a woman is the man's glory,so what happens when she is caught in bed with another man by her husband?

heaven go fall! women usually dont get forgiven like men are. if a woman cheats she'll probably get thrown out and her kids taken from her. the hypocrisy of men stinks to the high heavens!

well what happens in most cases is divorce or separation, men hardly ever forgive cheating. I have never cheated on my husband, never will and i know he would never forgive if i did. I asked him this question once, why men don't forgive , or should i say why men don't stay with a woman after they have cheated? The thing is they can forgive, i think its just that they can't be with a woman who has cheated, it does something to their egos. Well my husband said if a man really loves a woman he wont have her after she has cheated , because for one, they hate being vunerable and two the pride thing.

Women tend to "forgive" their husbands because they are financially dependent on the men. That's all.

When a woman leaves her husband, other men run way from her. When a man does same, women flock around him!

of course they flock around him to take your vacant place!

but i think women have become really good in not being caught cos the consequences are dire.

it has more to do with ego and vunerability than any thing else as some one has rightly mentioned.

It is better not to cheat than to cheat and be caught!

the poster asked a simple question which demands a simple reply. abi.

the question is what happens to a woman that cheats on her husband? the answer is such a woman will be emboldened to cheat some more. period!
she will have less respect for her husband, her family and her body.
in fact, she will start stinking slowly,slowly,slowly,slowly.

Hmm Our modern day ideals and way of life. May it not cause us situations we cannot handle. I'll still love to taste my wife's cooking anyday. In a situation where she cant cook, i'll patiently see her through her learning process since that's not the focal point of the marriage.
Having said that it doesn't it doesn't kill the value a cooking wife brings to the relationship or marriage. Good sex and good food and you are knocking at the door of a prosperous union.
Even the whites we all think behave differently still place value on home made food. The best romantic dinners are still those candle light dinners with home made food. You can see the pride on their faces.
Women, never miss that feeling, you feel when you see your guy enjoying your food. You can get anything from him in most cases even his DEATH!

oops sorry i guess i posted that one on the wrong thread. Forgive me!

Our African society is less forgiving of a woman cheating on her husband.

when a man cheat on his wife, he feels guilty when he see her
   so at times the man  may buy his wife gift just to clear his guilty conscience. and some men will kind of get close to the wife more becouse of the guilt they felt inside.
   some men even go to the wife and confess.
  but when a woman cheat on her man, the woman kind of look at the man with no respect, she will look at the man short commings, maybe the man cannot  perform sexually like the other guy , then hatred will start. she will start thinking of the other guy the more. as time goes on she will be thinking/ hopping the husband die so she can have a free hand to do what she want with her concubine
SO WHEN A WOMAN CHEAT ON A REAL MAN, YOU DIVORCE HER. EVEN THE BIBLE ACCEPT THIS.

It depends on the financial situation.

If the woman is the sole breadwinner, nothing happens when she cheats because the man depends on her money.
If she depends on the man, then the man will definitely send her out.

Nothing. Most cases the husband is deaf or too blind to see.

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