equate double-dating with murder?

Mr Cork:

Orinkila, bro u do not chiit coz u dont have a woman,, dont lie!! (no ofense)

I had one for years until she was caught cheating whilst still sleeping with me in unprotected sex.

I would have been killed when I was going to visit her and ran into armed robbers.
She swore that she was faithful until Facebook helped me to catch the AKwa Ibom LovePeddler named QIE.
If I consider the risks I took, I would have shot her. But I have forgiven her.

I have an Igbo woman now and I am happier.

with tym, the rate of chasing after kpomo reduces,


but it never ends, its like an alcoholic


do u know they have sex rehab centers

Stolen kisses they say are usually the sweetest

and quickies

Ben-10:

They only regret when they are caught in the act.
Especially the men. Sometimes, the women regret and even confess.

The one I caught was not repentant, because she wanted to continue cheating since we were in different states. But I caught the dick sucker.
(should I post her photo if you doubt me?)

It is better and safer to QUIT than to CHEAT.

But, they will not quit, because they are evil.

kobikwelu:

with tym, the rate of chasing after kpomo reduces,


but it never ends, its like an alcoholic[/b]

do u know they have intimacy rehab centers

For some it's an addition, they only stop when they cant get a [b]fix,they are unable to pull anymore.

^^^ unfortunately,as long as people are attracted to money, a man can pull well into his 90s (check Anna Nicole Smith husband for that)

you guys are talking about cheaters like they are some kind of handicapped person walking around that people look and point fingers at. unfortunately some of these cheaters are "happily"married and unless, caught nobody will even suspect them of playing the field. so why should they stop getting"snacks" before dinner?!

the only reason a cheater will stop and become faithful is when HE has decided to do so (for whatever reason) or if ALL women suddenly grew extra brain or these women decided to never deal with married men ever again. nothing or nobody can successfully force one to stop chasing tail. its a myth!
they just upgrade their games to become less obvious, just like upgrading your system from a 1.0 to a 2.0.

just look around you, some are well into their 50s and up, happily married with adult kids and happily doing what they have done all their lives. . . . . . . . . CHEATING!
like they say:"what you dont know cant hurt you".

^^^^No disrespect but that money thing does not work on all girls. Anna what's her name had something wrong with her head and much good the old dude's money did for her in the end.

I've seen a few old player guys, no matter how much money they have the AVERAGE girl would have to hide it if she did a thing with them.

Your right, most players are just normal guys but, they have one big problem, the chase gives them a thrill.

^^^my point was that since society and most people(men and women) are all after money, any 90 yr old player with funds will get all the extra coochie he desires therefore your point about them "retiring" is baseless.

this sugar daddy thingy is embedded in the 9ja society,that WE like it or not, young gals and boys will give themselves away for a handful of Nairas, a BB or simply a warm meal and a night at a fancy hotel.

yeah the chase is the thrill but not as great as the "finalizing the deal"

MRbrownJAY:

^^^my point was that since society and most people(men and women) are all after money, any 90 yr old player with funds will get all the extra coochie he desires therefore your point about them "retiring" is baseless.

this sugar daddy thingy is embedded in the 9ja society,that WE like it or not, young gals and boys will give themselves away for a handful of Nairas, a BB or simply a warm meal and a night at a fancy hotel.

yeah the chase is the thrill but not as great as the "finalizing the deal"

Honestly lets say what's a fact MOST cheaters HAVE TO retire. Look at the Stringfellow guy, very few decent looking girls would go for him anymore. He can get some but most would be hmmm, well I don't think you would want that type of girl.


Your last statement interests me, what do you mean? are you talking about sex?

WOOPS, stringfellow may have been a bad example, if he's still married his wife looks nice .

^^^of course its all about s e x! more like both while sex being the main point. no point in climbing the mountain if you cant stick your flag at the top and claim the prize!

as much as we all hate to say it, all men are attracted to new/finer/sexier/younger gals. the catch is that many wouldnt go along and do it (cheat) out of respect for the gal we are dating/married to.

men and women have different needs, men can just look at tittay and a$$ and have a hard on, no need for passion, kissing, caressing, pre-intimacy or whatever "most" women need. thats why men will find cheating so easy to do(with just about anybody)

as i always say, men who dont cheat are just men who A) have too much to loose B) havent found the right opportunity to cheat C) dont have the balls to do it (yes, it takes guts to cheat)

as for Stringfellow, the guy owns a stripclub for Christ sake. do you think his wifey is there every night to make sure that he doesnt get "freebies"?
Viagra has made even MORE of these oldmen go gaga because before most of these guys couldnt even get it up and consummate their prize properly.

^^^^If what you say is true then that's just too sad.Maybe Polygamy not that bad then.

Some men really do not cheat, my father did not (well to the best of my knowledge) and my ex did not, and not for the reasons you've given.

^^^^care to tell us why your ex didnt cheat?!
btw: "because he loved me" falls into category A, he couldnt/wouldnt jeopardize the love you guys had.

also remember that just because you havent caught someone cheating, doesnt mean they dont. it just means that they "might" be highly skilled in the art.